I agree with you.However, yes you may want some help but with an expectation to get a solution which you favour.If it's the case you will never be helped. All probable solution you discuss with your psychologist should be practical yes misdiagnosis by a well trained person with enough experience should be very minimal
I acknowledge your perspective concerning the therapies you are talking about.I however disagree with you.Check this.When you get sick you think of going to see a doctor because you believe that as a professional, he/she would give you the best medicine for your illness.That means before you get to see him,you have faith already that once you get to see the Dr. you will be well.If you were to go to a Dr with a negative mind its possible you may not get well becoz you dont believe in how he 'll manage your situation. Psychotherapists work is assist you to recognize the solutions to your problems which make you unable to cope.They don't offer a 'prescribed' solution for your ineffective coping.You can only get assisted if you recognize that you have a problem and you need help.Secondly you will have to be positive about the help you gonna get.If you dont apply the possible solutions identified,then you may not see the need for further follow up.The follow up purpose is to evaluate the solutions applied.
Respect.But still i think not every Asian man is bad.I have witnessed some Asian, Black n white Americans,African men who treat their spouses with affection.I think its about personality, not really the race
Yes my friend Captain,now how genuine is falling in love when you are breaking a heart of your spouse?If it's a chaotic marriage, then someone can understand that may be you need love.In such a case call it of be a free man and love again. What im disagreeing with you is when want to keep marriage and at the same time you r falling in love.can you have your cake n eat it?
Well i think it depends with individuals and i actually respect your views.I think the question is... how strong is that part of you that judges the morality of your own action and makes you feel guiltyabout bad things you have done or things you feel responsible for If im married i will have to respect my spouse same way i respect myself.Figure it out... if i got married to you n it turns out its not working, would you start looking for love somewhere else or we gonna sit and deal with our marriage first?
These are the feelings am reffering to as emotions.The question is...Should a guy follow the emotion or conscience?Can you remember when you were dating before you got married how the same man was close to you?
Exactly Sommer.If i am married man and fall in love with another woman, after sometime its likely i will fall with a third one in future, and the cycle will keep repeated every time i get tired of latest catch
So therefore there is no denying that times have changed and most of us live in a culture that largely dismisses significance of marriage.This has lend many young men and wome to believe that all people out there are incapable of being faithful
But some womenperceive having an affair with a married man as asort of triumph over the wife and as such they get a feeling of acconpolishment and triumph over the legitimate woman.
It is no a secret that some single men/women have an obsession for married women/men.Married couples are perceived as the 'forbidden temptation'since they are already commited and hence unavailable.Why then date a commited person?
People have to use an acceptable language.Im not being judgemental to what happened because i do not have the facts.But i would say its time to reign on those who do not follow the rules of the forums.This is only the way forward for this site to continue to exist.
I realized he had fixed answers in his mind.I don think is wise for one to challenge ones faith.My brothers are rastafarians and i cannot try to challenge what they believe in.Respect for one spirituality is very important.
Brother i hav just told you that do not at anyone time try to challenge pple beliefs.As long as you are not a christian leave the bible to christians.If i do not belong to a certain faith i cannot dare try to challenge that faith.For example i cannot stand to question anthing concerning islam and quran becoz am not a muslim.But do i have respect for muslims....oooh yes
I acknowledge the way you slice it.It would be difficult for you to understand and you will even go further and compare the bible with any other knowledge you have.If i were you i would leave the bible to christians and concentrate on what you you believe in.I do not think challenging ones faith adds any value
Bible has 2 parts 1.Old testament...written before Jesus 2.New testament...written after Jesus
Yes,If you are looking at the bible which Jesus used to refer, then i think you should concentrate on old testament To give you an example to show that Jesus used to read the bible ,in the new testament it is written where Jesus was reading a verse in a book of Isaiah which is in old testament
12yrs? That means you have something in common.And if both of you cant find love anywhere else then both of you should make it work.I think even in marriage pple will always have differences but both hav to learn to give and take for it to work.
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RE: Get some help.
I agree with you.However, yes you may want some help but with an expectation to get a solution which you favour.If it's the case you will never be helped.All probable solution you discuss with your psychologist should be practical
yes misdiagnosis by a well trained person with enough experience should be very minimal