If You have nothing to hide, people will see Your honesty.
We're all suspicios on these sites as We have all encountered scammers!!
You should post a pic. Don't say You want to email to someones personal address. That is one of the first signs that We are told to look for in the 'scam warning' section.
If You tell people You are not a scammer of course They are gonna wonder.
If You are what You say You are then just be honest and true.
It was never meant to be easy. This is why We make such a big deal out of the vows We make to each other. We make these Vows to each other before Our families, our peers and God. This is a ceromony common to all cultures. Although the ceromonies and details differ that fact remains, that We make these promises.
This suggests to Me that a lifelong relationship is against our (animal) instincts. And great effort and sacrifice has to be made.
I think We have all lost loved ones, some people loose arms or legs, and I think We all would like to be able to keep these thing forever.
Of course no one should have to live there life in misery. And nobody deserves to be abused! I guess this is why We must be very carefull about who We choose..
I've lived alone for years and the chores get done By Me. But the women still don't hang around. True We have evolved lots in the last 100 years. But where is love and compasion gone. What happened to young peoples ambition.
It's too easy for a woman to pull down her top a bit and raise her skirt a bit and get what they need. Men have to work for it.
Yes a lot of women have been treated un fairly in the past, and some still are. But not By Me.
It's good to see the table turn, and more rights for women. But I think the scales have tipped to far. I could give everything I have to a women(and have done). but as soon as the spark is gone they've moved on...
You can have a bit of fun with some of these scammers... lead them to believe that You are interested.. see how many times You can get them to spend the time replying telling there sob stories, claiming there undying love, before telling them You have no money. It works sometimes. I guess if We did it enough They might get a real job.
It seems today that when the going gets tough the girls get going.
Family values seem to have gone and our society is going with it.
I think We all need each other!
We should be with someone We want to be with and in the times when We are sick of each other We should hang in there because We need each other. After all We'll get old one day(if we're lucky) and We might be the only thing We have.
I am quite sure if I had children of My own I would think very different about this topic. And if I was a single parent, My children would always come first.
I, however, have never been married or had any children. If I ever find a partner and We decide to marry and have children, I would like to Share the joy of our first born child.
I have myself came from a family with step siblings and have seen many other examples where there is favoritism from the parents and a general feeling of 'Us and Them' amongst the children. I think this distorts the whole idea of a 'family unit' for the children.
Of course I know I live in a bit of a fantisy world where We can bring children up with good family standards, but that is My honest opinion and the reason I would have a lot of trouble falling for a lady with children.
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...thanks.
RE: why the long distance messages?
Hi Milanda..