Would you date someone who has been involved with a friend or family member in the past? (34)
It depends how they end up and who was responsible,if she was responsible definately no otherwise welcome
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Jack68: It depends how they end up and who was responsible,if she was responsible definately no otherwise welcome
I also think taking into consideration how the other people feel about it would also be a factor.:wine I know I definately wouldn't want to be in a situation like, that's for sure!
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trisher69: I also think taking into consideration how the other people feel about it would also be a factor.:wine
I know I definately wouldn't want to be in a situation like, that's for sure!
Here in pakistan family system is very stronge,we have to go according to the wish of family and friends.In U.S we can consider about it because of a free countryI know I definately wouldn't want to be in a situation like, that's for sure!
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Nope their an ex for a reason...I personally would not want a friend or family member dating my ex...it would cause resentment no matter what people say..as there was the history between the two people
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Jack68: Here in pakistan family system is very stronge,we have to go according to the wish of family and friends.In U.S we can consider about it because of a free country
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All i can say is NO, thankgod my sisters and i have completely different taste in men ,and no between my family it would be a complete no,no..
I think when you are younger this happens alot among early teens.
I think when you are younger this happens alot among early teens.
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pops666: Nope their an ex for a reason...I personally would not want a friend or family member dating my ex...it would cause resentment no matter what people say..as there was the history between the two people
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not me,, family is always first. would aiways make things uneasy at the holidays...but a quikie,,maybe....
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aramaya: All i can say is NO, thankgod my sisters and i have completely different taste in men ,and no between my family it would be a complete no,no..
I think when you are younger this happens alot among early teens.
I think when you are younger this happens alot among early teens.
You are right, I have seen this among the teens first hand. It doesn't seem to bother them one bit!
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jackaroo11: not me,, family is always first. would aiways make things uneasy at the holidays...but a quikie,,maybe....
Yes, family holidays would be quite uncomfortable! But I agree, family first.
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trisher69: Yes, family holidays would be quite uncomfortable! But I agree, family first.
hi trish, be safe today, bad weather here today... ------ This poll is Archived ------
jackaroo11: hi trish, be safe today, bad weather here today...
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Family memebers ex, no way, do not even look at them as a possiability. Have not dated any friends exes. But I would have to say it would depend on a lot of things there. To many really to post at one time. 
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aramaya: They live in the moment alot more then adults..
Keep up the great work trish
I don't remember living in the moment when I was young.Keep up the great work trish
THANKS!
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No, I'm not keen on leftovers
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trisher69: What if she drove a Lexus?
Absolutley...definitely want to try love in a Lexus.
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In all my life I have never known this to be a good thing.
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rohaan: In all my life I have never known this to be a good thing.
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rohaan: In all my life I have never known this to be a good thing.
Im with you
with millions of men out there why would you even want one who has some past connection
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I am living that dream (or nightmare) as we speak. My sister is with my ex and its getting uglier by the day.
We all live on a small Island and I have a great urge to get away from them.
We all live on a small Island and I have a great urge to get away from them.
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I have to add that without the love of my wonderful man, I would go off the deep end.
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whowhatwherewhen: I have to add that without the love of my wonderful man, I would go off the deep end.
O no!!! I'm so sorry for you, that's got to be tough.
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I do agree for the most part with Rohaan, but I also think if enough time has past and you are not around each other much - in otherwords - if it is handled well, it could work out OK
much depends on the people involved, the situation, & how they handle it. But of course we can date whomever we please - just for dating sake I doubt I'd want to deal with the outcome of something like that.
On the other hand, if we were truly in love and knew we wanted to be together as life partners, I would handle it as tactfully as possible.
I wouldn't forsake a great love just because he was friends with an "ex", no, but I would not casually date his friends just to cause him pain. That would be playing games.
much depends on the people involved, the situation, & how they handle it. But of course we can date whomever we please - just for dating sake I doubt I'd want to deal with the outcome of something like that.
On the other hand, if we were truly in love and knew we wanted to be together as life partners, I would handle it as tactfully as possible.
I wouldn't forsake a great love just because he was friends with an "ex", no, but I would not casually date his friends just to cause him pain. That would be playing games.
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whowhatwherewhen: I am living that dream (or nightmare) as we speak. My sister is with my ex and its getting uglier by the day.
We all live on a small Island and I have a great urge to get away from them.
We all live on a small Island and I have a great urge to get away from them.
"He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare--
And he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere"
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Poll: Would you date someone who has been involved with a friend or family member in the past?
Friend? Sure, why not.
Family member?
That might depend on whether it was a member of her family or mine?
Friend? Sure, why not.
Family member?
That might depend on whether it was a member of her family or mine?
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Does that mean youre looking for a 35-45 year old guy who´s never been in a relationship? 
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EagleWoman: Does that mean youre looking for a 35-45 year old guy who´s never been in a relationship?
Sorry that post was for "Howdoyoudo"
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It would feel a bit weird, don't think i could do it! 
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rohaan: "He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare--
And he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere"
And he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere"
catchy but pretty meaningless really - if someone is going to be enemies because they date an ex girl friend? that's just bizarreo land
and a real friend is not going to tell another friend whom to date - that is just weird
I'd say if one cannot be adult about it then just stay away from each other....
trying to control whom others date is a maladjusted control issue...in my opinion
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Created: Apr 2012
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