What's holding you back ? (156)
seekndestroy: dude... lesson #1
dont EVER send a chick flowers.....it can only have 2 consequences
1. you get classified as the "he's so nice, but im not interested in him that way" category, hence you get stuck in the "friends zone" or...
2. she gets the idea (if she likes ya) that you are the nice romantic type and WILL expect you to be that way FORVER .... and will make sure to let you know if you EVER fail to meet her expectation
you are better off sending her beer (lots of it) that way, if she likes ya, she'll probably invite ya to drink em with her in which care "you are IN" and if she dont like ya, she'll still be nice and invite ya anyways, in which case once she is drunk you can get yours and she wont remember your name or number in the morning !!!
dont EVER send a chick flowers.....it can only have 2 consequences
1. you get classified as the "he's so nice, but im not interested in him that way" category, hence you get stuck in the "friends zone" or...
2. she gets the idea (if she likes ya) that you are the nice romantic type and WILL expect you to be that way FORVER .... and will make sure to let you know if you EVER fail to meet her expectation
you are better off sending her beer (lots of it) that way, if she likes ya, she'll probably invite ya to drink em with her in which care "you are IN" and if she dont like ya, she'll still be nice and invite ya anyways, in which case once she is drunk you can get yours and she wont remember your name or number in the morning !!!
Or 3. She thinks you might be interested in getting to know her, but isn't delusioned by the idea that flowers are an everyday occurance because she was married for 10 years and is mature enough to realize that flowers are for special occasions.
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you and me the same jeepers!!!!!
We have to overcome it.
We have to overcome it.
jeepers: Looking at profiles I see where people are looking for this, looking for that...but really, are you looking ? Are you ready ?
What's holding you back from going for the one, or ones who seem so interesting to you ?
For me, it is personal insecurities caused by a failed marriage, two relationships afterwards that shouldn't have happened, and financial. I see ladies all the time, thinking I would really like to get to know that person, but I hold myself back.
What's your deal ? I have to go to work now and see what I can do about the financial insecurities now ~!!
Have a nice day.
What's holding you back from going for the one, or ones who seem so interesting to you ?
For me, it is personal insecurities caused by a failed marriage, two relationships afterwards that shouldn't have happened, and financial. I see ladies all the time, thinking I would really like to get to know that person, but I hold myself back.
What's your deal ? I have to go to work now and see what I can do about the financial insecurities now ~!!
Have a nice day.
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seekndestroy: dude... lesson #1
dont EVER send a chick flowers.....it can only have 2 consequences
1. you get classified as the "he's so nice, but im not interested in him that way" category, hence you get stuck in the "friends zone" or...
2. she gets the idea (if she likes ya) that you are the nice romantic type and WILL expect you to be that way FORVER .... and will make sure to let you know if you EVER fail to meet her expectation
you are better off sending her beer (lots of it) that way, if she likes ya, she'll probably invite ya to drink em with her in which care "you are IN" and if she dont like ya, she'll still be nice and invite ya anyways, in which case once she is drunk you can get yours and she wont remember your name or number in the morning !!!
dont EVER send a chick flowers.....it can only have 2 consequences
1. you get classified as the "he's so nice, but im not interested in him that way" category, hence you get stuck in the "friends zone" or...
2. she gets the idea (if she likes ya) that you are the nice romantic type and WILL expect you to be that way FORVER .... and will make sure to let you know if you EVER fail to meet her expectation
you are better off sending her beer (lots of it) that way, if she likes ya, she'll probably invite ya to drink em with her in which care "you are IN" and if she dont like ya, she'll still be nice and invite ya anyways, in which case once she is drunk you can get yours and she wont remember your name or number in the morning !!!
You knowwhat you are right I saw her profile and I thaiught it was nice and stupid me sent her a flower but she could not even say thank you but tonight she trying to be sooooooooooooooo funny about it and to me that says alot I guess I had bad judgement whith profiles
but I should thank her for been so special.
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LadyPhoenix1965: Or 3. She thinks you might be interested in getting to know her, but isn't delusioned by the idea that flowers are an everyday occurance because she was married for 10 years and is mature enough to realize that flowers are for special occasions.
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seekndestroy: dude... lesson #1
dont EVER send a chick flowers.....it can only have 2 consequences
1. you get classified as the "he's so nice, but im not interested in him that way" category, hence you get stuck in the "friends zone" or...
2. she gets the idea (if she likes ya) that you are the nice romantic type and WILL expect you to be that way FORVER .... and will make sure to let you know if you EVER fail to meet her expectation
you are better off sending her beer (lots of it) that way, if she likes ya, she'll probably invite ya to drink em with her in which care "you are IN" and if she dont like ya, she'll still be nice and invite ya anyways, in which case once she is drunk you can get yours and she wont remember your name or number in the morning !!!
dont EVER send a chick flowers.....it can only have 2 consequences
1. you get classified as the "he's so nice, but im not interested in him that way" category, hence you get stuck in the "friends zone" or...
2. she gets the idea (if she likes ya) that you are the nice romantic type and WILL expect you to be that way FORVER .... and will make sure to let you know if you EVER fail to meet her expectation
you are better off sending her beer (lots of it) that way, if she likes ya, she'll probably invite ya to drink em with her in which care "you are IN" and if she dont like ya, she'll still be nice and invite ya anyways, in which case once she is drunk you can get yours and she wont remember your name or number in the morning !!!
good grief.
the real reason to carefully choose the times you send flowers is that she'll wonder what you did wrong that your'e trying to make up for.
otherwise, it's a lovely gesture....keep it up!
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LadyPhoenix1965: Or 3. She thinks you might be interested in getting to know her, but isn't delusioned by the idea that flowers are an everyday occurance because she was married for 10 years and is mature enough to realize that flowers are for special occasions.
well once again.... yall "think" too much.....
some more than others......
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nanners2863: Ouch..this is what happens when jokes go bad!!
Well it not a hoke gone bad it is someone send you a flower because they like your profile and you did not responde and that all good but now you want to get on your soap box and act like you give a damn.
THANK YOU FOR THE LESSON I WILL MAKE SURE IT DOES NOT HAPPEN AGAIN.------ This thread is Archived ------
seekndestroy: well once again.... yall "think" too much.....some more than others......
I'm sorry I'm talking too fast seek. I'm trying to go slow, and use pictures.
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desmond: You knowwhat you are right I saw her profile and I thaiught it was nice and stupid me sent her a flower but she could not even say thank you but tonight she trying to be sooooooooooooooo funny about it and to me that says alot I guess I had bad judgement whith profiles but I should thank her for been so special.
well.... live and learn bro....
next time you like a chicks profile, just hit me up and i'll let ya know how to proceed ....
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LadyPhoenix1965: Emphasis on the RIGHT guy...
you! got that right!
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seekndestroy: well.... live and learn bro....next time you like a chicks profile, just hit me up and i'll let ya know how to proceed ....
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desmond: Well it not a hoke gone bad it is someone send you a flower because they like your profile and you did not responde and that all good but now you want to get on your soap box and act like you give a damn. THANK YOU FOR THE LESSON I WILL MAKE SURE IT DOES NOT HAPPEN AGAIN.
Oh man ..you need to simmer..I said thanx for the flower..then we got a giggle out of the fact you sent one to another here..we are joking that we are not as special as we think we are..it is at OUR expense and not yours. This is the last I will talk of this so don't stop sending flowers..just breathe!!------ This thread is Archived ------
LadyPhoenix1965: Emphasis on the RIGHT guy...
actually i was thinking more in terms of "emphasis on permanent celibacy"
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desmond: Well it not a hoke gone bad it is someone send you a flower because they like your profile and you did not responde and that all good but now you want to get on your soap box and act like you give a damn. THANK YOU FOR THE LESSON I WILL MAKE SURE IT DOES NOT HAPPEN AGAIN.
Aww... Des, I'm sorry. She was trying to say thank you for the flower. It's my fault I jumped on it with my flower and ruined it. I didn't mean for it to cause a problem.
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seekndestroy: actually i was thinking more in terms of "emphasis on permanent celibacy"
for YOU maybe
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felixis99: for YOU maybe
aaaaahhhhhh.....
naaaaawwwww..... im doing fine in that department... but thanks for your concern ma'am.....
dont worry tho... when the time comes (if it ever does) im sure you'll pick it back up fairly quick... its kinda like riding a bike.... you never really forget !!!!!!
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In response to: Looking at profiles I see where people are looking for this, looking for that...but really, are you looking ? Are you ready ?
What's holding you back from going for the one, or ones who seem so interesting to you ?
For me, it is personal insecurities caused by a failed marriage, two relationships afterwards that shouldn't have happened, and financial. I see ladies all the time, thinking I would really like to get to know that person, but I hold myself back.
What's your deal ? I have to go to work now and see what I can do about the financial insecurities now ~!!
Have a nice day.
What's holding you back from going for the one, or ones who seem so interesting to you ?
For me, it is personal insecurities caused by a failed marriage, two relationships afterwards that shouldn't have happened, and financial. I see ladies all the time, thinking I would really like to get to know that person, but I hold myself back.
What's your deal ? I have to go to work now and see what I can do about the financial insecurities now ~!!
Have a nice day.
Fear of rejection mainly.
It is not worth the pain of seeing them leave...
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seekndestroy: aaaaahhhhhh.....
naaaaawwwww..... im doing fine in that department... but thanks for your concern ma'am.....
dont worry tho... when the time comes (if it ever does) im sure you'll pick it back up fairly quick... its kinda like riding a bike.... you never really forget !!!!!!
naaaaawwwww..... im doing fine in that department... but thanks for your concern ma'am.....
dont worry tho... when the time comes (if it ever does) im sure you'll pick it back up fairly quick... its kinda like riding a bike.... you never really forget !!!!!!
tho whoever the "lucky" feller happens to be, may not take so kindly to the "rusty" performance !!!!!
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nanners2863: No..I'm from Canada!
hell.... canada...... same diff.... its just that one is colder than the other !!!!!
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dont EVER send a chick flowers.....it can only have 2 consequences
1. you get classified as the "he's so nice, but im not interested in him that way" category, hence you get stuck in the "friends zone" or...
2. she gets the idea (if she likes ya) that you are the nice romantic type and WILL expect you to be that way FORVER .... and will make sure to let you know if you EVER fail to meet her expectation
you are better off sending her beer (lots of it) that way, if she likes ya, she'll probably invite ya to drink em with her in which care "you are IN" and if she dont like ya, she'll still be nice and invite ya anyways, in which case once she is drunk you can get yours and she wont remember your name or number in the morning !!!