sorry you feel it's condescending but that is simply a perception where I have somehow pushed a button of yours. Rather than condescending it is simply advice based on experience that obviously does not always apply. it is an opinion built from experience. yes of course women can do that too (being dodgy with contact info), however, I can't speak to that as my experience has been with men (supposedly, anyway lol)
As it turns out he is married....as I and others on her predicted... There are signs I've gotten to know...and patterns. There is a difference between not always being available, and having a consistent pattern. Outside of that, it could simply be incompatability-- they want different things
I do agree with you, that we cannot expect anyone to be at our "beck and call" whether it's online or in real life. So there has be be a balance that meets our comfort levels.
I apologize I must have missed that in the thread where you found out he was already married. Be a little more careful about who you give your phone and contact info to, is my thought. Some can just be spammers building lists for sale with no real interest in further contact with you. That is what I would think if someone asked for my info and then did not want to connect....
I apologize I must have missed that in the thread where you found out he was already married. Be a little more careful about who you give your phone and contact info to, is my thought. Some can just be spammers building lists for sale with no real interest in further contact with you. That is what I would think if someone asked for my info and then did not want to connect....
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RE: Why so dead, forum
I tend to agree...I have been thinking about deleting altogether