I see your point of what you say too A., but you also have to have the understanding of what type of relationship the other person wants. Not sure how to explain this but I'll try the best I can.
If you meet someone and you get along great, love spending time together, and all the other things involved in the love department, then you have to have the talk of where is the relationship going. I know a few people who would love to find that special someone and feel loved, but they don't want marriage. Some people are to set in there ways to have someone around them 24/7. It's hard to explain it in words, but some want a life partner without the little piece of paper involved. Here in lies the problem that 1 person in the relationship wants marriage and the other doesn't. I think that even though you may love each other like no other has, if you both can't be on the same wavelength as to where the relationship is going, then one of them has to change thier mind or eventualy it will fail. You can, I believe, have a lifetime of happiness together without the living together.
I said I would never marry again, however if that certain someone comes along who I couldn't see myself without, then I might just change my mind.
I won't go into details because it was a very stupid thing for me to do. I was legaly dead in an ambulance for 1 min 38 seconds.I saw no white light at the end of a tunnel, no fire and brimstone. It was like I went to sleep and nothing more.
I've been wondering about this for a long time. You read in the papers (in the around the world section) about some political or an official of some sort being assassinated. But if you look at the local section, some ordnary person gets murdered.
So how important do you have to be for it be called assassination and not murder?
Everytime I log onto this site and get on the forums, I am surrounded by so many of them.
However in person I would have to say at one of my old jobs, there was 1 peticular woman who I just couldn't stop looking at everytime she drove by on the forklift. Sadly after she left there she moved back to Kentucky.
While what you say is true about knowing the person and not just going by looks. the sad reality of it is, there has to be some kind of physical attraction there. When you first see someone, do you look at them the same as you would anyone else? You see a middle aged, slighty overweight woman walking down the street, do you see her the same as the hot model magazine type? While its very true that whats on the inside is the most important thing, you have to remember that without the physical attration, you will never go past the friends stage.
I read some profiles with no pictures, but only if they are on the forums. If they don't have some kind of picture of themselves, I think they are trying to hide something or embarrassed of themsleves, For me, I like a person to be who they are. If you can't post a photo because your to ashamed someone you know might see it then your not for me anyway. Just my thoughts about it, Take it for what its worth.
Theres nothing wrong with having some pride in yourself, or in your work that you've done. There is a fine line though between pride and arrogance. I love a woman who takes pride in herself, but not those who have so much that they think they are better than everyone else. Without pride you get stepped on, used, and don't care what happens to yourself or anything. As a teenager I had no pride in myself and ended up doing some things I realy regret because it still haunts me to this day. Be who you are but don't act to high and mighty. Just my 2 cents on the subject.
RE: Hot people!
You said it. I always loved beautiful scenery with a good cup of coffee.