Think these sites are another way of 'meeting ' people in addition to our daily lives, not a replacement.
Have noticed that many make their 'relationships' here very public, even when they haven't met then others get involved and the problem start, bit off topic but jmo
You used the word Thankful, why should an older woman be thankful?
I have had mails from very young men, when have said thanks but no thanks, I have then had abusive replies saying I should be grateful they mailed me and that i'm an old woman and thats the polite part.
I have men my own age interested in me, so don't see why I should be thankful when a young man contacts me .
Married to someone older, dated someone younger in my experience the age difference does matter if its long term, we reach different stages in our lives when we want different things.
I am not prudish but your post sounded as if the physical side of the relationship is the most important, it can take time and understanding from both parties for sx to be equally satisfying to both.
It sounded as if the guy doesn't meet expectation straight away his not worth bothering with, men have needs and feelings too.
I agree, my profile says i'm here for the forums, if people choose to contact me I assume they haven't read my profile and I just don't reply.
I have made alot of friends from here and been lucky enough to meet some of them, I have no intention of removing my profie and my partner has never asked me to
RE: Grrr lol no one really answered my thread!!!!! here it is again
And we don't all automatically get what we want, it takes time and we have to work for it, I have had some crap jobs I hated but had no choice.Suggest you sort yourself out before you start looking for an easy relationship to bail you out.