I personally prefer not living with a partner.I love having a man,but I also love having my own place.I pick the colors of my walls,what to watch on tv and which direction on the roll the tp faces.I think it just works for some people and not for others.
The problem with the "right under your nose"theory.Is sometimes you find someone with all that you are looking for,and they still arent the right one.thats like looking for someone with blue eyes and assuming just because the person you met has blue eyes,that you'll click.I'm not trying to argue here,just stating that a relationship cant be built on personal tastes alone.there has to be chemistry.
My grandpa set me up with my x-husband...but I cant blaim him.I was the idiot who married the guy.He had us all fooled.I welcome meeting new people,most of the time my family can be good judges of charecter.
I only read profiles with pics.but if somebody writes me without one and i like the profile,i reply.I just hate when men write me and say nice pic,and then they dont have one.
I hope not.I always kill my plants...thankfully my pets are still alive.I need pets that will nag me to feed them.My cat jumps up and bites my butt when she's hungry.If I could train a plant to do it,I'd probably keep it alive longer.
I used to think I would want to live in Maine,but then I realized I HATE cold.Now I have no particular preferance,although in the mountains near a lake would be nice.Thats where I lived when I was a kid.
loving somebody and being in love are 2 very seperate things.I dont mind loving someone,but when i fall in love,I lose who I am.I lose my independant thinking,I lose my insight(or jerk radar).I let the person I'm in love with walk on me.I dont want to fall in love.Its not a fear issue.its a personal choice.I dont like myself when I'm in love.I would rather just enjoy who I'm with and go with the moment.
Ok,people just want to date healthy people.I'm only 92 lbs,but when men hear that I have crohn's disease and osteo,they run as fast as if i was 400 lbs.Obesity does cause health problems,but some are simply genteics.And if I hear rail thin or anerexic looking one more time I'll scream.what?its okay for obese people to call thin women names,but we cant say "that fat chick"?now thats bs.This issue has nothing to do with weight,everybody has a type and preferance.my x-husband was overweight,but I've dated toned men too.It's whatever I'm attracted to at the time.
I personally cant stand axe.but thats because my x husband used to spray it on thick.sandlewood is nice.also like tommy.anytime a man tries to impress a woman,its sweet.
I have to prefer the singles site here lately.Otherwise I never would have met my soulmate.if you're meant to be with somebody,it'll happen.This just makes things simpler.
kissychristina Forum Posts (231)
all the country boys around here are either married or over 60.
RE: beards or no beards what do you think?
I just want a man who I'll still want when he's old grey and wrinklrd....hair comes and goes.