Maybe they were the right person at the wrong time.
Sometimes things in life just don't work out. You move on. Try not to dwell in a bad place or then you find yourself sadly not fit for a relationship with anybody or anything. Not even capable of having a dog for a friend. Sometimes it is not figuring out why it did not work that is the answer. It is accepting that it did not work and owning up to your part and then move on. Happy holidays.
I am spending the day at home with my family coming over to spend the holiday with me. I love the time with my family.
Now on a more serious side what do I wish for christmas. I wish for some new glass coasters. My old ones are worn out and try to hug the bottom of my tea glass But I haven't told anyone but you people what I want so
Morning. I have gone to sleep and now I am frest as a daisey again Just wanted to add that the site is a great educational tool. I know more about the world I am a part of than I think I ever did. I know of different countries and where they are located. I know even though I talk english the english might not agree And I know how to talk correct english when need be and there is someone from another country in my area that needs help and limited english. I have the patience to comunicate and solve the problem. There are so many ways this site has educated me. Without the forums I would of never took an interest in these things. The forums made me want to learn
I actually do try and read them. I skim the threads when I come to the forums. But sometimes they start to give me a headache But it is me. I live a very quiet life. And have for years. I don't like friction But you are right I do try and read till my head hurts
You too. I will be sooo tired but I also will be cooking Been working ten and twelve hour days I keep telling myself be grateful for a job and plenty of work hours
I do avoid the threads where I see trouble brewing (trolls). But have been on here and the trouble flow over to all the active threads. Taking over the whole forum. But yes I would hate to lose the forums. They have meant alot to me. They helped me get by in the roughest year in my life. And I have grown fond of our bsing's. And I have laughed till tears came to my eyes. And the majority of the people have been so wonderful. But I think sometimes we do forget that the forums are a small part of the site. There are other areas and also some who just come on to look I appreciate the forums. But I don't think for one minute that I am so important that they need me. This site would go on. So for me it is a gift. (The forums)
Not as often. And here lately I don't come on that often because it got to the point where I felt like alot of times I was walking through a land mine.
Wow the title to this thread was like throwning cold water in my face And no I don't think I really do give love a chance. I think I am so afraid that there is no one out there for me. That I had the love of my life and a great relationship and now I just must move on in life and trudge through the motions of living. I don't know how to stop trying to measure up the men interested in me by him. Enough people told me when he passed away I would never find another one like him. But am I not giving anyone chance. I fear not. Maybe I need to work on changing me. I take men and move them in the friend position so fast I am surprised they don't get whip lash from the move.
Thanks for the food for thought. I do want to grow as a person
I am back from the store. Finially. I did not get everything I needed. And that is a vicious shopping crowd out there I fear going back and trying to finish up shopping. Maybe I should just hide at home till they all jump on their brooms and fly the hell back home I hate shopping
Welcome to cs. A lady started a thread yesterday on the same topic except where you have women she has men. She is from Michigan. Have you thought about broadening your search? And I am getting a complex the way it seems to be starting at 55. I now feel to old for the young and to young for the old. oh well the dog loves me Happy searching
PS- I believe she is searching for decent healthy men or something like that
You can be glad I am not an approver it would take the rest of your life and a whole helluva a lot of paper for me to write down all the skeletons that I have in the closet. I have put a few in there myself
You are right it is suppose to be the land of freedom and free speech. Even the igornant can have their say. And I really don't see the American people being silenced I live here I know how much we like to have our say. I also am one that believes in protecting my country at all cost. But then that is just me. I am from the south
Would you let your senile old relative wander down the middle of the road in busy traffic because he lives in a free country? If he is not capable of taking care of himself would you allow him to live in his own filth. Because he lives in the land of the free. Or would you have him cared for compassionately because that is the kind thing to do since he is not able to care for himself? By doing this have you removed his rights from him
And some are willing to know that a relationship is as good as the foundation the couple build. I think that is where real love, a mature love. Not a take take take but a lets grow a life together love. And make it the best it can be comes into play. But you do need two people with that attitude. Or at least that is how it worked for me. Maybe I was just lucky But I do believe in good relationships and love.
I think that is the key. What does one want to keep...... the relationship running smooth.... or the behavior
I had a good friend tell me one time that marriage (her words) is not fifty fifty. Some days it will be twenty eighty. Some days I would get the twenty and some the eighty. She was right.
What a wonderful and lucky ending. It could of been so different with that kind of scenerio Here people get lost at sea or in the swamps. Sometimes there is not such a good ending I think it is good when going off like that people let people let others know where they are going just in case they need help sent. Sometimes here mobile phones do not always work.
RE: Talking about work when not at work.
So true