Tam, let them talk about it. People often don't want to talk about death with someone who has just lost someone, and that is exactly what they need to do. Be there. Listen. Let her talk about it, especially over the next few months when most people will avoid it.
Marki, I'm so sad for you. I've had to do this many times and it's so very hard. I always say that dogs are like having permanent toddlers. You take care of them constantly. And this makes it that much harder to lose them. Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of a beloved family member.
RE: "I feel that it's time to say goodbye."
Well, I am glad she's still here with us. I just popped on tonight and this was the first thing I saw.PB, I'm glad you have stuck around with us!!!