softheart001: Hey Jill, where are the honest guys? I haven't found them.
They are here on CS. Be open to talking to those outside of your comfort range like age, country, religion. I have met some really honest cool people here.
KIBALUV: Just read your profile Kibaluv and my GUESS is that you probably made yourself sound so weird that many / most guys simply don't want to engage... you've heard of The Too Hard Basket ?
BTW, I'm NOT 'weird.' I'm a creative artist, which I guess YOU wouldn't know the first thing about.
I find part of the above post of yours very conceited. Allow others to assess your creativity as an artist.-
KIBALUV: I've asked many men on this sight to questions about their interests; jobs; etc (non-intimate questions) to get to know them better, but they seldom answer them. They write back & talk about the weather or some other mundane subject. This makes me think they are NOT 'intimately' oriented & would not be a good partner, as relationships are based on good communication & sharing aspects of ones' inner thoughts & feelings -- or even what the latest footie scores are!
You ask mundane non-intimate questions, they get answered or not by mundane non-intimate subjects and that makes your contacts non-intimately oriented. Some logic. Reap what you sow comes to mind. Maybe it is time to reflect on how one shares 'inner thoughts & feelings' and how one communicates. It might be more helpful than concentrating on that what one can not change.
2intrigued: Sounds like you're ready for liftoff Kiddo
Won't be lifting off 'til next week sometime. I'm waiting for delievery of the platinum version portaloo, it has a warm water bidet, and a plunger action, for those mornings where one has eaten a lil' too much cheese the night before.
kidatheart: Won't be lifting off 'til next week sometime. I'm waiting for delievery of the platinum version portaloo, it has a warm water bidet, and a plunger action, for those mornings where one has eaten a lil' too much cheese the night before.
Well, I'll get them to expidite it for you and confirm that there are only two buttons on it to activate the water and plunger...the third button is quite deadly I hear...wouldn't want that one.
2intrigued: Well, I'll get them to expidite it for you and confirm that there are only two buttons on it to activate the water and plunger...the third button is quite deadly I hear...wouldn't want that one.
rohaan: hiya PJ--haven't been up long and already exhausted!! 4th was a pip--went out to the windy beach and played bocce and ate potato salad, watermelon and kosher hot doggies. What a grand life it is dear...
Hey, Ro... sounds like a blast, especially the bocce game... lived next door to some folks who had bocce lawn games their backyard. That was pretty cool. I dodn't do anyhting 4th of julyish, it isn't in fashion in central america and I don't much care anymore.
Most people that contact me are non confrontational and mostly shy, like myself. When lines have been crossed I will tell them what I think or call them on the spot! Call them anywhere, forums, emails and blogs.
Jillll: I've found that scammers and the dishonest will not answer my questions, but the honest guys do. And yes, there are honest guys here.
That's right. The scammers will avoid answering your questions, even though they ask questions of you. If they won't answer your questions, then beware. Start suspecting. Especially if your questions aren't so personal as to what income they make, their account numbers, online passwords, their ssn number, etc. I would never ask these things from someone I met online, no matter how long our relationship is, no matter how much they tell you they love you. Especially since I haven't met the person, in person.
I, too, know there are honest fellows out here, on the Internet, it's too bad we all have to go through the heartache of meeting a few scammers along the way. But, I won't give up, don't you either. I, truly wish you all the best in your search for your person you seek.
chris27292729: I find part of the above post of yours very conceited. Allow others to assess your creativity as an artist.-
Oh, & since when are YOU, or anyone else, an expert to assess my creativity? You are very presumptuous as to think you know anything about me -- including my so-called 'conceit.' Sorry, but your insecure jealously is showing!
KIBALUV: I've asked many men on this sight to questions about their interests; jobs; etc (non-intimate questions) to get to know them better, but they seldom answer them. They write back & talk about the weather or some other mundane subject. This makes me think they are NOT 'intimately' oriented & would not be a good partner, as relationships are based on good communication & sharing aspects of ones' inner thoughts & feelings -- or even what the latest footie scores are!
I seldom answer questions..maybe a few here & there
from personal experience, if one person is always asking questions and the other vaguely replies, it means they are not interested in you or the questions
janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK916 posts
I don't communicate much with CS members, but when I do I think I probably ask too many questions. It's the teacher in me. My students are mostly adults and conversation classes are initially based on questions to prompt them to talk freely in English without being interrupted or corrected.
Most CS men who contact me are generally happy to answer my questions as they are never too personal, and those who aren't usually stop writing.
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