It is lovely and I have to say bournemouth, I get along with all I interact with, some people don't like me, fine, they can stay away from me.
If they don't like me, but choose to interact with me, and have a go, then they can expect a cool frosty response, but they should not complain when they do, their choice not to like me, not mine. I never lose sleep over any of it.
They should just stay away, I have to laugh though, when I see jibes made about me.
I guess it is down in how secure one is in themselves, if they have to come here to feel popular, and loved then they will react.
I only need to raise an eyebrow. Some of my students say, I only have to look.
My students who are all 17/18 year olds and mainly male, are all bigger and stronger than me, one of them said 'You only have to look at us Ms Sommer and we are quivering'
Ah John, I wish you could find the lady of your dreams, I just cannot understand why ladies cannot see you for the lovely man you are.
Maybe try another site, cut down your expectations from here, the forums are great, and you are one of the contributors that I always enjoy reading, contribute here and find another site that maybe concentrates more on the dating side of it.
I don't know, all these people here who are so wonderful and yet still alone...
You, Sassy, Hugz, Lela and countless others, there to be snapped up and nobody does...
Not sad, goodness no, it is just amazing to me why people cannot see it like I do.
This is why I don't have good friends from forums.
I have good friends that I see, the few that I do have from here, are who I know, who I trust and we are of the same mind.
When we let ourselves become so embroiled with the inner workings of such places, feelings get hurt, promises get broken and words are said that cannot be unsaid. Because it is only words.
There is no fact to face, there is no hugging, there is no body language.
Only words and when you have only words, then they can become so powerful. Words are powerful, very much so, they can hurt, slay and accuse the most terrible things. But when we rely on them solely in places such as this, then we will get hurt.
I have my man, who I met here, but we have a life, where other things than a forum are important and what people think here, those from here that know us, are important, that is enough for us. Wilst I enjoy being here and the banter and fun we have in the EU, and here, but mainly I am here for the EU now, I know that this is not my crutch and for some, it is, hence the arguments.
If I may, are you asking how people feel about having a relationship with more than one person, or if they would like to be with you and another person?
Your thread title and your opening statement are very different.
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I tell you what, we'll grab a dinghy, have a splash about, get wed and then have a few glasses of bubbly and go on honeymoon.Sorted, I am easy to please, you will have no problems with me.