I am sorry that I was stupid enough not to look after myself (as much as I look after those around me) and am at home spluttering and coughing and feeling generally miserable.
Just went online and read the preview. It sounds kind of cool. Congratulations to your boy - and you of course seeing as you made him :) Do you know if it is available for Kobo books? (that is the other e-reader gizmo. I have that one)
I always look at this website as being like a bar. Sometimes it's crowded, sometimes empty, some are quite chatty, others like to just listen in on conversations, some are a**hole, some are nice. And if someone sends me a message or a flower, it's kind of like someone saying hi to you in a bar. My inclination is to answer. How I answer either encourages further correspondence or it doesn't. It doesn't have to be rude, just honest. As in a bar, I would never completely ignore someone who took the energy to make contact with me. On that note, I always reply to everyone....even the obvious scammers, because who knows, maybe the person is not a scammer, just a bad writer :) I appreciate it also when someone responds to a hi that I may shout out. I actually feel a bit hurt if someone completely ignores me, so I try not to do the same.
Aye, but therein lies the rub...change is inevitable. Physiologically the cells of different tissues in our body are in a constant state of change. Cells die, cells regenerate and replace themselves at different rates (well, except for within the brain's cortex generally)and so if our physical being, our physiology changes, that would make sense that the way we view things, perceive things, act, react may also change somewhat.
Ideally two people in love change in such a way together that things remain copasectic...otherwise, yes, the big war begins.
But too technical. What makes me Imma meet some dude out of a 1000 and think 'ya, he blows me away, I want to share my thoughts and my heart and my body with him' and what are the odds that this person thinks the same about me? If you really think about it, it is quite amazing. Maybe I should not question it and just accept that it happens. Would be cool to understand it though.
I'm not even speaking about how long a love may last for....eternity insh'allah, but how it can even be for 5 years.
Ain't that the truth. When I started the thread, I started typing what I thought love is and I stopped because I started rambling. I can't define it adequately and yes, people use different ways to describe it, but we all know 'it'. Thanks Rizon.
Hey friend, I hear what you are saying. Your opinion of love is different from mine perhaps, but all good. I was thinking more along the lines of what makes one person affect another in a way that one can feel butterflies, protective and just plain 'feel good' around another....regardless of societal expectations.
That was a bit funny (in a OMG, been there sort of way). I agree though. I have been sooooo on the same wave length with people via long term online communication in the past. I think I felt 'in love', but how could that be if I had never met the person. There was mental chemistry, but isn't physical chemistry a huge factor in falling in love?
I think that brings up a question. Are we supposed to be in love with the same person forever? Perhaps not, perhaps sometimes it expires and through no fault of either person. Maybe love has a 'best before' date on it. But then again, maybe not. My parents have been married and really really are in love with each other still for over 50 years.
It'a a simple/complicated question, one I have not thought about for a while but the question has been running through my mind of late. Why do we fall in love? Is it pheromones?, lust, smell, chemistry, dopamine? Loneliness?
I have been 'stupid-in-love', 'would do anything for the person'love. I have been on the receiving end of 'will-do-anything' love and I have never understood it still.
Why do we fall in love????
And a step further.....why can we go for a long time without being in love.
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