jeepersOPCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
Looking at profiles I see where people are looking for this, looking for that...but really, are you looking ? Are you ready ? What's holding you back from going for the one, or ones who seem so interesting to you ?
For me, it is personal insecurities caused by a failed marriage, two relationships afterwards that shouldn't have happened, and financial. I see ladies all the time, thinking I would really like to get to know that person, but I hold myself back.
What's your deal ?
I have to go to work now and see what I can do about the financial insecurities now ~!!
Culturally in my era, women waited until they were asked.
I have found from my time on here, that generally, men I have had to ask on a date weren't worth my time, no guts or backbone.
My attitude is that I have filled in the criteria for a profile and if someone likes it then they can contact me. If not, fine too. I am not in the business of chasing anyone.
jeepers: Looking at profiles I see where people are looking for this, looking for that...but really, are you looking ? Are you ready ? What's holding you back from going for the one, or ones who seem so interesting to you ?
For me, it is personal insecurities caused by a failed marriage, two relationships afterwards that shouldn't have happened, and financial. I see ladies all the time, thinking I would really like to get to know that person, but I hold myself back.
What's your deal ? I have to go to work now and see what I can do about the financial insecurities now ~!!
Have a nice day.
Illness holds me back for now jeep....but fi and when I beat it ...you guys will have your work cut out... ...
I am similar to you Jeeps but in addition I have kids to see through schooling etc until they are independant [prayer emote] so I'm not going anywhere for a few years yet. As for someone coming from abroad to live with me .... I'm scared of the sudden intensity of that one. Finding a local lass is really the solution for me. I need to get out on the bus more I reckon ....
Well Jeeps Im not a person that holds back usually but its difficult to start an LDR with anyone really no matter where they are. If theyre not within 100 ks theres really not much future.
As for what Im looking for one word really - passion.
Like a few who posted before me a certain amount of lack of confidence and the insecurity that comes with failed relationships. Other than that nothing only the fact I am wary of rejection. Wonder why???
Hi K, it's nice to be free. A wee question for you, would the desination hold you back at all. i.e. if it was a very cold country where your lover was perhaps ?
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
RDM59: Hi K, it's nice to be free. A wee question for you, would the desination hold you back at all. i.e. if it was a very cold country where your lover was perhaps ?
Big_John: We have quite large woods around these parts.... what are the possibilities?
If you would slow down, I could tackle you from behind. Then take your golf clubs, and hit your balls into the woods. Just kidding babe, I would be up front.
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
patmac: Like a few who posted before me a certain amount of lack of confidence and the insecurity that comes with failed relationships. Other than that nothing only the fact I am wary of rejection. Wonder why???
TOO serious for me Gmes on logging of
I can understand that, a the past can leave scars that last a life time. Perhaps not everyone gets over a failed relationship but in time it just gets easier to deal with. For me the past is exactly that. I am not going to spend hours upon hours analysing why something failed, why, because you can see right before your very eyes happening.
Christmas1: If you would slow down, I could tackle you from behind. Then take your golf clubs, and hit your balls into the woods. Just kidding babe, I would be up front.
John doesn't need any help with hitting balls into the woods ...
RDM59: John doesn't need any help with hitting balls into the woods ...
Anybody can play from that short grass in the middle of the fairways.... A really good golfer can play from the rough, behind trees and out in the woods.
Christmas1: If you would slow down, I could tackle you from behind. Then take your golf clubs, and hit your balls into the woods. Just kidding babe, I would be up front.
I'm looking for someone that is running at the same speed that I am....I don't plan to slow down; I need a lady who likes to move around both in and out of the woods.
Big_John: Anybody can play from that short grass in the middle of the fairways.... A really good golfer can play from the rough, behind trees and out in the woods.
Play rough!!! I put all that gear away for the winter.
Christmas1: Play rough!!! I put all that gear away for the winter.
I have friends in Canada who live in Ottawa. Also, I been to Sault Ste Marie many, many times.... beautiful places in the summer, but I can't handle the winters up there. JMHO...
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What's holding you back from going for the one, or ones who seem so interesting to you ?
For me, it is personal insecurities caused by a failed marriage, two relationships afterwards that shouldn't have happened, and financial. I see ladies all the time, thinking I would really like to get to know that person, but I hold myself back.
What's your deal ?
I have to go to work now and see what I can do about the financial insecurities now ~!!
Have a nice day.