If im gonna extend my patience a bit more... well this is more of an acceptance... I accept him whatever he is. Yeah I expect him to change but not on what he promised to.( get tired of promises).. I dont have to change my perception on guys on making promises, and at the sane time dont lose hope. maybe he'll realize it one day that Im better than his vices.. I have seen some tho.
sometimes Im a bit of giving myself more because I think that could not make everthing right... but Im wrong. I have to find myself and grow independently
Thanks Alabamababe... u have a good point there... we just met... and I dont pressure him or ask him to change right away. he speaks for himself and I appreciate what he's doing with himself. he is a nice guy despite of drinking or smoking. I can see that for myself. Im a good judge of chracter because I was once BAAAAAAAAAd
I like u Jan.... and I dont judge people right away.. Im more of a " I give the person the benefit of the doubt all the time " because I dont want to be judged too.
I dont even start thinkng about it... because I am more sweet and real than that... I have met someon in the net and I really like hm but he wanted to be just off and go.. like friends with benefits... if its friends.. just friends no benefits at all.
good point there. we cant change people but themselves like the one Im dating right now. I dont want to loook like Im invading his right but its good that someone is sharing what you are enjoying.... I weigh eveything tho... he is a nice guy.... except that he smokes and drinks alot.
RE: is there anything that you haven't done in life that you're still looking forward to doing ?
few things I want to do before I die... like working as a volunteer of UN