or another illustration for you, in times of war, how to know who are the best soldiers....send them to fight their battle/s and see who is left standing...those are your fighters.
It's up to one's luck and fate; some are simply unlucky in love, the majority of us on here. The lucky ones are happily married going about their lives.
One does heal love's wounds in loving someone new and in being loved in return; tricky thing though is when the slightest things go wrong. The heart bleeds so easily. The scars are there, those never go away.
RE: I'm kinda bummed...