well IF (and that is a very big IF) i ever enter into a relationship and there is more than 45 minutes driving distance between us.... said relationship wont go past the "friends (w/ benefits) zone"....
its called reality.... emails, letters, txts are nice but they DO NOT satisfy my needs.... plain and simple !!!!
well... you just did !!! but that's ok... its called "predictability"..... its a rather common response for people to get defensive when they take things seriously and thus feel they are being "attacked".... no big !!
as for being happy... who says im not??? it just so happens that my definition of happy has more to do with freedom from the clutches of the Evil Empire, than with the undying need to be chained up to someone for the rest of my life, based on whatever standard set by society that we "need" another person in order to BE happy!!!!
well... im sure CS will still be here when.... errrrr... if it dont work out for yall !!!!
personally, i wonder why yall ARE still here now that you've found the ONE after only one or two meetings but hey, i sure this IS the one and yall be happy ever after.... and live in a big beautiful palace spending the rest or your days dancing and looking at the rainbow !!!!!
i tell em all right up front i dont love em, will never love any of em and will not consider the option of potentially loving any of em........ but that i DO love to play with their "equipment"...... regularly !!!!!
this is exactly why yall doormat dudes types need to wake up and grow a set !!!!!
get your grope on, on that first date so that when their flaky personality comes through in the morning at least you can smile and say.... "oh well, i got some anyways" !!!!
RE: Love
who cares about their heart.... just rip it off and stomp on it !!!!no skin off your back right????
plus yall are good at that anyways !!!!