I re located to a different country, and in hindsight wish I had thought it thro more. The language barrier was huge ( altho my partner spoke English very well)I still felt very isolated and trying to get a job was impossible, on top of that the cultural differences were enormous and there was pressure from his family and friends.
I can understand him being wary, and although I know many will disagree with me, love is not always enough.
Maybe you should think about which one of you could adapt more easily, taking into account the practicalities of the situation.
(or maybe evening) I was just trying to give an explanation as to why, Ali and I have had our differences which is why I keep away. Am not disagreeing that if others feel the same they should keep away .
Seriously, I don't like Christmas much at all. think its a lonely time for many with a HUGE expectation that we all shouls like it, when many would just like to hide away.
Far to commercialized and just another way to make people spend loads of money they can't afford.
RE: Christmas is such a sad time 4 me !
Think many people do, and the expectation thay we should all love it makes it harder.