All I have left to say is, there is no worse deaf, that the one who doesn't want to hear, or worse blind that the one who doesn't want to see! Peace & Respect to all of you!
The Serenity Prayer
GOD, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
Living ONE DAY AT A TIME; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardship as the pathway to peace.
Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it.
Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life, and supremely happy with Him forever in the next. Amen
Karla you are wrong, I don't dislike you, I just don't agree with you. I know you must be hurt but that doesn't give you the right to disrespect and not having consideration among the people on the forums. No one likes to see fighting, calling names not even in real life, is very uncomfortable. People come here for the same reason, we are alone and we are looking for a relationship, have fun while doing it, many have being hurt one way or another and very sensible at times. So my advise is you feel bad or you feel you can't control your feelings, just take some days off from the forums as a respect to all of the members, and this advise it is not just for you but for all the people that feel like you, I'm sure you are not alone on this. Just be yourself but also try to respect one another, if you don't have this two important things in your life, you are going to find trouble along the way. Also if you feel you are Wrong say it, apologize, I’m have done several times and not perfect you know, I make Mistakes but also know and recognize when I am wrong. One more thing I want to add, many forget that behind every screen, every word is a living, breathing person, a life, who has feelings, same as you and I. Please people just respect one another and try to have fun, wish every one to find the person you are looking for, it can really happen!!!!!. Respect and consideration is the key!
PEOPLE PLLLLLLEEEEEEEAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEE, STOP!!!!!!!! COUNT UP TO 100 THEN GO AROUND THE BLOCK AND MAYBE YOUR HEAD IS MORE CLEAR!!!!!! Stop acting like my kids! geeeeezeee! enough!
Hi, Susie all I can say is, that for what your saying, it was an experience well worthed and I'm glad you have the chance to experience love. I am new on a relationship after almost 8 years, we don't know what is going to happen but I would not regreat, not even for a minute what we have. Every break up is this difficult and painful, all I can say is stay around here and love might surprise you once more and this time might be for the rest of your life! When one door close, many more are waiting to be open!
I will prefer to have Alexandra next to me, at any time of need instead of any person how says believes in God and carries a Bible on their hands but no actions towards his words. Alexandra and I have different beliefs maybe because I haven’t seen all the misery she had. I have great respect and admiration for what she does, in helping and caring about people she doesn't even know, sacrificing herself doing it, things she did and does that many of us who has different belief have never done to help someone in need.
Looks? Certainly there are characteristics in a person we find attractive and doesn’t mean, he has to be an Adonis or have green teeth. Personally I think people has to be mature enough to recognize valuable qualities on the other person, above looks, this will fade away, while the first becomes stronger every day. Why people get divorced? Looks? The lack of ability to handle problems as they come alone? Lack of respect, affection, understanding, communication, sense of humor, …..? What it is for you? What can you live with to make it happen? How much effort are you willing to put into it? These are the question we should ask ourselves and not, how handsome, fat, skinny, how much you make, what can of car you drive, it is not what, it is who you are, what it is important! Personally I know what I am talking about, because it is happening to me right now, he is a person who knows, what is really important and every day is a challenge for us, and precisely those challenges, we have to face, are what make the relationship stronger. Easy? No it is not, but we worth the try. As yet we haven’t seen each other at our best, and it is ok, because we don’t give importance to what doesn’t have it. He is who I was looking for and I am, who he was looking for. So the question is, do you really know who and what do you look for? Hope it helps!
Sorry Erin, queenbee, I did get out of focus. The thing is it was something I had to say. I'm just tired of seeing so many grown up people, acting like immature teenagers, that looking for love something very mature, maybe too much for them. Overweight issues, bitterness issues, what do you think about me, seize, all this no sense things that have nothing to do with true love but self-issues. People have to look at them self and if they don’t like what they see how the pretend someone else to do it? and God forbidden is they don't like them, "what do you think about the people who doesn't like you for this or that" childless garbage!
Sorry got carry away but it is getting so boring reading the same things over and over!
Please understand if not directed to neither of you. Erin you are one of the people I considered true to yourself and as I said before even though we don't agree on things. I prefer you any time to others soft spoken people (not all but some) as I have learned to read between the lines, I know who they are. I’m just tired of the whining, nothing truely interesting. (some will say my choice, and yes it is)
I want people to be happy and find the most wonderful feeling there is, but the way they are doing it. It just doesn't work, why not try a nicer way????????
There are some many wonderful people in this forums that I wish every one, find true love and know how to take care of it.
It is not easy to find, but not impossible either, please when you find it, work & fight to keep it alive. And true love is not just one way, it is give and receive, if you see that only works one way, you are wasting your time and effort on it. Please move on, while your infatuated with someone, real love might pass you by and you don’t even noticed it.
I always give this advise, over and over, BE YOURSELF, LOVE YOURSELF, if you don't like who you are and don't love and accept yourself how do you expect someone else to do it?
I don't want to be rude, but I see on this forums some other people that are just whiners and immature that think love is has to be push. I say this for your own good, really want to find true love, please reevaluate yourself and make whatever change necessary in order to find the first love, YOU! Then, what you and every one always look for, will find you!
Wish every one the best of luck, true love do exist and it is out there, or in here! wink and start with YOU!
Someone who doesn't accept you, for who you are DOES NOT deserves to fight for!
It is who you are, and not what you are!
Love is not a fight for acceptance, it is the most soft, tender feelings and at the same time grows strong every day. It fills you life every second of it, with comfort and happiness that goes both ways!
In my opinion, someone who doesn't know what is really important in a person, needs a lot to learn yet, by himself/herself (it goes both ways).
Really and Truely, Love yourself and the rest will come along!
Sussie you are in the right path, and they were not mistakes, just lessons. I'm not perfect and never will be, made mistakes (lessons) but learned from them. Keep you chin up, you're growing up to be a sensible and great person do to the lessons you learned yesterday, today and will tomorrow. Love yourself and accept you, just the way you are, everything else will come along.
Alex you are not difficult. And You know what I like about you? You are, who you say you are, no pretendings, no hypocrisy! People sometimes showed a face and then after a while their true colors comes out, you are not one of them!!
One more thing I need to add to this madness created by just one person and that is not yellowrose! People should not judge other without knowing the facts. Trust issues who don’t have it, when starting a new relationship? but in addition to it, someone who is claming to be a friend when in reality is being the worse enemy, because just can see others happy, makes matters more difficult. Rose is a lady and a good woman who deserves respect!
Immaturity! Hypocrisy! Selfishness! Self-center, people! People who take advantage of other’s weakness! People who said I’m helping you, when in fact they are stabbing you!
Karla I will not discussed anything with you because the thread is not about you, if you feel aggravated I can't help the way you feel. About changing the channel it is my choice not yours. It is my opinion and I will do as I please, always respecting everyone in here, as I have being doing it.
So Roy, if you ever have the chance to read or anyone to tell him, I know this is being a good therapy and likes to be here. One more time "Miss you and hope you come back!"
Yami.
P.S. Karla if you have anything else to add, you can do it through private e-mails, otherwise do not expect and answer.
WOW!!!!!!!!! This is like a really BAD soap opera. An advise to any of you people, when ever you find someone PLEASE KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!!!!! Whatever is between a couple has to stay like that for your own good!!!
MISS YOU ROY!!!!! DO NOT GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yami.
P.S. Please note this is my personal opinion and have not be directed to anyone in particular.
My aunt has being working in a Funeral Home for years; I myself worked selling properties in the cemetery (good money), very difficult job! The amount of money expended on the whole scenario is ridicules. I prefer leave the money to the living my kids, or expended in a nice trip somewhere while alive and be cremated. All the money speeded on flower, when you are dead, please, give me a break Give them when people are alive and can enjoy them, most of those flower are going to end up in the garbage any ways, so no flowers, well maybe one or two the rest donated to a the Red Cross, last thing done on my name!
solitare, to begin with, I check first long before knowing his mother, I am a mother of two, I need to protect my kids. If I have any doubt, there are many ways to find out someone background records. They way his treat his mother will be one more thing I will look at, doesn't mean it is the only thing. I measure a man by his actions as I said before. No need to go overboard with the phycos or criminal!
Being a school counselor for teenagers, greatest gratification will be change someone's life for the better. Kids are left alone for too long and turn angry and in the frustration do the wrong things for the lack of attention, quality time from parents and love! They are our future, someone has to care.
can you truly measure a man's character by the way he treats his mother?
Absolutly, a mother is the most precious and sacred being to anyone, if doesn't treat her, with love and respect, what can I expect! Always in the healthy label though, nothing overboard, as Jackie said not mommy's boy, being there done that, NO!!!!
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RE: Merry Christmas
I always give what I have so... Wish you have a wonderful Christmas fill with peace and joy!!!!!