Bad stepmothers. ( Archived) (36)

I don't understand! In my two last relationships both my women in the beginning claimed to love children. But in reallity they only love their own and friends children not mine! Why is that?
In my last relationship my wife made hugh scandals if I tried to spend time with my son from previous relationship. Basically she made it clear I had to chose between her or him!
I guess the fairytale is true about the evil stepmother.
What is your experience?

You lucky guys.

I've dated men that have had children in the past and to me, I won't meet his children or allow him to meet mine until we have both made the decision that the relationship is solid, steady and committed.

I shudder to think the women you've met were probably all wrong for you and you as a parent know difficult it is to trust someone new with your kids and you are also extra cautious about letting them grow close to someone that may or may not be in the picture for the long term.

I'd say give yourself time and get to know a lady for a long time before letting her enter into your childrens life.

As for the non-mentionable name for the woman that tried to get you to abandon your son and forcing you to choose, well I would have told her under no certain terms to kick rocks!

You're right, but some can pretend for a long time and be fake and phony and then it's to late because there is another bun in the owen and in my experience that's when trouble starts because of her imaginary competiton about my affection between children.
I have love in abundace for all children, past and future.

What do you mean "another bun in the oven?" Who is expecting? you didn't mention that above?

There is no other love in this world than that of a parent for their child, my girls are a walking piece of my heart.

My stepmother threw out my highschool year books. I have never heard of anyone throwing out precious memories. That is just plain evil.