When you are in a relationship, do you disclose everything to your partner? (60)
In my past NO that way it can't be used against me.
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Ccincy: In my past NO that way it can't be used against me.
Ccincy, you are so funny!
You always tell is like it is! I love it!
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Well, Iwouldn't find it necessary to talk about every relationship we had before we met... But once we are IN a relationship there should be no secrets
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lalasierra: Do you discclose everything about yourself to your partner when you are in a relationship?
Why or why not
Why or why not
All except my shlong size
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yes within the relationships we all have secretes we want to keep to ourselves though.
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Dedovix: All except my shlong size
Oookay.... Trying to work this out 
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serena123: Oookay.... Trying to work this out
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Ccincy: In my past NO that way it can't be used against me.
Love your reply.....you made me laugh!!!
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serena123: Oookay.... Trying to work this out
figure out what ???
the meaning of my sentence or the size ...
PS; sorry couldn`t resist ...
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lalasierra: Ccincy, you are so funny! You always tell is like it is! I love it!
I was taught as a child to always tell it like it is.My mouth gets me into trouble sometimes.
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Ccincy: I was taught as a child to always tell it like it is.My mouth gets me into trouble sometimes.
Haahahhaa! I bet it does!
I think that's the best way to be - straight forward! Good for you. 
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I would rather tell him what he might find out on his own. That way it doesn't look like I was hiding something.
In today's world, you can find out whatever you want to know about someone. I'd rather be upfront and honest.
In today's world, you can find out whatever you want to know about someone. I'd rather be upfront and honest.
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only if she deaf
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Dammit, I've fotgotten what I had for my tea on the 17th March 1973.
I did beat my sister at Monopoly on the 23rd August 1978 at approximately 11.38am, though.
But, hey, do you think it might be a bit wearisome to disclose everything?
I did beat my sister at Monopoly on the 23rd August 1978 at approximately 11.38am, though.
But, hey, do you think it might be a bit wearisome to disclose everything?
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No way! Its hard enough now to find the "right one",so if i did and told her everything about my past,i wouldnt see her for dust!
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How sad that so far the poll total for lying, or not telling your partner everything, is at 75%. HEALTHY relationships are built solely on trust. And people wonder why their relationships never work out... (There should be an emoticon for 'Dunce!')
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serena123: Oookay.... Trying to work this out,With a tape measure????
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online today!KIBALUV: How sad that so far the poll total for lying, or not telling your partner everything, is at 75%. HEALTHY relationships are built solely on trust. And people wonder why their relationships never work out... (There should be an emoticon for 'Dunce!')
Healthy relationships are built on respect...and trust as you say. Why would one want to know everything about the other person? I trusted my husband to be the best husband he could be while we were married. Some things I assure you in my past and his had no bearing on our relationship. If asked yes I would answer, but it might be with a none of your business answer. But good for you thinking that honesty and true confessions can be judged by this type of poll. How sad it must be for the person who is so insecure in life they need to hear it all 
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rebel2: Are not some things best left where they are.
Just an example of "some things are better left unsaid".
You are very right.Just an example of "some things are better left unsaid".
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Dedovix: figure out what ???
the meaning of my sentence or the size ...
PS; sorry couldn`t resist ...
Boththe meaning of my sentence or the size ...
PS; sorry couldn`t resist ...
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Happygolucky4u: Healthy relationships are built on respect...and trust as you say. Why would one want to know everything about the other person? I trusted my husband to be the best husband he could be while we were married. Some things I assure you in my past and his had no bearing on our relationship. If asked yes I would answer, but it might be with a none of your business answer. But good for you thinking that honesty and true confessions can be judged by this type of poll. How sad it must be for the person who is so insecure in life they need to hear it all
I didn't mean one should disclose all of their past mistakes or problems. Only if they feel comfortable in doing so. I meant people should be honest during their current relationship. Altho, after I married, I found a paper where my husband had been caught shop-lifting (before our marriage). It began to cast doubts about his honesty concerning present things, & sure enough, he lied, & lied & lied right up until the day I left him.
A friend of mine had gone thru 4 or 5 divorces. He told his last fiance´EVERYTHING about his past & allowed her to choose if to marry him or not. She did & they have been happily married for many, many years.
I feel it's best to be upfront about everything -- past or present -- instead of eventually finding it out & being shocked & disillusioned because you have married someone who is NOT who they claim to be. My X-hubby told me some very private things about his past, but I didn't judge him in the least for any of them. I thought him a better man for being completely honest with me.
I fail to see where insecurity has anything at all to do with an honest, intimate relationship. The point is not the NEED to 'hear it all' but that is what healthy relationships are based on. I feel the person who can NOT be honest is the one who is insecure that they will lose their partner if they were to know the full truth about who they are REALLY with.
Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy, as it makes for stronger relationships! The more you share, the more you care.
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That is even why love is made for, be honest and sincere.. there should not be any secrets between lovers, or thats not meant to be true relationships.. then i have not killed yet, not stolen either.. LOL 
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KIBALUV: I didn't mean one should disclose all of their past mistakes or problems. Only if they feel comfortable in doing so. I meant people should be honest during their current relationship. Altho, after I married, I found a paper where my husband had been caught shop-lifting (before our marriage). It began to cast doubts about his honesty concerning present things, & sure enough, he lied, & lied & lied right up until the day I left him.
A friend of mine had gone thru 4 or 5 divorces. He told his last fiance´EVERYTHING about his past & allowed her to choose if to marry him or not. She did & they have been happily married for many, many years.
I feel it's best to be upfront about everything -- past or present -- instead of eventually finding it out & being shocked & disillusioned because you have married someone who is NOT who they claim to be. My X-hubby told me some very private things about his past, but I didn't judge him in the least for any of them. I thought him a better man for being completely honest with me.
I fail to see where insecurity has anything at all to do with an honest, intimate relationship. The point is not the NEED to 'hear it all' but that is what healthy relationships are based on. I feel the person who can NOT be honest is the one who is insecure that they will lose their partner if they were to know the full truth about who they are REALLY with.
Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy, as it makes for stronger relationships! The more you share, the more you care.
A friend of mine had gone thru 4 or 5 divorces. He told his last fiance´EVERYTHING about his past & allowed her to choose if to marry him or not. She did & they have been happily married for many, many years.
I feel it's best to be upfront about everything -- past or present -- instead of eventually finding it out & being shocked & disillusioned because you have married someone who is NOT who they claim to be. My X-hubby told me some very private things about his past, but I didn't judge him in the least for any of them. I thought him a better man for being completely honest with me.
I fail to see where insecurity has anything at all to do with an honest, intimate relationship. The point is not the NEED to 'hear it all' but that is what healthy relationships are based on. I feel the person who can NOT be honest is the one who is insecure that they will lose their partner if they were to know the full truth about who they are REALLY with.
Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy, as it makes for stronger relationships! The more you share, the more you care.
Not everyone is like you in regards to not holding it against someone if they tell about the past.
I've seen where someone will tell all about their past and had someone use it against them by spreading gossip by purposely changing the wording around to make that person look like a bad and evil person.
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beautifulyou: Dedovix Hi lalasierra,
I will definitely get back to the question,
At the moment, I can't stop laughing!
Glad to see I'm not the only one who's wondering how such a HUGE part of a relationship can stay hidden I will definitely get back to the question,
At the moment, I can't stop laughing!
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How can you disclose everything...........when you reach 50 you can´t recite it in 5 minutes.
Things come out in the course of time....whether the partner thinks differently when you confess something is another problem. Mostly it´s best to keep to the truth as and when it arises.
Things come out in the course of time....whether the partner thinks differently when you confess something is another problem. Mostly it´s best to keep to the truth as and when it arises.
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I disclose anything they ask about. Hopefully they remember the old rule, 'never ask a question if you may not like the answer.'
Alternatively if she hasn't asked, the answer there, not my fault she didn't ask.
Alternatively if she hasn't asked, the answer there, not my fault she didn't ask.
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hoolet: How can you disclose everything...........when you reach 50 you can´t recite it in 5 minutes.
Things come out in the course of time....whether the partner thinks differently when you confess something is another problem. Mostly it´s best to keep to the truth as and when it arises.
Things come out in the course of time....whether the partner thinks differently when you confess something is another problem. Mostly it´s best to keep to the truth as and when it arises.
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When I'm in a relationship I'm not so much concerned about telling him everything about my past. There are things which had a big impact on my life and I only find it fair to mention that, but no trivial stuff other if I'm asked about it.
I do find it important that I can confide in someone and be able to talk about things which are important to me or bother me - and in a good relationship, this goes both way.
Worked well for me so far.
I do find it important that I can confide in someone and be able to talk about things which are important to me or bother me - and in a good relationship, this goes both way.
Worked well for me so far.
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When you are in a relationship, do you disclose everything to your partner?(Vote Below)
Why or why not