Looking4theOnly1 Forum Posts (16)
I agree..and i'd like to add that NO..You're not here for the same reasons as everyone else..You are looking for someone you can 'cheat' on your wife with..And honestly, thats really not going to gain you many 'points..especially with the number of people that are on here, sad, hurt and trying to find happiness because they were in your wife's shoes and had been cheated on..Also.. you mention how EXTREMELY bad things are..Well, get a divorce..which will probably be messy..and its not fair to drag another woman thru that with you..Finish one thing before you go after something else..IMHO ....good luck 
I dont care how old this post is..i'm really angry right now because i have a perfectly clear, full-face picture i just uploaded and for some reason (none that i can see) its been 'blocked' from being my 'primary'..(if some of you wouldnt mind, check out my pic that has the question marks as the'caption'...i'd like some opinions (i understand the picture of my eyes cant be primary, but why cant the other pic be a primary?).. I dont want to bring attention to anyone, but if my pic isnt 'approved' to be my primary, i'm making a list of profiles that have fake pix, actors or actresses, dogs, cats, cars, group photos, buildings, flowers, sunsets? etc., ANYTHING that ISNT a 'proper pic' (of themselves only) as primary, and submitting the list to the 'mods' (and it will be a VERY large list..) because i dont think they are being fair to me and some other members i've talked to who are experiencing this same type of discrimination...YES, it IS a form of discrimination! Thank you, in advance, to those of you who will look at this picture and give me your 'feedback' and please, this is pretty serious to me so if you're bored or (whatever other reason you may try to justify yourself) and you just want to crack jokes or mock this forum post, please go elsewhere...Thanks 
And they are usually the ones to criticize people's pix.. 
Hi...i think caysea had a good answer...to (imo) a stupid question! Of course 'atheists' exist..and 'agnostics' and 'christians' and 'buddhists' and 'muslims'....but in all fairness to 'anonymous'...we who consider ourselves christians are always being 'questioned' by atheists..so isnt it just as 'fair' for a christian to question atheists? (not a queation..just 'imho' :) 
Could someone tell me why he is being called a 'sicko' ? I see 'polls' like his from lots of people and havent seen any of them called a sicko. Btw, WWJDEND....what does your profile 'name' mean? (you list your 'religion' as 'atheist' but mostly everyone knows that WWJD means 'What Would Jesus Do') 
Maybe i'm wrong & since I'm sure somebody is going to take that & run with it ...i'm curious..what does everyone else think WWJD means??
I agree, the few women from Malta that i've seen in blogs/forums etc are very beautiful..just as are women from every Country on here...but for some reason, I get alot of mail/flowers from men from Malta?? I guess opposites attract? (Btw, Robert, that wasnt a very nice thing to say to Jan..She was just agreeing (about stereotypes & said some people (or most people?) ... not that SHE BELIEVES those stereotypes ..
CHEERS to you both!! & Keep us 'posted' !! (i'm hopeful 2 be heading down that road...I 'Have Faith' AND, I know...Prayers DO get 'Answered' :)
HI ! Just 'Showin everyone some love'...& wishing happy, loving wishes for all...Whether on here tonite...or alone at home.. broken, lost & lonely...and even to those 'out', in a 'crowd' but still feeling sad, lonely & unloved.."And the greatest of these is.... LOVE !
Hi StormW! Thought i'd take this opporunity 2 ask U somethin that i'm curious about.....Ok, Why Dont U hav a profile pic? If some1 MAY be intersted, from reading your profile, but U dont hav any pix, they (Sometimes) wont even try or want 2 connect! Also, alot of people dont even have webcams. And, if U write "i hav pix, giv me your email & i'll send em" it will (usually) make most people 'move on'....I'm just curious, cuz every day, my email box is inundated with guys who dont have pix and/or are trying 2 get my 'personal' email address
Hey..in my opinion, you are totally correct..I even took a chance and asked an older gentleman (i think he was 50 & his age range started at 20! =) why he thought to put that age, i mean, ok, she JUST became old enuff to vote, and here in The USA, she ISNT even legally old enuff to drink! Also, i asked if he feels its ok for a man his age to date a 20 yr old, would it then have been ok for him to date her just 5 yrs ago when she was ONLY 15 & he was 45? Come on !!! I mean, not only would they NOT have ANYTHING in common (other than the fact that he would be old enuff to be her GRANDFATHER (THEN & NOW) but also due to the fact that he would be Arrested! HIS 'answer' ? He started saying things like 'look at Oriental women, they LOOK younger even when they're older' (they may look the same, old or young, but emotionally, they are STILL barely out of their 'teens') and something about how in some other 'cultures' girls as young as 14-16 are set up in marriages..well, thats THERE (AND its still 'wrong' and in my opinion, again, a crime and a shame for the poor girl!) NOT HERE IN THE USA!! The ONLY thing i believe a much older man OR woman would want with someone THAT much younger than themselves is S E X ! And these men and women (especially the '50+' yr olds) are NO BETTER than the p*dophile filling our prisons!!! I also take MY 21 & 30 yr old daughters feelings into 'account' when choosing MY 'age range' because i care MORE about how THEY would feel than i do about just being able to say 'ooh, look at me, i'm a sicko dating a guy YOUNGER than my YOUNGEST daughter' ? Un Huh...NOT GONNA HAPPEN!! :)
See..We Americans ARE nothing but a joke to the rest of the world! I 'rest my case'...I wonder, when i visit Germany & Italy next month if i'll STILL have to 'press 1 for English' or will my calls be in Spanish if i DONT???? As for Canada having a phone system for either English or French, thats because, to the best of my knowledge, in different parts of Canada, the 'language' MOST spoken IS either French or English..but as another 'poster' pointed out, America is a 'melting pot' for ALL nationalities, yet my Italian & German relatives who immigrated here didnt have the pleasure of THEIR calls 'automatically' being in Italian or German unless they 'pressed 1' How about Chinese? Why not say 'to hear this call in English, press 1' and if we dont, our call will be in Chinese???? Before i will be FORCED to learn a language to do ANYTHING in America, i WILL 'wrap myself in the American flag & burn it! (see my other reply to another 'poster' on this subject!)
THANK YOU! Finally, SOMEBODY ELSE has 'spoken out' about this! I read a quote yesterday that said 'if you must burn our flag, please WRAP YOURSELF UP IN IT FIRST'! ALL my ancestors are from other countries, and when they got here, they were made to STRUGGLE to learn the USA's ways, language, culture or be 'ostricized' ! Nobody 'forced' the US to learn THEIR language or not have a job. No, they worked their butts off to EARN the 'priveledge' of becoming an American. Now, if you apply for over 80% of jobs here, if you dont speak XXXXXXX as a '2nd language' you're NOT getting the job! AND we have become nothing MORE than a 'joke' to most other countries BECAUSE of it! I, PERSONALLY (and my relatives who WERE 'ostricised' and 'labeled' and struggled to become Americans) dont see ANY 'humor' in it. 
Hi..i was coming to the 'forums' to ask if anyone else seems to have trouble GETTING new pix to post,by cellphone, but it seems i'm only 1 of a few people who even ACCESS by cell..i've ALWAYS accessed by cell, because i had an old computer that finally 'died' due to too many viruses..The ONLY things i CANT do by cell is IM (on CS) & play games, but i can do everything else..my ONLY problem is, i change my 'look' alot because my daughter is in Hair Design School & i am her 'guinea pig' for new styles/colors, etc..but it seems to take CS a VERY LONG TIME to ADD my new photos and IT REALLY TICKS ME OFF !! I email them, the same as everyone else, just from my phone..they meet the 'size guidelines' and all, but CS just takes too long to post them..i belong to a couple other 'dating' and 'friendship' pages (and i even do my whole MYSPACE page by 'cellphone' ) and my pix there get posted w/in a day or 2..so if CS doesnt 'FIX' this problem..i'm going to just stop using this site..I'm VERY upset with CS right now, because i've been trying to upload new pix for almost 3 WEEKS now !! Have a lovely day..SuZi (looking4theonly1)
Hi All..i have a Samsung Instinct phone & since my computer caught 1 too many 'viruses' & died, i ONLY access CS by cell...EVERYTHING works fine EXCEPT i cant play games or IM chat..but i can read & receive my emails, send & receive 'flowers'..i can 'search'..i can do EVERYTHING u can do on the computer EXCEPT IM'S...as for the guy that said if you're out & about, why would you WANT to access CS, well, i LIKE the fact that i CAN access from ANYWHERE, ANYTIME, especially if im at a drs. appt or somewhere where im just sitting & 'waiting' for long periods of time..i ALSO get an email 'notification' SENT TO MY CELLPHONE Every time someone emails or 'flowers' me..I, PERSONALLY LIKE accessing by cell and with the phone i have, i can even 'view' it in whats called 'standard' mode, which means it looks JUST like it looks 'online'..my only suggestion would be to insure you have an 'unlimited data' plan...otherwise, you would have to pay, like $.35/mb of 'data' & the better the phone, the better & faster you can access this & MANY other sites..i even do my MYSPACE page using my phone! If anyone has any questions, please feel free to email me & i'll try my best to answer any questions you might have about this, ok ? xo SuZi (looking4theonly1)
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RE: I'm Back
Well, I'm back. I see some of the friends I made here are still here as well as some other new faces around in the forums. I was gone for a while since I got in a relationship and it seemed all well and good, but unfortunatley it didn't work out. Her reasoning was she wasn't ready for a relationship even though she told me no other guy has ever her made her feel the way I made her feel and that my emails made her melt and so on and so forth (if that's worth anything, even though she was always honest with me). Doesn't matter anymore it was my longest relationship in years, but I'm finally over it and I'm moving on, if she decides she's ready and I'm still single, I'll hear her out, but I doubt I could go back.Anyway I'm back here and I want to put it behind me and move, make new friends, get reacquainted with old friends and hopefully meet the woman of my dreams. I see they've added quite a bit to the site too. So how's everyone doing?[/quote
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