on a serious note, though, this is very true. a lot of times, God's sending help but we just refuse to accept or we're just to blind to see and too deaf to hear.
let's face it, media has been bugging us for ages. but lets's not forget that the media industry are also people who magnifies everything. we probably also put a high premium on the notion that "reality is what the majority deems it to be" so if 9 out of ten people agree on one thing, the one remaining can only do so much
very true. and also geeky-looking guys/gals don't necessarily have to be accepted as intellectuals. its sad sometimes because people categorize individuals by merely looking at them....this one - stupid...that guy -- geek...oh a sharp dresser -- must be smart too...oh...and then there's four-eyes...and the list goes on
im going through exactly the same thing...(he's from dublin by the way)
why not go out. have fun(at least try) cry if you have to(wink) wallow if you have to...but then make a choice...wallow in self-pity and hurt or get up and make her see what she's missing...
Im sure she's a great girl but keep in mind you're also a great guy...so we have two great people who might be meant for someone else...
RE: I'm over her, now what?
just a question:do you think you're still afraid to really open ur heart to someone else?
fear can be such a major factor...