Does the heart ever REALLY recover? (90)
jodestirNowhere Else, South Australia Australia32 Threads 15 Polls 166 Posts... do the barriers ever come down? Does the heart eventually allow itself to try again? Any comments? 
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jodestir: ... do the barriers ever come down? Does the heart eventually allow itself to try again? Any comments?
For you it has obviously not as yet.
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i have no bandaids on my heart ... it's all good .. just looKN to read others experiences .. have u any comments??
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jodestir: i have no bandaids on my heart ... it's all good .. just looKN to read others experiences .. have u any comments??
Well I have had "heartbreak" in the past but still keep optimistic about the future, maybe though my expectations could be unrealistic but one never knows what is around the corner. I keep an open mind.
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There is only one cure for a broken heart and thats TIME, it does heal all and believe it or not the heart will love again it has a huge capacity for it, and will search and seek its mate in life and keep trying until it finds its other half.
I think also meeting and dating is a way of helping, and then you realise, that the EX wasnt all that and you can do better, eventually finding someone who treats us the way we deserve to be treated.
With love respect and commitment...
I think also meeting and dating is a way of helping, and then you realise, that the EX wasnt all that and you can do better, eventually finding someone who treats us the way we deserve to be treated.With love respect and commitment...
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jodestir: ... do the barriers ever come down? Does the heart eventually allow itself to try again? Any comments?
If we don’t overcome the barriers we have created for ourselves we will always remain a victim.
We all get to pick a wrong un and get taught a tough lesson.
After we escape with deep emotional wounds, we cope by hiding away the real person under a cloud of anger and bitterness. We begin to tar everyone with the same brush and become cynical about the concept of love.
Is that the person you really want to be? If so you will be a victim forever, you have become what they made you, a result of the power and control they still have over you.
Time does numb the pain but does not remove the experience.
I’ve been physically/emotionally abused, lied, and cheated on but that was just the morality of just one person.
I refused to be the victim, I have made the choice to break down the barriers ; to open myself up and to try to become the person I used to be before they came into my life. Sure I might get hurt again but that is a risk I'm willing to take. Some people are fine alone but I'm not, I still feel incomplete.
There is love out there if you want to find; there are decent people who are not abusive, controlling or deceitful. You have to believe in the concept of love and want to find it. The barriers are of our own making and we are the only ones who can remove them.
Alternatively we could just lock ourselves away and throw stones from our ivory towers at passing princes/princesses.
The choice is in our hands..
Without humour, life becomes tedious; Without love, life becomes pointless
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Music_Is_Life: If we don’t overcome the barriers we have created for ourselves we will always remain a victim.
We all get to pick a wrong un and get taught a tough lesson. After we escape with deep emotional wounds, we cope by hiding away the real person under a cloud of anger and bitterness. We begin to tar everyone with the same brush and become cynical about the concept of love.Is that the person you really want to be? If so you will be a victim forever, you have become what they made you, a result of the power and control they still have over you.
Time does numb the pain but does not remove the experience.I’ve been physically/emotionally abused, lied, and cheated on but that was just the morality of just one person.
I refused to be the victim, I have made the choice to break down the barriers ; to open myself up and to try to become the person I used to be before they came into my life. Sure I might get hurt again but that is a risk I'm willing to take. Some people are fine alone but I'm not, I still feel incomplete.
There is love out there if you want to find; there are decent people who are not abusive, controlling or deceitful. You have to believe in the concept of love and want to find it. The barriers are of our own making and we are the only ones who can remove them. Alternatively we could just lock ourselves away and throw stones from our ivory towers at passing princes/princesses.The choice is in our hands..
Without humour, life becomes tedious; Without love, life becomes pointless
We all get to pick a wrong un and get taught a tough lesson. After we escape with deep emotional wounds, we cope by hiding away the real person under a cloud of anger and bitterness. We begin to tar everyone with the same brush and become cynical about the concept of love.Is that the person you really want to be? If so you will be a victim forever, you have become what they made you, a result of the power and control they still have over you.
Time does numb the pain but does not remove the experience.I’ve been physically/emotionally abused, lied, and cheated on but that was just the morality of just one person.
I refused to be the victim, I have made the choice to break down the barriers ; to open myself up and to try to become the person I used to be before they came into my life. Sure I might get hurt again but that is a risk I'm willing to take. Some people are fine alone but I'm not, I still feel incomplete.
There is love out there if you want to find; there are decent people who are not abusive, controlling or deceitful. You have to believe in the concept of love and want to find it. The barriers are of our own making and we are the only ones who can remove them. Alternatively we could just lock ourselves away and throw stones from our ivory towers at passing princes/princesses.The choice is in our hands..
Without humour, life becomes tedious; Without love, life becomes pointless
EXCELLENT RESPOSE ... U are so soooOO right ... move on ... put it behind you ... don't be the victim ...
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Yes it does mend, but it takes time..
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jodestir: ... do the barriers ever come down? Does the heart eventually allow itself to try again? Any comments?
If you have up walls, they are YOUR walls, and you can keep them up as long as you choose..
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jodestir: i have no bandaids on my heart ... it's all good .. just looKN to read others experiences .. have u any comments??
To love, is to risk not being loved in return..
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jodestir: ... do the barriers ever come down? Does the heart eventually allow itself to try again? Any comments?
Well we all grieve differently from a Broken Heart, but yes, we DO recover and come out so much stronger. Life goes on without that special person for us, and as hard as it is, we need to focus our attention on ourselves. We may always have feelings for that special person, but love can come around again, we just need to open our hearts to receive it.
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"IF" we truly loved someone, why would we have a broken heart? Could it possibly be that we are actually selfish, we want them regardless of what they want?
If I truly care about another, I would rather them be happy than be with me..
If I truly care about another, I would rather them be happy than be with me..
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I thought after my last bad heartbreak that I would never open up again and let anyone else in. After 3 years of isolation away from any type of relationship, I don't think the wounds will ever truely heal, but I realized that I am better off without them and not all women are the same. I have alot of love to give for the right person, I'm just more careful in seeing those red flags now.
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HJFinAZ: "IF" we truly loved someone, why would we have a broken heart? Could it possibly be that we are actually selfish, we want them regardless of what they want?
If I truly care about another, I would rather them be happy than be with me..
If I truly care about another, I would rather them be happy than be with me..
Because sometimes people have a B-----D in their lives who has NO regard but for themselves. And a good loving heart does all they can to let this person see where they are going wrong. But i guess in the end these folk are hell bent on distruction, . . . . then its time to get out for the good guys!!
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lostx2: I thought after my last bad heartbreak that I would never open up again and let anyone else in. After 3 years of isolation away from any type of relationship, I don't think the wounds will ever truely heal, but I realized that I am better off without them and not all women are the same. I have alot of love to give for the right person, I'm just more careful in seeing those red flags now.
Hey Lost, you sound a good guy, unlike a lot of guys you have no beef with women, you will do ok my friend.
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It heals with time, but the scars remain. That´s not necessariy a negative thing though.
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englishelegance: Hey Lost, you sound a good guy, unlike a lot of guys you have no beef with women, you will do ok my friend.
If you would have known me 3 years ago you wouldn't say that. But self loathing and hatered get you nowhere, so I am just me now. Live life, show respect to everyone until they give you reason not to.
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jodestir: ... do the barriers ever come down? Does the heart eventually allow itself to try again? Any comments?
Yeah! takes me about 5 minutes, I am that shallow, I have forgotten their names in three days!!. NOT!!------ This thread is Archived ------
My heart has recovered just fine but I will never put myself in a position of losing everything I've worked for again.
I've started over twice. I'm too old to do it again. And I feel that at my age, what I have earned deserves to go to my son ... not a partner of a few years.
I've started over twice. I'm too old to do it again. And I feel that at my age, what I have earned deserves to go to my son ... not a partner of a few years.
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jodestir: ... do the barriers ever come down? Does the heart eventually allow itself to try again? Any comments?
Not really sure. I do not think so. Scar tissue really hurts. I believe in Miracle3s. Lets keep hoping the heart does heal.
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