Happygolucky4u Forum Posts (6,241)

RE: If you've never heard of David Allan Coe

All I can say is I love his music but never party with the band and him..... This brings back some memories. Mainly me running out of a tour bus and them hollering come back we didn't mean to upset you And I do mean running in the physical sense Good group just a tad to wild back in the day for a small town country girl like me.

RE: When you are in a relationship, do you disclose everything to your partner?

Healthy relationships are built on respect...and trust as you say. Why would one want to know everything about the other person? I trusted my husband to be the best husband he could be while we were married. Some things I assure you in my past and his had no bearing on our relationship. If asked yes I would answer, but it might be with a none of your business answer. But good for you thinking that honesty and true confessions can be judged by this type of poll. How sad it must be for the person who is so insecure in life they need to hear it all

RE: I Want To Meet A Rancher

Since I have been alone...I have learned that google is my friend. I have learned how to do many household repairs. And worked on my riding mower for a couple of years...felt like when I wanted to use it I had to work on it to get it to run right. The one thing I like about googling is I can find answers in simple enough language that even I can fix stuff.So I know what you are saying about going to school to learn how to use some of the tools. Now I feel myself reaching the point where I would rather pay someone to do a lot of these things for me. It is the time. I always felt like I was working. Working at work, working at home. I needed to start going places and having some fun. Life is short.

RE: This is just too sad

Actually they have different programs and I have seen them myself in my area. One is the head start program. It is really a head start, your child is not just sitting there growing moss between its ears. It is being taught things it would be taught if it was lucky enough to of had a mum or dad there all the time to teach it.




Goals of Early Head Start for Family Child Care Demonstration Project

The ultimate goals of EHS for FCC were:
•Higher quality care for low-income children in family child care homes;
•Coordinated comprehensive services for families;
•Support to increase capacity for family child care providers; and

•Strong partnerships that support coordinated service delivery in communities.


And it does go on a persons income. We have some here also that are town provided. One I kinda wish I was a kid and got to go to it. It is awesome. And also march of dimes will help fund childcare they also do a seniors program. So grannies get taken care of too!

Lots of people have difficult lives. Lots of people have made bad choices. Lots of people have had children with absentee fathers. I don't believe she intended to kill those children. I think it most likely was the thought process of I can do this. Nothing bad will happen to me and my children. You never think it will happen to you. All the programs are well advertised for childcare if one wants childcare they can find it.

RE: This is just too sad

In my neck of the woods and our brutal heat here we have warnings all over the place about leaving your children or animals in the car. It takes no time at all for them to die from heat related causes. And it is an extremely painful death from what medical science says. Yet we still have this kind of thing happen here. Also in my area there is all kinds of government childcare to help people. Well there might not be soon with all the cutbacks How so do you see her as a victim as her children? I am just not understanding. I don't hate her. I feel sorry for her. But I do not see her as a victim. She made a conscious decision to leave the two young children in the car for an extended period of time. What was so much more important than their lives that would make this act ok?

RE: Are your picture real??

you kinda look like a tree, a nice tree tho

RE: For Bob..

RE: For Bob..

I don't know how they danced like that with those shoes on.....I know I couldn't.

RE: Can a TV Cable outage make your TV search channels and turn on and off randomly ?

I am unsure about a cable outage doing that. I do know when I have a power outage and they turn the power back on sometimes my tele will come on, even if I have not been watching for a while.

RE: What is your favorite music?

With me it depends on what kind of mood I am in Sometimes I like nice soft music other times I like the get up and move beat. In my area they no longer seem to have the simple piano bars of days gone by. Disappointing for one who would like an evening of romance with the soft music of Dean Martin or Frank Sinatra in the back ground. How about others. Do your areas have places like that to go to anymore?

RE: should a man judge a woman by the mistakes of her past

I think with myself it would depend on what the mistakes were. Lets be internet PC and call it preferences not judging. I prefer spending my time with someone who has not murdered a bunch of people whilst robbing a bank.

RE: Happy birthday to me!!

Aww happy birthday! Hope your day is a good one and filled with much happiness.

RE: what's the wants and needs of a mature woman..?

Sorry I was going to write them and just realized I have a lot of wants and needs. The ones that come to mind at this moment is peace quiet and to feel useful not used....For people who lie to me pants to catch on fire where I can see. To be able to freeze stupidity with a mere glance. And it would be nice to have someone who did not like to play games or argue come into my life to accompany on my journey. I found out when the game playing starts there is an imaginary door that closes in me. Some I think if I played the game might be worth the play. Yet I just don't have it in me to go thru the silly actions of what I see as stupidity. And it must not be stupidity it seems so many want to play these games.

Sorry just needed to get that out of my system

I am a complex woman

Any other question?

RE: Pakistan

Your offer is very kind. And there are many places I would like to see in the Pakistan region. Sadly it is not safe for me....I guess I will stay here and wait with the alligators. Why don't you post some pictures of your area in the thread cannot remember his name but I think the thread is titled what is outside your window. Believe he might be a English teacher in china...my memory is getting bad I know I have occasionally visited your page to look and see if you have updated it with your pics. Our climate is similar. Maybe you could take some pics of your town and post them on that thread.

RE: Australia!

Please can't we all just get along??? If we can't even get along on an internet dating site why would anyone even think we will get along in the world living in peace. Makes me wonder those who cry for peace is it just another ploy for Peace love change starts at home. Amongst yourself. Then if you are lucky to find it you pass it on to your children and they theirs. Yes it is a slow process but twill be the only way it will happen. If this is done then one day just maybe



Since I neither live in Australia or am familiar with the Aborigines I can only answer this with very limited amount of intelligence. I believe they are tribal.I know here the Indians that live on reservations have a political voice. It is usually from elders of the tribes or people that are in high standings. I would like to think the same is for the aborigines. I am sure their voice can always use a sympathetic extra voice to whatever the cause is. You sure have taken an interest in them. Reminds me of the time I took an interest in better educating the prisoners in our jail system so I volunteered to go out and teach reading to young offenders. Age ranged from fourteen to nineteen. All boys. The first day I dressed nicely went into the room with my Mary Poppins self took one look at this sea of faces and realized they did not look like little children....they were big enough and hardened by life enough to look instead like young men. They were not in there for petty crimes. Car jackings, armed robberies, murders. The guard looked at me and said we have power failures here often. If that happens you will go out that door and they will go out the other door. Then she shut the door leaving me alone with the sea of faces. Change happened that day(within me) I looked out amongst the sea of faces and was so scared that I burst our crying. The look I had seen as hardened changed and they spent the next fifteen minutes comforting me and assuring me they would not hurt me and they appreciated I was taking time out of my life to come help them. I spent a few years there till my step dad got sick and I had to help my mum. After work, three evenings a week I took what little supplies I could gather and went there. I heard their stories. I changed more. I learned to look past the outside of a person and into the inside and try to learn where they came from and what contributed to where they were at. The young man with what I thought was knife wounds when I looked at him that first night had been burned by his parents as punishment. And that was what caused all his scaring. He was in there for car jacking. He wanted to change. I think of him to this day. He wanted to change. A better life. I wonder if he found it. I wondered if he thought of me and that not all people are bad and want to hurt and not care. So I, just a mere poor person trying to make my own way in life knows change starts with the smallest of actions. I have a letter I keep here of when one I helped had gotten their GED (equivalent of highschool diploma) in that letter I am praised for being like superman It really wasn't me that did the hard work. But I still love that letter. It came from a woman of sixty years old. Yes I did not stop at just the little boys I moved on spreading my cause.

RE: Do you believe that ET's are really demons or fallen angels

I have read articles where some think they are Gods.

RE: I Want To Meet A Rancher

Actually stranger I thought I would make a longer ad. That might could be included. Do you think it would help. I was going to put come with own tools and fishing pole

RE: Do you believe the earth has been visited by aliens from space

It twould not be lady like for me to put that answer in words.

RE: I Want To Meet A Rancher

Please let me know how this works for you. I have been thinking about running an ad in my area. If for no other reason just the sheer pleasure of shocking my friends and family And if the ad works that would be a bonus

RE: Do you believe the earth has been visited by aliens from space

Just a guess on my part I would say lack of knowledge and resources to get us there? Humans have been working on it for decades.

RE: Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?

A good majority of them cannot even answer simple questions about the towns they live in. I have traveled all over the United States and have a fairly good memory. So I will ask questions about things they should know about. My favorite is the common store chain in the area they live in. The least you can do is google something like that for the answer if you do not know. But most people that live in a certain area know these places as well as they know the color of a stop sign.

RE: Are you a linear or divergent thinker?

I guess I am a divergent thinker. For work I have taken several test or quizzes depends who is testing you on what they call it After one test the psychologist looked at me and said you are the type of person that does not have one back up plan but several and they come to you fast. He was correct. So the quizzes do help find out stuff on us.

RE: Do you believe the earth has been visited by aliens from space

I voted neither yes or no. There was not no spot for I don't know


I myself have never seen one. but yet I look around this planet at the many unexplained things. And wonder, how it came to be.

RE: Do you believe your dog can choose a good partner for you?

Sadly yes and I see myself being single a long time

I use to have an old dog that loved everyone. One day this man stopped by and she would not let him get close to me whilst talking to me. Later on I seen where he had been arrested for a home invasion a few doors down. Now who would of thought. I do live in a good neighborhood. Was she sensing something. Or was it just a fluke?

RE: Are you a conformist, non-conformist, or compromiser, respectively?

I have been described as a wild card. To be honest I know I am a wild card. If the herd was going one way. Even if I agreed with them I most likely would be the one in the back dancing the wobble...I think I have conforming issues.

RE: men 50andover

You do know in real life he is a famous comedian. He will just not confess

RE: men 50andover

Yes tis a shame that some of the profiles I have seen and thought only to find the old geezer looking back at me wants a younger woman. There are enough that do not so I do not worry. Tho I do think it is funny some look a whole lotter older than me tho their profile age does not reflect that But good on them...if they can handle the ride "Bless their heart"

Just remember if you fall off get up and get back on! You can do it! It is the age old battle of can attitude really verse age? Just joking I really don't care. If that is what you want good on ya

RE: Will former Florida governor Jeb Bush be the next U.S. President

I was not aware Jeb was running for office? I had heard he was not going to run. I guess I have missed something in the news....Travon Martin is scooching all the other news out in this area right now. I have been trying to keep up with the other news but everywhere I look it is repeated news on the Travon trial

RE: Cultural differences

Culture does not run just from country to country. A lot is how a person is brought up. I myself know that you can go to dinner or movies with someone as friends. I also know you do not have to sleep with someone to make the relationship exclusive. I also know it takes two to make a relationship exclusive so I think it is something that should be discussed to make sure both are on the same page. I also wonder what you are talking about when you say women who confuse a man? I assure you with me there should be know confusion about where you stand...if there is it is because maybe you were confused before? I cannot help to wonder who made you the spoke person on

RE: do i look ok with false teeth? and would you go out with me?

Ya look great. Bet you will be feeling a lot better now also!