This site is slow however, sometimes it picks up - depending on the topic of conversation. I suggest that you start a new thread - something that will really "get people going". Then there will be lots of response.
In this area, you are so much more bolder than am I! A man has to kiss me first. Preferably, a gentle kiss on the back of my right hand on the second date (no kissing on the first date). Then, after subsequent dates, he would kiss my forehead and eventually my lips. Yes, I am a romantic!
I wish you an early welcome to Canada. I live in a part of Canada that is very different from where Urs and Leo give. I live in a small city that is located in the Southwestern part of the province of Alberta. It really is different here. However, we are all Canadians and I welcome you to this fine land of ours.
Then some people will see your beautiful smile when you smile and notice your lovely eyes when you are not smiling. I think that a lot of people would find you to look very pretty when you are smiling.
Hi "Shy" (I think that your name is Angela - correct me if I am wrong),
Good input for me - thanks. I admit - I was "ranting" a bit.
I will have to think of an appropriate answer to your question.
I just get frustrated at times - I am "always" seen as "the nice one". For now, I guess I could write that I would like to be seen as "the desired one" by a tall man who does not smoke.
Do you ever get "sick and tired" of being known as "the nice person"? I am a nice lady - I admit it. I am sick of being alone. I happen to be tall - so height in a man is important to me. I can not physically tolerate cigarette smoke - so someone who is a non-smoker is important to me. How difficult can such a man be to find?
I know how you feel on this topic. I know that it can get discouraging. Like you, I don't want to look ahead at the rest of my life as being on my own. However, it might be so. I do understand.
Thank you for making the time to post your response. I was a single parent - raised my only child by myself. My daughter is now a young, independent woman who lives as such - completely apart of me. While I was raising my daughter - I didn't really think that it was that difficult. I kept waiting for the hard stuff to really start to happen. "It" never really did. My daughter was my life's greatest blessing.
I agree with Keith. It is tough. You have to endlessly put your regard for your kid(s) ahead of any regard that you have for yourself. People in "coupled relationships" don't really understand this aspect of "reality". Lorraine.
I am "on empty" in terms of advise for this young woman. I know, from first hand experience, that life as a single parent is not an "easy road to hoe".
I like your new picture. I agree - age is not a big deal, once people are adults. I prefer younger men. However, most men that interest me are over 25 years of age.
I am thankful for the messages that the two of you have taken the time to write. I had a particularly hard week - however - "It" is over. I am thankful that both of you made the time to write your responses to this thread.
RE: Canadian kick start
Hi Fabs,This site is slow however, sometimes it picks up - depending on the topic of conversation. I suggest that you start a new thread - something that will really "get people going". Then there will be lots of response.
Regards,
Lorraine.