When we think of the internet, we see ease of use of everything visual, we can study on-line, contact people far away, look-up's of just about anything you can imagine...
This will most probably evolve into virtual reality, very soon, as well.
Will we then ever get away from the cell phone, tablet, etc. We will be living in our imaginations, and what others can conjure up too...
If you look through the Forums, you pick up indicators, to show that the person, that had just made the comment, is showing the person they are replying to, or referring to in the comment, that they are very interested in them...
People are only concerned with others, when they have made a significant impression on them, being it emotionally, intellectually, or physically...
They will deny it extremely too...but the deed was done...saved on the server already...
Have you noticed it, and what were the indications you observed?
Do you let insignificant events / people affect you... Who / What are the most important in your life... You / Your family / Friends / Acquaintances / Animals... Are the people / events above any of those... Just ignore them...
Enjoy your life...Every second of it...It is very precious...
That's just it: This person feels that he / she is not the person you are looking for, because of his / her invalid impression of themselves, where actually they are the right one...!!!
Let's take an example: A guy and a gal corresponding re personality & intimacy. They meet with the sole purpose to get to know each other, on a personal and physical level. They both find the persona they meet to be utterly foreign to the habits stipulated via correspondence...
When someone tells you something about themselves, you compare it to the way they act...Amazing...It invariably don't match...
Now the question is: Who gave them their ideas of themselves? Family they grew up with, Friends trying to me nice
Should we sugar-coat observations, to make the other person feel better, or must we be blunt, and hurt their feelings, or let them find out for themselves, the hard way...?
If someone comes up to you...and in your face starts swearing grossly...in real life I would turn away and walk off...here I don't have that option...when they come into your thread...you tackle them...
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Actions showing Interest / Attraction...
Characteristic:You visit an Unusual for you thread, and notice you mentioned a couple of times...
Gossip?