yep, very wise words vonney - i reckon its about breaking patterns of behaviour too - life can sure as heck chuck us some curveballs to deal with and we have to get on with it or go under[/quote
For some people the negative is their comfort zone, they may be miserable but they know how that feels and accept it.
Our thoughts affect our mood which affects our behaviour which affects our thought which affects our mood which affects out behaviour and on and on
What we need to do is break the cycle of negative thought, for some people this is as easy as telling themselves to 'cope on' 'snap out of it' etc. or getting out and going for a walk. For others it is much harder, perhaps because of depression or learned negative thoughts because of abusive relationships, for these people the negative thoughts are predominant and it takes time to recognise what is actually behind these and to learn to break the pattern.
If people saw how hard these athletes train for the games and the dedication they put in, not to mention the joy of taking part, then people wouldnt be so quik to make jokes
I think women do make the first move more than is obvious, even to themselves...most guys that have ever asked me out or chatted me up have done so after some encourgement from me, sometimes verbal sometimes not
I speak from experience, have had the drop dead gorgeous,god fearing, children loving,kind hearted..guys contact me, only to get the request for money for the orphanage they are working in .....
This amazing guy wrote me. I'm thinking as I'm reading his three emails now if he's for real. He's just amazing; he's travelled all over the world and is a writer (writing is my passion) and he's totally hot. I mean drop-dead gorgeous. He wants to talk more today... He's a flat out 10; I usually don't go for guys with looks like that, but I sent my pic and he said he thought I was really pretty. So, who knows? I feel like he cut out a pic of a model or something and sent it to me!
This is not intended to rain on your parade but please be careful ok...sometimes if it seems to good to be true than it is..
He may well be for real, all I am saying is show caution for your own sake.
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