True. But for some, it can be difficult to actually flirt with people full stop. But it does have it's advantages, such as breaking away from the conversation and leaving the other person wanting to know more. So slightly more chance of getting the number, i'd think. On the other hand, if someone were to make a bit of a mess of it, rather than dying of embarrassment in front of who they were talking to, it gives a good excuse to say goodbye and leave. Just an idea though.
Hi. After commenting recently on a thread about talking to girls in bars/clubs and stuff, i thought it might be useful to share a good way to do this, if you're a little on the shy side. Bear in mind this would work for the ladies too, probably.
Ok, so. You've just seen a nice girl/bloke sitting at the bar. What would be the best way to approach them and get their number? Well, just make sure you have a wingman/wingwoman who are on the same page as you. This helps. A lot.
Basically, you're gonna want to think up just one thing, a topic which may be interesting to that person. Preferably nothing overly cheesy, but i guess a little cheese could break the ice. Then hopefully the conversation will flow from there. Once you've done that, get a mate you're with to keep an eye on proceedings when you go over to talk to them.
Tell your mate (if all's going well) to come and get you after a certain amount of time, about 5 minutes should do it, suggesting to go to another pub/club. At this point, tell your mate to wait outside for a minute or so while you finish your conversation. Say something like: "Ok. Just give me a sec." As soon as your friend goes, turn back around to who you're talking to, and say you're sorry, but you have to go. Could i have your number? (With a smile.)
If she's/he's interested, you'll get her/his number. If not, you won't. No biggie. This technique is good for asking for a number and getting out of there, sharpish, without having to try to work out another topic to talk about. It's also good because, if you've done it right, they'll want to know more about you, and hanging around someone you're flirting with too long is a bad idea. Less is more as they say.
Anyway. Not sure if this would actually help anyone, but this is just an idea for anyone who's willing to give it a go. Ya never know.
There's no easy way to do it, but you have to develop some confidence in yourself. Or fake it. That's really the only way women will take any notice of you. The reason all your mates seem to be in relationships all the time is because they aren't afraid to ask women out, and that's half the battle. Once you can do that, it'll get easier the more you do it. I mean, what's the worst that can happen? They can say no. But then again, they could say yes. How do you know if you don't ask?
Word of advice to everyone out there - paid dating sites are a MASSIVE scam. It's true what the WKW says; when you're not a paying subscriber you're the most popular guy/girl in the world. As soon as you are a payer, however, that changes. Anyone considering a pay for dating site should really think twice. And then not do it. Twice.
No, I've been involved with a few forums. I was thinking someone could have access to my email account, but why would anyone mess with my pics? If that's the case, they really need to get a job or something...
Ok, this is weird. My main profile pic has been centered and it wasn't me who did it. I was originally on the right hand side. What's going on? Can anyone enlighten me on this???
Hi, I'd like to thank everyone for their input on my poll. I gave her a call earlier today. As it turns out, the poor girl came down with an allergic reaction because of some dodgy fish, which was the reason why she didn't message me back. Anyway, we've sorted something out for next weekend instead. Moral of the story: I'm an idiot.
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RE: why some women like to kiss on a "ceilling" ?!!!!!
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