lol im a singl full tme dad so kno waht yor talking about in hear i have my 11 yer old sun for the last 5 yers and my ex takes him when she can she works 2 jobs ? i dont get that as she hs a bf o well and some times once a week some times twice her shegewell is speratick i triy to acomadate her but i feel its not to her satisfakshon i get chewd on qwite often by her but i wold not change or give up on my sun i am his father and he is with me and im prowd and love hime very mutch as eney perent wold and as for rools and gide lines as long as it dosent case perminint damige or hert them moraly or mently its good but your childron will love you and respekt you for beaing ferm and fear with your rools dont wory about yor ex be awnest and ferm and fear most of all love them and be ther when thay fall as you alwase have bean as i sence you are a grate mother with too mutch hart step back look at them listin think then say it not yell it as thay dont hear you when yelling good luck sweety tc
i have 3 kids and servived the teen yers on 2 of themsome waht please dont take this rong a lott of perints mostly wiman be frend ther dauters and have a hard time dividing the perent / frend thing and it makes it hard as a perint to administer rools boundrys and sutch as dauters get confused and use the your my frend thing and make the mother feel gilty or presherd by ther owen feelings of wanting to give your child all you can witch is normel
your child or young adult teen will respekt you more if you set your gide lines and stick to them and make them think or use ther hed witch a lott of perints dont let ower children doo for them selves
lisen to me coming of like dr spock i wish you the best of luck listin to your hart and use your hed thay dont cume with instrukshons lol lol
are you in to snow bording skiing and sutch then british columbia is wher its at sun shine in the mountans this year was grate sean only a month of raine throo the hole spring and summer it was awsom
new chik i totly under stand bean ther in some ways my spelling is bad dew too being deslexick and other reasons being with a disability that no one wold evin kno i get treeted qwote normel but as soon as eney one finds out your deslexic thay treet you like you are lesser a person and look down at you on top of this im bypoler i fownd out 3 yers back and im medacated for life witch is fine as it has inprooved my life in a lot of ways but to evry gaine on my meds ther is a loss or a negitive wate gaine is one and i have gained a bitt of wate witch i dont like but i have to deal with it as well as i have to watch waht other off the shelff meds im useing like advill i cant have as it destroys kidnys on my meds and coffsuerip i cold go in to coma it suks to be me at times lol
i fownd that if the norme ever had to go throo the indegnity that you or i have had to its like a bully in an adult form riping your close off in front of the hole world in day lite with 1000 peple watching them dooing this atrosety to you and condoning it for ther entertainement
you kno humin beings are some times no beter than chikins in a chickin coop picking at the one sick chikin tell it diyes o waht a wonderfull world we live n
if this has afended eney one my apoligys but its my poyint of vew and im sticking to it naaaaaa lol
lol ok ty mychelle well my boss alredy fierd me 2 yers back for inosent absenteaisum and it went to arbetrashon and i wone my job back and bean back for 1 year and a haff i hardly think that he wold get the cuhoneys to oo it againe speshily with the minuewt isuews he wold find in hear and im in a unuin job and you have humin rites as well as other orgenizashons in ower goverment that wold take cear of things or maybe not ? lol
yes happy thanksgiving too all of you hear im cooking tomoreow for my sun a frend and my self shold be a good day as long as the ex dosent chew on me for some thing
rider 82 be more spisific waht kind of piercings are you looking for ive bean dooing piercins for 5 yers are you looking for info on how to doo a lebray a prince albert so on so forth and tatoos run hand in hand with this subjekt
i look for a person with a hart and spirited with good morels and skoopls ho is very compashinet and fun to be around hoo likes the simpl things in life i dont like nerow minded apinuitive peple hoo judge peple bye ther disabilitys or lack of educashon im one of those peple
hoos not lazy but as you can see i cant spell so let me in liten you a littil my disability came from a sever beating from my father when i was 6 months old it made me globel depashea brain damige if you think i cold write and spell better i wold love that but its not posibel i have workt very hard to over cume my disability the best that i can now you may like to say not intelegent i beg to difer ienstine had a low edgecashon was deslexic as well ive had my iq tested in the hospetal lets just say im no slowtch a littil histry for you my grate aunt won the nobell prize in 1928 for 3 books of litricher her nam was segred undseth my one brother ownse his owen meat brokredg and my unger brother is a school teatcher
the bigest shame of this is that peple are looking so hard for that perfickt giy or gal that thay for get how to be compashenit of others and refuse to exsept the difrences in one another and just open up and be happy with waht life ofers you best of luck
hi all its just me i play guitar and meny instrements for valintines day i rode my harly to my ex wifes work with 12 long stemd chocklets a card walkt in to a full resteront dropt to one kne and sang rex smiths you take my breth a way
i did this 3 times for her she dident like it nor did she apreaseate it at all but evry one elce did and it wasint my voyse as i have one contests for vokels and creokys standing ovashons in packt bars i ges she was the rong woman for me o well
im living in a town of 7000 hear i wes dooing fine tell my ex sister in law spred nasty roomers abou me in my town if you havent herd a roumer by 10 am you start one lol its nice to be abel to meet other peple hear with simeler delemas
lonly 1 with my hart i have to say this as i have went throo this as meney have i had a 10 yer merige loved my wife very mutch 3 kids and all throo waht evry one has told you is good advice but it sownds like you want out i did the opeset i spent 2 yers triying to save my merrige to a mate hoo dident want the merige but showd me throo croolty how to feel like a fool as she invited meny men too her bed while i was giving her space yes liyd to and deseaved the one thing that i kno is i gave my merige its all and i can walk a way with a clear conchence im a singl dad of an 11 yer old he is now my life and joy waht ever your choyse is make sher you walk with a morel and rite disishon so that you can rest your mind and sole that its the rite thing to do for you
pink leminade hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i have one better i hd to tear my bord apart and clean it i have a west hilend /cearen terreras a pup got up on my puter desk and peed on it i was not a happy camper but he was a puppy i for gave him lol
noooooooooooooooooo leve the 20 feet of snow and the husky dog teams and ower BEER to us let them think wer livin in igloos ok and keep them foold so wee keep it to ower selves lol
well ive bean hear for a week this is my ferst post hear if you have probloms reading this my apoligys as im deslexic from a beating i toolk from my father at 6 months old
this sorta tiys in too this thred my mother adopted me and my sivlings out as my father thretind to kill us and my mom went to creace clinick knowing that she may never see us a gaine my father was peranoyde skitsophranick and very vilent
ther are reasons that a perint may give up ther children mentl illness finace
the out coume is depending on the age of the chiled it cold be very damiging emoshenly and mently to the child for a life long battel on mentl helth of the child
im a singl father of a 10 yer old boy i seperated 5 yers back
againe thear are reasons y perints or mothers and fathers walk a way
i will never walk a way from my sun ever
i hope this helps a gaine im deslexic my apoligys for my spelling
RE: Setting Boundaries
lol im a singl full tme dad so kno waht yor talking about in hear i have my 11 yer old sun for the last 5 yers and my ex takes him when she can she works 2 jobs ? i dont get that as she hs a bf o well and some times once a week some times twice her shegewell is speratick i triy to acomadate her but i feel its not to her satisfakshon i get chewd on qwite often by her but i wold not change or give up on my sun i am his father and he is with me and im prowd and love hime very mutch as eney perent wold and as for rools and gide lines as long as it dosent case perminint damige or hert them moraly or mently its good but your childron will love you and respekt you for beaing ferm and fear with your rools dont wory about yor ex be awnest and ferm and fear most of all love them and be ther when thay fall as you alwase have bean as i sence you are a grate mother with too mutch hart step back look at them listin think then say it not yell it as thay dont hear you when yelling good luck sweety tc