I try and keep an open mind about first and last impressions...
It's easy for some of those to put on a really great first impression at the start and end up being a total mismatch/liar or a turd in the end (especially f#$%^&$ scammers)
And other times, you might get a real genuine person who doesn't necessarily make the best first impression, but ends up being really good to you in the end.
Differs from one to another, but I have to say if you can get somebody who makes both impressions well, then you've struck gold.
Just dont make it too vague and fill your whole profile with metaphors and similes because that's what alot of scammers seem to do... a little bit doesn't hurt though.
Unless it is deemed as a serious case, I would not seek the help of a psychiatrist... I nearly fell into the trap by being referred to one through my stupid f#$%^ psychologist for medication only (that I never needed in the first place) and felt like I was just going to be bounced back and forth like a god damn hot potato.
Depression is rated as the most debilitating diseases, mostly because if it's not treated (let alone recognised early) can manifest into serious problems...
Recognising the fact that you have depression alone is the battle half fought already. After that, it's more or less just riding out the storm and going with the motions...
I think that's a very broad outlook on the topic... If you really wish for and long for something, and when it does come along then why would you be disappointed???
Surprised and maybe a little shocked maybe, but nothing bad (I hope anyway)
I gotta admit, that some of the best ones I have come across so far that are up my alley are too far away... sure it would be nice to chat and so forth, but do you really think 99% of the time you are ever going to travel to meet them and vice-versa???
And Iam not talking about those scammer scum from Nigeria, Russia etc...
Like us, women are not mind readers, but to be upfront and honest I feel like I couldnt sum up the courage enough to let a girl know what I feel about her... Unless we spent a bit of time together and got to know each other then I'd spill the beans. But until then, Iam afraid I chicken out
And dont assume that just because anybody who doesnt decide to display a pic in their profile is 'hiding something'.... bloody typical close minded answer if I must say...
Kinda like saying that people who wear sunglasses all the time hide their identities (and have 'something to hide')... get the drift ??? !!!!
It's a matter of personal choice really... Some people just look at the pic most times and conjure up a false image about you... esp. when they dont bother to take time and read your profile.
Very much so. Once I get there and find that special someone, then in all honesty I would never leave them no matter the physical disability side of things.
Its strange I actually thought about this @ one stage some time back about somebody I really wanted to develop a relationship with, and if anything drastic was to ever happen, I would always be there no matter what
A very large sword, or the M18A1 Claymore Anti-personnel mine which is a directional blast weapon often used in an ambush setting... packed with about 600 or so 1/8 inch steel ball bearings. Do ALOT of F#$%^ damage.
Its just a mindset matter... either some are stuck in financial matters together/kids/possessions etc. then it would be complicated. Theres no quick and hard fast rules, but theres no way I could handle being in a miserable realtionship for one breathing moment either.
Without it, I'd feel disconnected from the world... If I had a social life or somebody to be with I would probably be off it most of the time, but that aint happening!!!
Dodge007 Forum Posts (30)
RE: "first impression is last impression" do you agree with this statment?
I try and keep an open mind about first and last impressions...It's easy for some of those to put on a really great first impression at the start and end up being a total mismatch/liar or a turd in the end (especially f#$%^&$ scammers)
And other times, you might get a real genuine person who doesn't necessarily make the best first impression, but ends up being really good to you in the end.
Differs from one to another, but I have to say if you can get somebody who makes both impressions well, then you've struck gold.