Not my thread, it´s taters... but an interesting topic. I´ve had to be one of those strong capable women, but sometimes it would be sooooo nice to turn it over to somebody else for a while... or at least get a little support.
I think it´s sadly lacking. What people don´t seem to understand is that if you want freedom you have to accept the responsibilities of your own actions. America seems to have become a place where no is responsible for anything anymore... there is always someone else you can sue or blame for the things that happen in your life and as long as people don´t accept responsibility there will be more and more rules and laws controlling what you do.
I live on a little island in the middle of the med and we have a tremendous amount of personal freedom here, but guess what... if you screw up you can´t sue anyone and you suffer the consequences... and I wouldn´t have it any other way.
Ok they don´t talk about what they´re going to wear... but the what kind of lure did you use... what size engine... etc are pretty common topics and often start from the types of pictures I´m talking about. Like I said, I´m probably overly sensitive on these issues because of past experiences.
I think the pets are great... I´m probably just overly cautious with the fishing and car pictures... I dated a guy years ago who lived for nothing but. I enjoy fishing and camping and tried to be a good sport... but when he promised to take me to a beautiful camp site called falling rock on the road towards lake tahoe and after 3 hours of driving pulled into a roadside turnout that had a warning sign "falling rocks" and announced we had reach our destination...
It would make me think twice... I know it could be a sister, a good friend, or the only handy picture you have of yourself... but I would still think "why would he post a pict of himself with a woman if he´s looking for someone?"
You can always ask... doesn´t mean you´ll like the answer. I usually think one of two things... either they are in a job that it could hurt them to be seen on a dating site, or they´re afraid to let people know who they are... just my thoughts
Not making a judgement and maybe there are a lot of other women out there who feel differently then I do... but when I see a guys picture with a fish or his car I wonder who he´s actually trying to attract... the other guys or a woman?
Shall I run and hide now... really it´s not meant as a critisism, just curious .
Hi Kid I couldn´t agree with you more. I´ve never been into the traditional types of first dates... going for dinner or a movie. I much prefer a walk on the beach or in a park so you can have a real conversation and get to know one another. Cost, what it takes to get there. Then if you´re really hitting it off, grab a casual bite somewhere,,,
Hi Kid I couldn´t agree with you more. I´ve never been into the traditional types of first dates... going for dinner or a movie. I much prefer a walk on the beach or in a park so you can have a real conversation and get to know one another. Cost, what it takes to get there. Then if you´re really hitting it off, grab a casual bite somewhere,,,
I was 18, a friend brought him to my party, he juggled eggs in my kitchen and broke them all... We spent the next 3 days and nights together and spent 3 amazing years together. I ended it for incredibly stupid reasons but never stopped loving him and hope he´s had a happy and fulfilled life.
The only thing that would make me stay in a bad relationship is that it had the potential to become a good relationship and both parties were willing to work towards that.
RE: Equality, do women really want it
Not my thread, it´s taters... but an interesting topic. I´ve had to be one of those strong capable women, but sometimes it would be sooooo nice to turn it over to somebody else for a while... or at least get a little support.