Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves? ( Archived) (50)

Jul 3, 2013 6:29 AM CSTDo most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?

Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?(Vote Below)

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I've asked many men on this sight to questions about their interests; jobs; etc (non-intimate questions) to get to know them better, but they seldom answer them. They write back & talk about the weather or some other mundane subject. This makes me think they are NOT 'intimately' oriented & would not be a good partner, as relationships are based on good communication & sharing aspects of ones' inner thoughts & feelings -- or even what the latest footie scores are!
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Jul 3, 2013 6:34 AM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Contacts? What contacts? confused

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Jul 3, 2013 6:54 AM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
why should open everything to new person that we never meet?
Some ppl ask question just to get our data. so we must be carefull.
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Jul 3, 2013 7:03 AM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Yes,but the answer is usuallly "sod Off".mumbling
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Jul 3, 2013 7:24 AM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Just read your profile Kibaluv and my GUESS is that you probably made yourself sound so weird that many / most guys simply don't want to engage... you've heard of The Too Hard Basket ?

Or perhaps there are specialist niche geek, nerdy scifi dating sites

For myself personally, if I see a woman looking for a guy 30 years her junior I just ROTF and LMSO

But hey, best of luck in your search and if YOU are happy with yourself don't ever change that!

teddybear cheers teddybear
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Jul 3, 2013 7:36 AM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
KIBALUV: I've asked many men on this sight to questions about their interests; jobs; etc (non-intimate questions) to get to know them better, but they seldom answer them. They write back & talk about the weather or some other mundane subject. This makes me think they are NOT 'intimately' oriented & would not be a good partner, as relationships are based on good communication & sharing aspects of ones' inner thoughts & feelings -- or even what the latest footie scores are!
A good majority of them cannot even answer simple questions about the towns they live in. I have traveled all over the United States and have a fairly good memory. So I will ask questions about things they should know about. My favorite is the common store chain in the area they live in. The least you can do is google something like that for the answer if you do not know. But most people that live in a certain area know these places as well as they know the color of a stop sign.
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Jul 3, 2013 3:32 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Just read your profile Kibaluv and my GUESS is that you probably made yourself sound so weird that many / most guys simply don't want to engage... you've heard of The Too Hard Basket ?

Well, if they are not interested in me, then why do they bother to contact me to begin with? I NEVER contact men on here!
BTW, I'm NOT 'weird.' I'm a creative artist, which I guess YOU wouldn't know the first thing about.
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Jul 3, 2013 3:39 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
I've found that scammers and the dishonest will not answer my questions, but the honest guys do. And yes, there are honest guys here.
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Jul 3, 2013 3:43 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Jillll: I've found that scammers and the dishonest will not answer my questions, but the honest guys do. And yes, there are honest guys here.


my experience as well..thumbs up
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Jul 3, 2013 3:57 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
roses4m
roses4mroses4mKawerau, Bay of Plenty New Zealand35 Posts
KIBALUV: I've asked many men on this sight to questions about their interests; jobs; etc (non-intimate questions) to get to know them better, but they seldom answer them. They write back & talk about the weather or some other mundane subject. This makes me think they are NOT 'intimately' oriented & would not be a good partner, as relationships are based on good communication & sharing aspects of ones' inner thoughts & feelings -- or even what the latest footie scores are!


Yes I have found that most of the men who have contacted me once you try to get to know them seem to ignore any questions not sure if it is a bloke thing or they just do not really wish to be open and get to know you.
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Jul 3, 2013 3:58 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Jillll: I've found that scammers and the dishonest will not answer my questions, but the honest guys do. And yes, there are honest guys here.
Jill ....My Love ....My Life ....where are you ? I miss you So bad since a long long time sweetheart darlin girl ...I love you ,ore than Internet and my Smart Phone ....Love you lips lips teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear bouquet bouquet gift gift yay yay kiss kiss cheers cheers handshake handshake comfort comfort hug hug (Just fun)

Hi Jillwave laugh
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Jul 3, 2013 4:00 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
roses4m: Yes I have found that most of the men who have contacted me once you try to get to know them seem to ignore any questions not sure if it is a bloke thing or they just do not really wish to be open and get to know you.
Hello New Girl how are you ? U seem new here .
This is Ali ,I do flrit with all girls from all countries and races wine handshake

laugh laugh
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Jul 3, 2013 4:02 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Contacts yep and the only contacts that ever comes in my mailbox are people spreading gossip about other members.
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Jul 3, 2013 4:04 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
reolvine420
reolvine420reolvine420taupo, Waikato New Zealand139 Threads 13 Polls 1,297 Posts
KIBALUV: I've asked many men on this sight to questions about their interests; jobs; etc (non-intimate questions) to get to know them better, but they seldom answer them. They write back & talk about the weather or some other mundane subject. This makes me think they are NOT 'intimately' oriented & would not be a good partner, as relationships are based on good communication & sharing aspects of ones' inner thoughts & feelings -- or even what the latest footie scores are!
not sure......is narnia a real place?
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Jul 3, 2013 4:06 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
ali110: Jill ....My Love ....My Life ....where are you ? I miss you So bad since a long long time sweetheart darlin girl ...I love you ,ore than Internet and my Smart Phone ....Love you (Just fun)

Hi Jill



More than your car and your bike too?
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Jul 3, 2013 4:16 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
roses4m
roses4mroses4mKawerau, Bay of Plenty New Zealand35 Posts
A great pastime most enjoyable a way to give and receive joy keep on keeping onpeace cheering applause
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Jul 3, 2013 4:17 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
roses4m
roses4mroses4mKawerau, Bay of Plenty New Zealand35 Posts
roses4m: A great pastime most enjoyable a way to give and receive joy keep on keeping on


So sorry this was for Ali otherwise it made no sense.
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Jul 3, 2013 5:39 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
reolvine420
reolvine420reolvine420taupo, Waikato New Zealand139 Threads 13 Polls 1,297 Posts
no,it seems they dont.......moping laugh
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Jul 3, 2013 5:39 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
reolvine420
reolvine420reolvine420taupo, Waikato New Zealand139 Threads 13 Polls 1,297 Posts
reolvine420: not sure......is narnia a real place?
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Jul 3, 2013 5:54 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Ken_19
Ken_19Ken_19Winchester, Virginia USA68 Threads 26 Polls 1,055 Posts
Jillll: I've found that scammers and the dishonest will not answer my questions, but the honest guys do. And yes, there are honest guys here.


True dat. One of the hallmarks of the scammer who suddenly emails you is a total ignoring of most questions you ask. Sometimes this is because they simply can't read or write a reply in English and are merely sending you letter #2, letter #3, letter#4, etc. from a script and hope you don't notice it (or google key sentences in their letter to see if it has been sent to other victims before). Of course sometimes it is just because the other person is a jerk.
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Jul 3, 2013 5:56 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
PJ1961
PJ1961PJ1961Somewhere..., Nicaragua19 Threads 2 Polls 905 Posts
Actually, when I first started here, I didn't ask questions of those I have communicated with. We engaged in conversations instead.
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Jul 3, 2013 5:59 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
PJ1961: Actually, when I first started here, I didn't ask questions of those I have communicated with. We engaged in conversations instead.



I think that's better. Less like an interview and more like a friendship.
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Jul 3, 2013 6:00 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Happygolucky4u: A good majority of them cannot even answer simple questions about the towns they live in. I have traveled all over the United States and have a fairly good memory. So I will ask questions about things they should know about. My favorite is the common store chain in the area they live in. The least you can do is google something like that for the answer if you do not know. But most people that live in a certain area know these places as well as they know the color of a stop sign.
thumbs up A lot of us seem to be "on autopilot". For instance, when I lived in the city, I could navigate anywhere, no problem. Anywhere. And quickly, too. I knew all the side routes, which would be busiest when, etc...what areas to avoid, where the prime parking was downtown and in the surrounding metro area. Boogered if I could tell anyone else how to do it....
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Jul 3, 2013 6:29 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Ken_19
Ken_19Ken_19Winchester, Virginia USA68 Threads 26 Polls 1,055 Posts
rohaan: A lot of us seem to be "on autopilot". For instance, when I lived in the city, I could navigate anywhere, no problem. Anywhere. And quickly, too. I knew all the side routes, which would be busiest when, etc...what areas to avoid, where the prime parking was downtown and in the surrounding metro area. Boogered if I could tell anyone else how to do it....


Yeah, but I bet you remember the name of your town's high school, and if someone tells you they lived there you would expect them to know the name wouldn't you? Or perhaps remember the big fire that destroyed a big part of the town, or the day the plane crashed or 100 other things the scammers will pretend they didn't see you write about.
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Jul 3, 2013 6:45 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
PJ1961
PJ1961PJ1961Somewhere..., Nicaragua19 Threads 2 Polls 905 Posts
Jillll: I think that's better. Less like an interview and more like a friendship.
indeed... I found it easy enough to do, and I reflected back to many years ago and thought, wow, I used to ask questions... we evolve at some point. peace
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Jul 5, 2013 1:08 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Ken_19: Yeah, but I bet you remember the name of your town's high school, and if someone tells you they lived there you would expect them to know the name wouldn't you? Or perhaps remember the big fire that destroyed a big part of the town, or the day the plane crashed or 100 other things the scammers will pretend they didn't see you write about.
Geeze...can I get ya a towel or somethin'? take it light, daddy-oh...coffee
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Jul 5, 2013 1:11 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
PJ1961: indeed... I found it easy enough to do, and I reflected back to many years ago and thought, wow, I used to ask questions... we evolve at some point.
hiya PJ--haven't been up long and already exhausted!! 4th was a pip--went out to the windy beach and played bocce and ate potato salad, watermelon and kosher hot doggies. What a grand life it is dear...heart1
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Jul 5, 2013 1:41 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
softheart001
softheart001softheart001Galax, Virginia USA2 Posts
I totally agree...What contacts?dunno
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Jul 5, 2013 1:46 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
softheart001
softheart001softheart001Galax, Virginia USA2 Posts
Hey Jill, where are the honest guys? I haven't found them.confused
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Jul 5, 2013 2:10 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
54xmax
54xmax54xmaxDublin, Ireland32 Threads 5 Polls 1,712 Posts
KIBALUV: I've asked many men on this sight to questions about their interests; jobs; etc (non-intimate questions) to get to know them better, but they seldom answer them. They write back & talk about the weather or some other mundane subject. This makes me think they are NOT 'intimately' oriented & would not be a good partner, as relationships are based on good communication & sharing aspects of ones' inner thoughts & feelings -- or even what the latest footie scores are!


When they do that - - - it means they are scamers - - - Real person answers the question - - Same goes with girls who also write in the same way - -well I use the world "girls" conditionally grin Scamers also grin - - Probably the same ones grin
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Jul 5, 2013 2:19 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Have you asked the retirees too????laugh
KIBALUV: I've asked many men on this sight to questions about their interests; jobs; etc (non-intimate questions) to get to know them better, but they seldom answer them. They write back & talk about the weather or some other mundane subject. This makes me think they are NOT 'intimately' oriented & would not be a good partner, as relationships are based on good communication & sharing aspects of ones' inner thoughts & feelings -- or even what the latest footie scores are!
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