Happygolucky4u Forum Posts (6,241)

RE: Welfare baby solution: Family Cap.

I hate to see the children do without because of a parent who has made an inconsiderate decision. I think there should be some way to make the parents responsiable for their decisions. I think there should be a contract signed that addresses becoming pregnant while on benefits. Either by jail time or community service. So before you start the "it will cost more in tax payers money" theme. It might at first. But after the law is proved to be enforced then it will pay for its self. Example in my state the death penealty is still alive and doing well. So if I had to take someone to higher ground I would cart their butt over the state line and do it in state more forgiving. I do not mind giving someone a hand up. I even do not mind giving some a hand out. But someone who flaunts their life style of living off the system and does not try to better their situation But in reality I have never seen these laws change anything. The offenders can find a way to get around it faster than the laws can be made. And sadly those who really need it get less because of the abusers.

RE: Life ! - AFTER THE SAD REALITY?

Good idea It is still early here think I will go for coffee. Have a great weekend and easter.

RE: Life ! - AFTER THE SAD REALITY?

I do not know you either. But I have read your post. I have always thought you have what we call here a dry sense of humor. Sadly I think some do not understand that brand of humor. Or maybe it is lost to them in the written word. But at least you have humor

RE: Life ! - AFTER THE SAD REALITY?

If you are to this point then it is not a question of accepting it. It should fit you like a nice glove



Do you really consider yourself a failure at love. I have through out the time you been here read post of how you had loved your wife. That is not a man who has failed at love. This is what I tell myself and I know it is the truth. I was blessed to have the love I had. And if I never find a love like that again it will be ok because many never even have it once in their life times.

Everyday is not a good day, but it is good to have everyday. Peace be with you my friend

RE: If he wasn't dead already

Don't pick on him you know how sibling rivilary goes you will end up with a huge light bill
Also one foot in front of the other.......somedays seem longer than others

RE: Blah Blah Blah...

Should people put those tennis balls on their walkers?





Sometimes life is sweet. Night all

RE: It's about time for some flirting around here!

I agree.........I miss the flirt threads

RE: It's about time for some flirting around here!

Hi handsome

RE: It's about time for some flirting around here!

Can't speak for tstone but I had to much weekend And now I don't want to go back to work tomorrow. But I will

RE: It's about time for some flirting around here!

Hey lady

RE: It's about time for some flirting around here!

(biting tongue sometimes humor is lost in written word)

RE: It's about time for some flirting around here!

Night Jeeepers with three e's

RE: It's about time for some flirting around here!

I see the word flirt and just look who I see in here

RE: Mental Illness, did u experience it ??

I think what witchy was getting at is that there are two sides two every story. In this case three. Hers, the exs and the ops. And we are only getting op side. Lets make the woman sound like the villian of the story. The whole thing could of been presented without that. I do not think Robertgill did that with the intention of it sounding like he was villianizing women. But I could be wrong.

RE: do men run from nice women?

I guess we can be glad the world is round

RE: do men run from nice women?

Awww thank you I am feeling a wee bit sorry for myself today But your comment made me feel better

RE: do men run from nice women?

I do not know if I am nice or not. Or even how one defines a nice woman. I am told I am nice. After last night I do think they have a difficult time with a confident woman I feel like if my dna was swabbed they could make a perfume for men in prison to repel the others.I think I intimidate men and
I do not know why.

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

Sleep good I am off to change into my party clothes.

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

You are right those large men are nice to dance with.

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

You too I wish I could be real thin and willowy too I look like an amazon woman But this amazon woman is fixing to take her new hair do dancing shortly.

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

I agree pills are not good. I tried them when I was younger and it made my skin crawl. I couldn't eat or sleep for twenty four hours. Threw them in the trash I hear the pills are different now but I would still be to scared. And I could stand to lose a few pounds myself.

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

I agree it is wrong for a man to ask that of a woman. In my opinion that is what I would call conditional love. I would want to be loved for myself. What if it was something she could not change. I know women who when they try to diet get sickly

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

Now how do we know that she is not fat? A size 16 what if she is 4foot nine inches. That would make for an unhealthy size.

Now after saying that I must also say one should not have to change their physical selfs to retain love. If she feels good with herself and not unhealthy then maybe it would be just best to for go the ring.

RE: do you like your veg?salad anyone?

I love salads. All different kinds. I like mine with different types of lettuce green leaf, red leaf, romaine and just a dash of iceberg. Maybe some dried cranberries, lets throw some walnuts and maybe almonds in there too. A few cherry tomatoes. With a poppyseed dressing. I also like a regular dinner salad with different lettuce types and a little radicchio to give it some extra flavor. I could go on and on about salads.

RE: Blah Blah Blah...

I am going to get up and start getting dressed for my day. It is almost nine in the morning and here I sit still in pjs and coffee/ morning breath. I think I will get up and go to the beauty parlor. I could use a new do. Wish me luck it is hard to get in on a friday without an appointment

RE: would u date a disable person

I am sorry merri but I got tickled when I read this. In my parts alot of times if a lady needs to go to the restroom she will say I need to go tinkle. I don't think you meant it in that context. But the difference in languages bought a smile to my face. I think sometimes that sadly language is where a lot of our misunderstandings begin. But just in case R might want to stand back untill he sees what kind of tinkle you are giving

RE: Happiness----Define your Happiness with one Word!!!

acceptance

RE: Learning..

I love your title Amity "learning" I have learned so much since being on the forums. And it helps me in my everyday life. I have actually learned to realize people are going to be people and I do not have to bite into a bad attitude if I do not want to. Sadly that behavior is not just held to the forums. People like that run around in our every day life and sometimes we cannot avoid them. But we do not have to feed them. Hope your week end is a great one

RE: Obama 2012! YES WE CAN again! Support Obama and keep working for american prosperity!

The links work fine for me. Maybe it is something to do with her computer

RE: Arguing for the sake of arguing.

I read all twenty pages.