What's holding you back ? (156)
LadyPhoenix1965Chesterland, Ohio USA17 Threads 1,047 PostsPUMPKIN TIME!!! This princess is going to bed, before it gets any uglier in here...
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I'm two steps ahead..can't get any uglier!!
LadyPhoenix1965: PUMPKIN TIME!!! This princess is going to bed, before it gets any uglier in here...
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nanners2863: I'm two steps ahead..can't get any uglier!!
oh yes it can... trust me !!!
yall just cant hang with the big boyz to see it happen is all !!!!
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seekndestroy: naw... dont do the pics !!!!!!
what is funny is you send a flower saying you like her profile and she does not have the kindnest to say thank you but the next night she has the high morals to coment on your flower to me if she is not insersted the frist time why stict your nose into it it.get a damn life .I sent her one flower and never bother her again but she has to try to be funny she might need to google funny before trying it 
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desmond: what is funny is you send a flower saying you like her profile and she does not have the kindnest to say thank you but the next night she has the high morals to coment on your flower to me if she is not insersted the frist time why stict your nose into it it.get a damn life .I sent her one flower and never bother her again but she has to try to be funny she might need to google funny before trying it
aaaahhh....
dont sweat it bro..... just chalk it up to womanhood and their inability to communicate effectively with us.... !!!!!
im sure she was just trying to be funny without realizing that some of us dont take "funny" the same as others !!!!
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nanners2863: I'm two steps ahead..can't get any uglier!!
Beware of the flowers you receive in the mail. Especially roses,
they always have thorns.
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Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it ! 
Then what are you gonna do with it? 
End Result
Then what are you gonna do with it?
End Result
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In response to: Looking at profiles I see where people are looking for this, looking for that...but really, are you looking ? Are you ready ?
What's holding you back from going for the one, or ones who seem so interesting to you ?
For me, it is personal insecurities caused by a failed marriage, two relationships afterwards that shouldn't have happened, and financial. I see ladies all the time, thinking I would really like to get to know that person, but I hold myself back.
What's your deal ? I have to go to work now and see what I can do about the financial insecurities now ~!!
Have a nice day.
What's holding you back from going for the one, or ones who seem so interesting to you ?
For me, it is personal insecurities caused by a failed marriage, two relationships afterwards that shouldn't have happened, and financial. I see ladies all the time, thinking I would really like to get to know that person, but I hold myself back.
What's your deal ? I have to go to work now and see what I can do about the financial insecurities now ~!!
Have a nice day.
I gotta admit, that some of the best ones I have come across so far that are up my alley are too far away... sure it would be nice to chat and so forth, but do you really think 99% of the time you are ever going to travel to meet them and vice-versa???
And Iam not talking about those scammer scum from Nigeria, Russia etc...
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fasterthanthem5: Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it !
Then what are you gonna do with it?
End Result
Then what are you gonna do with it?
End Result
I think that's a very broad outlook on the topic... If you really wish for and long for something, and when it does come along then why would you be disappointed???
Surprised and maybe a little shocked maybe, but nothing bad (I hope anyway)
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Dodge007: I think that's a very broad outlook on the topic... If you really wish for and long for something, and when it does come along then why would you be disappointed???
Surprised and maybe a little shocked maybe, but nothing bad (I hope anyway)
Surprised and maybe a little shocked maybe, but nothing bad (I hope anyway)
Good morning everyone !!A lot of folk have mentioned the rejection part throughout this thread, but for me, along side that fear of rejection there is the extreme opposite fear, the fear of things going bad. For some, including myself, there is the difficulty of letting go when things aren't good. Thin it continues to only get worst. I am getting over this fear too....whew ! So many things to hold us back.
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jeepers: Good morning everyone !!
A lot of folk have mentioned the rejection part throughout this thread, but for me, along side that fear of rejection there is the extreme opposite fear, the fear of things going bad. For some, including myself, there is the difficulty of letting go when things aren't good. Thin it continues to only get worst. I am getting over this fear too....whew ! So many things to hold us back.
A lot of folk have mentioned the rejection part throughout this thread, but for me, along side that fear of rejection there is the extreme opposite fear, the fear of things going bad. For some, including myself, there is the difficulty of letting go when things aren't good. Thin it continues to only get worst. I am getting over this fear too....whew ! So many things to hold us back.
Good Morning too all my thread buddies who are just waking up.......and Im about to sleep 
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seekndestroy: hell.... canada...... same diff.... its just that one is colder than the other !!!!!
it is cold only in the winter and winter here is a little longer than in some places in the US.
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sweetlyscented1: Good Morning too all my thread buddies who are just waking up.......and Im about to sleep
Sleep well. How is my day going to be,? you've seen it already. Sleep well.
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equiya: it is cold only in the winter and winter here is a little longer than in some places in the US.
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jeepers: Stay warm, plenty warm here today.
Thanks. It's not too bad today neither was it yesterday.
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Cant really put my finger on it right now....
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A psycho ex/stalker, concentrating on my degree just now and I suppose my mini-me to a certain extent...I do date every now and then but definitely don't want to get serious with anyone yet. I make that clear from the outset (minus the stalker detail, no one wants to hear that 
), because there's so much going on it just wouldn't be fair on them to have to take a back seat all of the time.
Or fair on me I guess - don't want to really like someone just for something to get in the way
), because there's so much going on it just wouldn't be fair on them to have to take a back seat all of the time.Or fair on me I guess - don't want to really like someone just for something to get in the way
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They only thing holding me back is I cant find someone who is interested in me.
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SmilerFC: A psycho ex/stalker, concentrating on my degree just now and I suppose my mini-me to a certain extent...I do date every now and then but definitely don't want to get serious with anyone yet. I make that clear from the outset (minus the stalker detail, no one wants to hear that ), because there's so much going on it just wouldn't be fair on them to have to take a back seat all of the time.
Or fair on me I guess - don't want to really like someone just for something to get in the way
Or fair on me I guess - don't want to really like someone just for something to get in the way
Announcing it on a worldwide forum was clever, no?
Ach well, I'm here for the banter anyways...
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