Well I have to say that men are not the only ones that go for the visual, I wouldnt contact someone that had no pic. having said once the pic catches my eye I do read the profile and dont make contact if I feel we wouldnt have anything in common
Sincce it isnt always easy to know what to say to someone in that first mail, I would always respond to a mail, even if it is simply a comment on my pic,,,whats wrong with someone saying 'Hi you have a nice smile' as an opener?
And not everyone on here is interested in the forums so that wouldnt bother me either.
the fact that it is seen as not being genuine is unfortunate. That the young dude is after the old ladies wealth...It is true that from past experiences, am for example likely to date a much older woman that myself.
There is the element of caring, concern that older women possess. Some level of maturity that young ambitious guy like me really admire and would never find in a teenager or a girl in their early 20's.[/quote]
perhaps if you found some level of maturity yourself, ladies might take an interest in you
vonney Forum Posts (6,371)
rushes off to email this to all female friends.
RE: sing your heart out :)
Couldnt possibly follow that pet.All the notes in my head are out of tune