Not sure if you mean me but if so i have been a work and still say this kind of thing can happen in all countries, not just Arabic ones.
As for posting a picture of a man and saying his eyes look for full of lust is just stupid
Whats with the pictures of the Queen?? she is dressed in a way that shows respect to the country she is visiting, pity more people don't show the same when they visit countries with different beliefs and customs.
Hi Pat saw a documentary not to long ago about this happening in Europe, in one country the police turned a blind eye, because of the money they were making out of it
This doesn't just happen in Arabian countries, women from the Eastern block countries are offered jobs as Nannies, come to the West and exactly the same things happen, so don't think you can tie it down to a particular part of the world.
I think its a little sad to rule out the possibility of a relationship with anyone because they have a child, that applies to both genders.
In alot of cases the natural father/mother are part of a child's life, once the relationship is over and that to me thats how it should be when possible. Because a child is part of a persons life doesn't mean they can't go on to have a relationship with another partner.
End of the day its down to choice, women/men with children aren't always looking for a replacement parent. jmo
yes, and many western women misuse that fact, marry the guy, take him to west, but just before he gets a permanant visa, kick him out..one call to the local police does the job. don't throw rocks at me, read about sweden forexample. same thing happens with western men and eastern ( thai girls)[/quote I am giving an example of what I saw first hand and what I learnt from talking to Turkish men when they tried to justify why they do it.
Alot don't want to leave their country but want a better quality of life and a way to provide for their families.
So, I'm not throwing rocks at anyone, just stating what happens.
I lived in Turkey for 4yrs and sadly for many a European woman was viewed as a way to improve your chance in life.
It wasnt always for a visa, sometimes it was money . Life is hard there and very dependaant on tourism, so an easy option is to find a woman, convince her you have fallen in love, and once they have the money they want your history.
I rarely come here now because of all the bickering and to be honest if out children behaved in the way some do here we would be pointing out the error of their ways
Used to a really fun place and its a pity that so many people have left CS because of it.
Dyslexia and Autism are two very different things.
My son had problems at school which we noticed when he was about 7rs, we had a a real fight to get it recognized and for him to get extra help with reading and writing.
But he was very creative in other ways, from when he was about 10 he would repair all his friends bikes and toys.
I had relocated to be with this person, so my whole world just came tumbling down, honestly dont know how I got thro it, guess you find an inner strengh you don't know you have to deal with the practicalities of it. But emotionally and mentally had a huge impact, as for trusting again??? doubt you would meet a more cynical person now.
Certainly found out who my friends were, and strangely enough the people who were there for me where from this site. One even helped me leave that country and start my life again.
Hurt like hell although its not a physical pain could not believe just how crap it made me feel, and it lasted a long time don't think I will ever truly get over it, but knew it had to happen.
Agree Pat it is, and when we are hurting its hard to make a rational decision thats right for us longterm, and so easy to be influenced by others and end up regreting it. jmo
What I am saying is we are only hearing one side of it. My son went through something similiar with his partner after their baby was still born, I was there for him and listened to him, but not once did I tell him what he should do, that was his decision and whatever he decided was right for him I supported.
I don't feel sympathy just very aware we are only hearing one side.
Infidelty stirs up all kinds of emotions in most of us, I just think this young man needs to work thro what he should himself, with support, but not told what he should do, which to me many here have done.
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