LeeCharming Forum Posts (6,941)

RE: Best Western ?

Why do old and previously banned members …keep returning to CS?

Red I never thought of you as being a troll...but I do think of you as genuine...kind..fun loving and a lover of nature

Why do old and previously banned members …keep returning to CS?

Agreed Gal...This this not just a dating site...most of the posters...on the threads or blogs...are not looking to date and many have admitted they are not...but they are looking to chat

Why do old and previously banned members …keep returning to CS?

A method previously banned trolls use is…getting others to create profiles for them and having many sock puppet profiles…from various different countries…

I know this…cause I was previously approached by a member…asking me to create a profile for them…I obviously declined and blocked them…you should do the same and let’s try to get rid of these trolls…once and for all…cause they always…end up killing these sites

Why do old and previously banned members …keep returning to CS?

I think many of these old members…were also previously gang members…What goes on Behind the scenes…would be very interesting…The calculated and organised gang attacks…the sabotage of members threads or blogs….either attack or ignore…method…the intimidation of those…who don’t go along…with the agenda.

Unlike many on here….I don’t look to others to defend me…don’t need others to do my dirty work…I only have one profile and this is all I need to get my message across…

I speak my mind and never been interested in being…in a collectivist gang…This is why I think…they target me and fear…people…who won’t conform…to their way of thinking.

I try not to post on their threads or blogs…unless they have something interesting written…It’s is a shame…that people don’t just comment on threads and blogs…which interest them…instead of boycotting them…cause the gang tells them to.

I would say to people...who fear getting a backlash from the gang...to get a backbone and post on any thread...which interests you

Why do old and previously banned members …keep returning to CS?

MOST OF THEM ARE SO CRAZY

Why do old and previously banned members …keep returning to CS?

INTERESTING TO SEE YOU ON THE DEFENSIVE

I DON'T TROLL OTHERS...OTHERS TROLL ME AND THIS IS WHY I KEEP A CLOSE EYE ON...SO CALLED NEW MEMBERS...CHECK THE TYPING STYLES...OF THOSE POSTERS AND WHO THE ALIGN THEMSELVES WITH...

YOU ARE THE ONE WITH MEGLAMANIA AND A VANITY COMPLEX...I DON'T NEED THE ATTENTION...YOU CRAVE FOR AND CAN'T BE WITHOUT

Why do old and previously banned members …keep returning to CS?

I have noticed a lot of the so called new members…are just old members returning and even seen them being referred to…by their old user names.

Why do you think…they keep on returning?
Were they part of an old gang?
Were they trolls?

Did they use sock puppet profiles back then…like they do now?

Recently a very unpleasant troll has returned to this site and YOU MIGHT UNDERSTAND…WHO I AM REFERING TO…WITHOUT MENTIONING THEIR NAME….LET'S JUST SAY…THIS PERSON RESIDES IN AMERICA AND THIS PERSON LIKE A SOUTH AFRICAN WOMAN A LOT…KEEP YOUR EYES OPENED AND BEWARE OF THIS TROLL

Which would you… prefer to date?

You would not know...what a fact was...if it was right in front of you and easy to see...little man...stop worrying about me and concentrate on you...as you clearly have a lot of problems...you need to resolve...I did read your profile and the negativity is oozing from it.

If you expect me to reply to you again...you will stick to the thread subject and answer the questions...I don't like trouble makers and trolls

Which would you… prefer to date?

Single – No children
Single – Children under 18
Single – Children over 18
Married
Divorced
Separated(but still married)
Widowed
Someone in a relationship
Any of the above

Fell free to share your preferences...like I already have and vote

Which would you… prefer to date?

I get a little concerned...when other males... get fascinated by me and my preferences
I am not prepared to discuss them further...especially with other males

Which would you… prefer to date?

I said single and fertile was my first choice...my second choice was single mother with children over 18.

You clearly did not read my thread properly and got it all wrong

plus you personally attacked me...for no reason at all

Which would you… prefer to date?

No you went off subject

Which would you… prefer to date?

Single – No children
Single – Children under 18
Single – Children over 18
Married
Divorced
Separated(but still married)
Widowed
Someone in a relationship
Any of the above

feel free to share your views on the subject and vote

Which would you… prefer to date?

Hold your horses...You were saying dating is not dating anymore and instead a hookup culture...you were also complaining about men not acting traditional anymore...I was explaining why things have change and what cause the change...I know things are bad and they used to be good...

You went off subject and I was simply responding to you...out of politeness and defending why most men are not chivalrous anymore

I'm happy to return to the subject now

Which would you… prefer to date?

When it comes to modern dating problems…it’s mostly down to women…expecting perfection or nothing at all…

Women can’t expect to be treated traditionally…when they don’t think traditional and certainly don’t act traditionally

If you want to talk about the old days…The Traditional family unit was a strong one…two parent households were the norm and a father…would vet the men…who wanted to date his daughter and for good reason….most women were virgins before marriage and many men too
I have said it many times before and doubt people will take notice…feminism…is what changed everything…broke up and destroyed the traditional family unit…divided men and women…turned women against men…created a hostile environment for men(metoo} so how do women expect men to be trusting and honest about their intentions…like they once were?

Chivalry is only dead…cause women turned their backs on traditionalism and femininity…but too many still expect to have their cake and eat it.

How many modern women…were virgins…before they got married and how many men…did their fathers vet?

Considering the large number of single parent households and divorces…I doubt many

RE: ???????????THIS IS A DATING SITE????????????

Well you cut back on the profanity...so that is an improvement...but you being the substance...I beg to differ and I can't see...what make's you standout...maybe too many lonely men on here...who let their standards go...chasing around and posting on the threads of any woman...they think they might have a chance with

RE: ???????????THIS IS A DATING SITE????????????

What I find strange...is the rubbish threads...which have 99, 000+ views I could understand the views...if the thread had substance...had a decent subject matter and was not just about feeding one personal megalomania and massive vanity complex

The lack of variety...sensible thread topics...new members joining and too much politics being played behind the scenes...is the reason for a lot of the negativity...I just wonder...who is behind it all

Which would you… prefer to date?

thanks for your contribution

Which would you… prefer to date?

Thanks for your mature contribution and sharing your personal views on the subject

Which would you… prefer to date?

Single – No children
Single – Children under 18
Single – Children over 18
Married
Divorced
Separated(but still married)
Widowed
Someone in a relationship
Any of the above

Feel free to share your views on the subject...Try to be calm and stick to the subject...I don't take sides on arguments between people and I think it's best...if they want argue...write their own threads and have at it.

Which would you… prefer to date?

I can see the goofing around has started again...a sensible subject and relevant on a dating site...but all they want to do is insult each other and forget the subject altogether...It's like a school playground on this site at times

Which would you… prefer to date?

Which would you… prefer to date? Vote now

Which would you… prefer to date?

Ok people...lets try to keep calm and just share are view points on the subject
By the way...the thread my thread and no one elses

Which would you… prefer to date?

thanks for sharing

Which would you… prefer to date?

Very wise

Which would you… prefer to date?

No I am talking about my preferences...nothing more...you are very paranoid and you like to throw mud for no reason

Which would you… prefer to date?

Which would you… prefer to date?

What consider to be baggage or red flags?

Which would you… prefer to date?

If I was given the choice...between single mother with children under 18 or single mother with children over 18...I would choose...the single mother with children over 18