Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves? (50)

Jul 5, 2013 2:22 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
softheart001: Hey Jill, where are the honest guys? I haven't found them.
They are some more than honest around,for your Info.!!scold
Jul 5, 2013 2:27 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
softheart001: Hey Jill, where are the honest guys? I haven't found them.



They are here on CS. Be open to talking to those outside of your comfort range like age, country, religion. I have met some really honest cool people here.
Jul 5, 2013 2:33 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
KIBALUV: Just read your profile Kibaluv and my GUESS is that you probably made yourself sound so weird that many / most guys simply don't want to engage... you've heard of The Too Hard Basket ?


BTW, I'm NOT 'weird.' I'm a creative artist, which I guess YOU wouldn't know the first thing about.
I find part of the above post of yours very conceited. Allow others to assess your creativity as an artist.-handshake cheers blah
Jul 6, 2013 4:53 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Maus19
Maus19Maus19Kilkenny, Ireland3 Threads 397 Posts
KIBALUV: I've asked many men on this sight to questions about their interests; jobs; etc (non-intimate questions) to get to know them better, but they seldom answer them. They write back & talk about the weather or some other mundane subject. This makes me think they are NOT 'intimately' oriented & would not be a good partner, as relationships are based on good communication & sharing aspects of ones' inner thoughts & feelings -- or even what the latest footie scores are!

You ask mundane non-intimate questions, they get answered or not by mundane non-intimate subjects and that makes your contacts non-intimately oriented. Some logic. Reap what you sow comes to mind.
Maybe it is time to reflect on how one shares 'inner thoughts & feelings' and how one communicates.
It might be more helpful than concentrating on that what one can not change.
Jul 6, 2013 5:00 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
1000 watt metal halide light...check

Uncomfortable chair with arms...check

Fresh roll of duct tape....check

Feather duster....check

nerd



Let the interrogation(s) begin.devil
Jul 6, 2013 5:01 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
kidatheart: 1000 watt metal halide light...check

Uncomfortable chair with arms...check

Fresh roll of duct tape....check

Feather duster....check


Let the interrogation(s) begin.


Sounds like you're ready for liftoff Kiddo laugh wave
Jul 6, 2013 5:05 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
2intrigued: Sounds like you're ready for liftoff Kiddo



Won't be lifting off 'til next week sometime. I'm waiting for delievery of the platinum version portaloo, it has a warm water bidet, and a plunger action, for those mornings where one has eaten a lil' too much cheese the night before.uncertain


laugh wave
Jul 6, 2013 5:09 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
kidatheart: Won't be lifting off 'til next week sometime. I'm waiting for delievery of the platinum version portaloo, it has a warm water bidet, and a plunger action, for those mornings where one has eaten a lil' too much cheese the night before.


Well, I'll get them to expidite it for you and confirm that there are only two buttons on it to activate the water and plunger...the third button is quite deadly I hear...wouldn't want that one. laugh
Jul 6, 2013 5:14 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
2intrigued: Well, I'll get them to expidite it for you and confirm that there are only two buttons on it to activate the water and plunger...the third button is quite deadly I hear...wouldn't want that one.


Third button?uncertain

Is that the dreaded tampon remover? uh oh

Just thinking about it brings tears to my eyes.crying
Jul 6, 2013 5:16 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
kidatheart: Third button?

Is that the dreaded tampon remover?

Just thinking about it brings tears to my eyes.


Yep, that's the one. grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Wouldn't want to lose the big guy eh? laugh
Jul 6, 2013 5:22 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
2intrigued: Yep, that's the one. Wouldn't want to lose the big guy eh?


Perhaps I should be ordering some chain mail or kevlar undies too.uh oh
Jul 6, 2013 5:25 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
kidatheart: Perhaps I should be ordering some chain mail or kevlar undies too.


I have confirmed that they are leaving out the ATR button. professor comfort laugh
Jul 6, 2013 5:25 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
PJ1961
PJ1961PJ1961Somewhere..., Nicaragua19 Threads 2 Polls 905 Posts
rohaan: hiya PJ--haven't been up long and already exhausted!! 4th was a pip--went out to the windy beach and played bocce and ate potato salad, watermelon and kosher hot doggies. What a grand life it is dear...
handshake Hey, Ro... sounds like a blast, especially the bocce game... lived next door to some folks who had bocce lawn games their backyard. That was pretty cool. peace I dodn't do anyhting 4th of julyish, it isn't in fashion in central america and I don't much care anymore. doh
Jul 6, 2013 5:36 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
Most people that contact me are non confrontational and mostly shy, like myself.
When lines have been crossed I will tell them what I think or call them on the spot!
Call them anywhere, forums, emails and blogs.
dunno
wrong thread again!
Jul 11, 2013 7:49 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
HonestlyLoving
HonestlyLovingHonestlyLovingSierra Vista, Arizona USA20 Posts
Jillll: I've found that scammers and the dishonest will not answer my questions, but the honest guys do. And yes, there are honest guys here.


That's right. The scammers will avoid answering your questions, even though they ask questions of you. If they won't answer your questions, then beware. Start suspecting. Especially if your questions aren't so personal as to what income they make, their account numbers, online passwords, their ssn number, etc. I would never ask these things from someone I met online, no matter how long our relationship is, no matter how much they tell you they love you. Especially since I haven't met the person, in person.

I, too, know there are honest fellows out here, on the Internet, it's too bad we all have to go through the heartache of meeting a few scammers along the way. But, I won't give up, don't you either.
I, truly wish you all the best in your search for your person you seek.
Aug 11, 2013 12:18 AM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
PJ1961: Actually, when I first started here, I didn't ask questions of those I have communicated with. We engaged in conversations instead.


Yes, I totally agree. I ask generalized questions to try to generate conversation, not to interrogate.
Aug 11, 2013 12:24 AM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
chris27292729: I find part of the above post of yours very conceited. Allow others to assess your creativity as an artist.-


Oh, & since when are YOU, or anyone else, an expert to assess my creativity? You are very presumptuous as to think you know anything about me -- including my so-called 'conceit.'
Sorry, but your insecure jealously is showing!
Aug 11, 2013 6:54 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
KIBALUV: I've asked many men on this sight to questions about their interests; jobs; etc (non-intimate questions) to get to know them better, but they seldom answer them. They write back & talk about the weather or some other mundane subject. This makes me think they are NOT 'intimately' oriented & would not be a good partner, as relationships are based on good communication & sharing aspects of ones' inner thoughts & feelings -- or even what the latest footie scores are!


I seldom answer questions..maybe a few here & there
Aug 11, 2013 6:57 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
happy369
happy369happy369Onehorsetown, Indonesia979 Posts
from personal experience, if one person is always asking questions and the other vaguely replies, it means they are not interested in you or the questions
Aug 11, 2013 7:01 PM CST Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?
janie1305
janie1305janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK16 Threads 916 Posts
I don't communicate much with CS members, but when I do I think I probably ask too many questions. It's the teacher in me. My students are mostly adults and conversation classes are initially based on questions to prompt them to talk freely in English without being interrupted or corrected.

Most CS men who contact me are generally happy to answer my questions as they are never too personal, and those who aren't usually stop writing. laugh
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