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RE: Satruday Morning With Coffee & Sassy

Good to see you coming back around. Hope all is well your way. Stay safe

RE: Would you date someone who has been involved with a friend or family member in the past?

Family memebers ex, no way, do not even look at them as a possiability. Have not dated any friends exes. But I would have to say it would depend on a lot of things there. To many really to post at one time. But maybe

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY SUNNDAZE

Oh wow what a great birthday surprise for you I also wish you a happy birthday. And enjoy your time with him. My son is far away also and I envy you and your dinner. The thought made me teary. Have a great time

RE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY UPTALL!!!!

Hope you have a really groovy birthday. Happy Birthday !

RE: single mum

Does not seem to be a problem in my area either My daughter was blessed. Her man came with a little girl. Which means I have a little one to enjoy now too The ex still sees her and we are lucky. None of the problems you hear so much about. It just seems to be working right. The ex had another girl by another man who does not have his daughter in his life. So sometimes we get double the fun. They are sisters would not be right to not love the other one just because of a silly thing like being blood related or not. If a man or a woman does not want to take on someone elses child then it is just as well they run. Some people just can't do it. Some don't even like their own children

RE: Happy Birthday jono7

Happy Birthday! May this year be your best year ever.

RE: Girls; does size make a difference?

I am not the one on a public forum asking about it???? Soooooo....
The way you worded your opening post what do you think one would think?

RE: Girls; does size make a difference?

I read the question and you say it needs no explaining. So I gather then this must be a problem for you and I really would not want you to explain. There are all kinds of pills and etc. if you feel uncomfortable about your size. You do not need to hear a bunch of peoples thoughts on size. It is only what you think of yourself that matters. Now a days there are ways to fix it. Or you could take a course on self esteem. I think self esteem has alot to do with a mans fear of size inadequacies.

RE: ...........kissing on the glass....!!!!!!

That is really sweet

RE: ...........kissing on the glass....!!!!!!

Neither. I think you will know why without me telling you

RE: Ladies, how do you anticipate the bill to be handled on a first date?

I think it would depend on who asked whom out. If I asked I would be prepared to pay. I do feel as if you do not understand what the equal rights movement was about. It really has nothing to do with equal rights and everything to do with good manners. I was raised if I asked someone some where then I need to be prepared to pay the bill unless this had been discussed before going. If I am asked out I will have enough to cover my portion if need be. But I most likely would not offer to on the first date unless something was said to make me feel ill at ease. And what would make me feel ill at ease is if I thought the gentleman could not really afford the date. I would not want to burden anyone. Also I do not understand what you mean the best of both worlds. I only live in one world.

RE: battle over treasure from an old Spanish shipwreck

I could probly find several links to this event but where I live at we had a fleet of spanish ships go down in the eighteen hundreds. One of our storms got em. Anyhow I was raised that when and if we found something of value from those ships (and yes they had plenty of treasure on them ) If it was over a certain amount spain got some, the government got some and like my pay check I got to keep a little after everyone elses hands were in it. Not all the ships have been found. But as the years have passed by and my little haven has been populated, less and less treasure washes to shore. Though I know the jewels and gold is the prize I am a lover of old things and I love the old pieces of dish, even the old pieces of the ships. It is not always finders keepers Love the old treasure storys.

RE: could i win the lotto if i got the right numbers

Awww man I just signed on to say that I wasn't fast enough

RE: Women will bath their dog but won't their guy, why?

Well I have given it some thought and if I could find a man that would listen to me as well as my dog and move as fast when I call him or tell him to do something hell ya I will bathe him. Just like I do the dog. Jet stream water hose. And then he can go in and have his kibble and bits

RE: Why does one stop to view a profile but wont vote on it?

Trish I went to your profile and was going to rate your pics. It was turned off where women could not rate

Your pics are very nice I have mine turned off like many people do. I think I am happier just not knowing what others think of my piccys

RE: Would you slow dance with the person above you?

Yes in a heart beat

RE: New from Ohio

You really said a mouth full with so few words Hello to you too And welcome to the forums.

RE: If you were to come back into this world as an animal, which animal will you prefer to be and why?

I would like to be a giant tortoise If they die from natural causes they usually have a nice long life span and I will always have shelter with me.

RE: When to date a widowed person...

I have learned when my gut speaks to me listen to it. It is very seldom wrong. I also have learned from my own experience that you can be healed emotionally and still cry. It is not a competition so please do not feel like you are competing with the love of someone's life. If you feel this way then something is wrong. I don't think I would worry to much about being the first one he dated since his wife. But if I cared for him I would want to be the last. Maybe he hasn't dated because he has been waiting for that someone special to get his attention. It is common as adults sometimes we don't have the time to go out and date just for the sake of dating. Sometimes those around us just are not the ones we would like to spend time with. You have been here a while and you seem like a very nice person. So putting all I have written to side. I still for myself will always listen to my gut. I might not know why right then but I remember enough times feeling glad afterwards I listened. I wish you the best at what ever you decide. I am one that feels comfortable in that friend position. Hasn't a thing to do with me being a widow and everything to do with me being me

RE: What do you do............

I know that feeling I have a really good group of friends. And a close family. But sometimes when it hits me late at night and I am all alone...I write....or I think. I curl up on the couch and just remember the good times and how lucky I was to have them. And hopefully I will have them again. Also sometimes I just sign on here and play on the forums. It never last long for me. And maybe soon I will have that special someone here with me

RE: Would you eat less meat in order to save the environment...???

Yes you can you might not live happily. But you can live

RE: Would you eat less meat in order to save the environment...???

I actually am against cutting down the rain forest. But it is not my country so I don't think anyone really cares about my opinion. I don't eat alot of meat. Mostly chicken and seafood. I will every couple of months eat some red meat. But mostly it is chicken, fish and fresh veggies.

RE: Time to bring them home!

So young. And their families sadly I know how they most likely feel.

RE: Time to bring them home!

That is very sad The human mind, brain and soul is such a complex thing. Someone can snap in a second. No warning signs. Who really knows what causes this. It could be someone in a store with you or in your home This is just so sad

RE: Fat people.

Dogs happy! She got pizza tonight I haven't felt so good the last few weeks. So I have learned where to put my dinner Hope all is well your way

RE: Fat people.

While reading this thread I see quite a few automatically thought of woman I did not read it as to say woman. I just kind of wanted to throw that in the mix. Have a good evening all

RE: Happy Birthday Chococherrie !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope your special day is a good one. Happy Birthday!

RE: Were you in shock when you left your partner?

My husband left me. He didn't want to. He died It broke my heart. There are really no words to describe for the pain I felt. When I read the post about cheating it takes me back to the early years of our marriage. I had met a man and for some reason call it hormones or phermones something seem to make me notice him. I tried not to. And one day the thought of cheating crossed my mind. And in the same instant the thought of the pain it would inflict on my husband. You see I loved my husband to much to ever do anything to hurt him. I never forgot how I felt at the thought of hurting him and I never again entertained the thought of cheating or doing anything to hurt him again. As strange as it sounds I loved him so much to hurt him would of broke my heart

RE: HAVE YOU EVER fallen in love with your friend's girlfriend or boyfriend?

No....Some of my friends have some real nice men. They are not for me. Off limits. I don't look at them as available. Plenty of fish in that sea I don't need to inflict pain on myself and my friends.

RE: Which type of person do you dislike the most?

I did not realize that by wording it with the people I know was generalizing. But thank you for your opinion. Maybe you know them better than I