I was in a relationship for 4 yrs with someone from a different culture, and although we could work through most thngs, the peer and family pressure was enormous, and that caused all sorts of problems. So at home was fine but outside I was expected to conform to something I just had no uderstanding off, so i would mess up in their eyes, without even trying
Hiya Pat I think thats a good point, it does seem to me that it's always the British Royals that get slagged of, when in reality they probably contribute to the country more than many other Royal families.jmo
I do understand what your sayin, and am really peased for you.
But I am a bit of a cynic and think that here we only really let people see what we want them to.
I met someone here, we spoke all the time everything was fantastic, but when we met was a complete different story, after 2 days I couldn't stand the site of him think he felt the same way
There was a member here a while back whose behaviour was very similar to what we saw yesterday.
He spent as much time banned as he did here, he could be a really funny guy, but if disagreed with or rejected could become one of the vilest people out.
He would come back and apologise profusely for his ranting saying he had huge problems in his life, he would be offered sympathy and undrstanding and a few days later repeat his unacceptable behaviour all over again, went on for months.
We all have bad days and problems, but that doesn't give us the right to be a complete arsehole to others and then expect it all to forgotten, when we think it should. jmo
RE: What's a Girl to do?
I didn't abstain completley