In the Forums, people sometimes aims to hurt and severely damage your psyche, due to jealousy, being hurt by something like-wise, just being nasty, etc. How do you react?
Most will return the post in kind, while others will cringe and remove themselves. Then you have the serial Back-Stabbers. What do you do with someone spreading hate of you where-ever they go? I guess you can return it in kind as well, but not very advisable. Now here comes the convenient Ignore Button, between your ears. You do a U-Turn where-ever they are. You see nothing, you comprehend nothing, you have suddenly completely gone simple-minded. Does this work in the long-run, is the question?
Google: belonging to or for the use of one particular person or group of people only. "all bedrooms have private facilities" synonyms: personal, one's own, individual, particular, special, exclusive, privately owned "his private plane" antonyms: public (of a conversation, activity, or gathering) involving only a particular person or group, and often dealing with matters that are not to be disclosed to others. "this is a private conversation" synonyms: confidential, strictly confidential, secret, top secret, classified, unofficial, off the record, not for publication, not to be made public, not to be disclosed, closet; More backstage, offstage, privileged, one-on-one, tête-à-tête; covert, clandestine, surreptitious; in camera; informalhush-hush "his private talks with the UK prime minister" antonyms: open, public (of thoughts and feelings) not to be revealed to others. "she felt awkward at intruding on private grief" synonyms: intimate, personal, secret; More innermost, inward, unspoken, undeclared, undisclosed, unvoiced, sneaking, hidden "their private thoughts on the subject" (of a person) choosing not to reveal their thoughts and feelings to others. "he was a very private man" synonyms: reserved, introvert, introverted, self-contained, reticent, discreet, uncommunicative, non-communicative, media-shy, unforthcoming, secretive, retiring, ungregarious, unsocial, unsociable, withdrawn, solitary, insular, reclusive, hermit-like, hermitic "he was a very private man" antonyms: extrovert (of a place) quiet and free from people who may interrupt. "can we go somewhere a little more private?" synonyms: secluded, secret, quiet, undisturbed, concealed, hidden, remote, isolated, out of the way, sequestered "he hustled her away, searching for some private spot" antonyms: busy, crowded (especially of two people) alone and undisturbed by others. "we can phone from the library—we'll be private in there" synonyms: undisturbed, uninterrupted, without disturbance, without interruption; More alone, by ourselves "we can phone from the library—we'll be private in there" 2. (of a person) having no official or public role or position. "the paintings were sold to a private collector"
"I'm sure you can find something above to relate to?"
Will you only disclose the bare basics, and no too personal a detail, but again then what is too personal to you? This private changes from one person to the next that you come in contact with! Some you will bare your soul too, while most others get a blank wall...
This is a very touchy subject, and not all will participate, as their private is not to be discussed at all...can yours be...or is your Private too Private too...
smiley963 Forum Posts (3,651)
If a post hurts your Psyche...What do you do about it?
You need not look for the post, as it will be put on your current thread...!!!