If you meet a woman that really loves you, together i believe you can work thro the issue's altho it may take alot of talking and understanding, your daughters will also have to accept her as sopmeone that has come into your life, and not as a replacement for their Mother.
I took on my ex husbands 4 children, had its moments but we worked thro it.
What i meant by weird is that if you are in a relationship with someone and you can't talk about something as normal as this, why would you be in a relationship with them in the first place?
RE: if u catch ur bf/gf in a bed wit another guy wat would u do
he would be history