OK.but just for you as all your comments to me have been nice and friendly and encouraging.
Send me a flower and I will send you one back, and then we can meet and I can buy you a nice meal, take you to a show and put you in a nice comfortable taxi to take you home with a nice bottle of bubbly you can drink on the way dreaming about the wonderful time you have had with this great guy.
call Herr Griimzöllen at Credit Suisse and tell him Smoky said to give you enough money to settle your bills.
SMOKY SAID ABOVE, in case I have not got this right yet.
You forgot to give me Griimzoellen's direct line number, but no matter I have it already on my mobile / handy on a fast dial button. Thanks for the help.
Have a good week now.
Oh, one last thing before I go back to "The Book" I am thinking of starting another really controversial thread as I do not seem to be getting the desired results off my current ones. Having a lot of fun reading your funny replies though and wish some of those lovely ladies that tell me I am not nice, would try to understand me alittle more.
Okay, fella, here is a tip for your future writings on this forum .....
All you do is ..... click on the option below the posting you want to reply to that says "QUOTE". Then make sure your curser is not before the end of that said quote ....... so that what you write comes out seperate to the quote. Makes for easier reading for your readers.
Gee, thanks for that and I have noticed others wre also not aware of this "trick" no doubt it pays to read the instructions but as you no doubt know already, men never do.
No comment on the rest of your spiel, but read and absorbed and appreciated.
Hope I have done it right, will click "post reply" and see. If at first you dont succeed try and try again.
Hey, good comment and even wise perhaps but you will never know will you. Enjoy the brew and the rest of your life as today may be the last day on earth for you. That Rasta bit is not my scene at all, careful now.
They begin the slow downward spiral to dementia and begin living in their daydreams believing themselves to be better situated than they actually are.
It`s a scary age, because it is at the end of the line. AND the habits accumulated over the lifetime become more entrenched and characteristic of the person. Sooo...... someone who continually harps on materialism has always been like that, only now it becomes an obsession.
A truly independent and intelligent person, with high morals, and self-control, also has acquired dignity, and this is reflected in their writings about themselves.
Everything flows along in life, like water, and keeps to its acquired level`- unable to rise above, but quite capable of sinking lower
Dear Smoky, you write wonderfully and I really just love reading your comments. Never nasty just very funny. Keep at it dear lady.
You miss a number of points dare I say but then you are judging without all the real facts, I forgive you.
OK, you seem to be a nice knowlegeable guy, what percentage of my total income should I set aside for entertaining a stream of woman that may or may not be interested in me but just love a GENTLEMAN who will feed them, quench their thirst, taxi them about, supply them with flowers, buy them nice gifts of gold jewellery or silver as it is up in value a lot lately?
The lower the percentagte the more chance for the ladies, otherwise there may not be enough ladies in Spain.
Stingy is not what I can ever be accused of. I just gave myself a cup of coffee, even a packet of sugar to give me energy.
But, I did manage to take a small packet of sugar and one of coffee at a local restaurant whilst their back was turned. But I had to supply the water and electric to heat it.
Darling man ..... film rights are not something offered before a book is printed, not before it is written, and not before sales have proven its popularity ... even us dumbos here know this....
Hey, we are not using the same publisher lady, the one that I use first ask's for one or two chapters and from there on either tells you "please dont call us, we will call you" or he urges you on to complete which I am attempting to do but need a spell now and again thus the forum.
Oh, the film rights bit dearest will be mentioned, suggested, offered by a good publisher with the right connections and understanding of what the whole market is interested in, not just the free periodical papers. This to try to get you writing on the book and not on forums perhaps.
But then dear lady, you know it all better than me.
Damn, here is another call coming in on my mobile, most likely the bank again offering more investment advice.
Have you ever heard the saying "The more they have the less they want to spend it"?
And stop searching the site listing authors by photos, you know well that it will not always be possible to search and find what you want.
Nothing I thought, but then after your comment decided what does he actually mean not being as educated as some and find you use words that are not even in a proper dictionary.
I'm wondering why so many European ladies write their profiles in English, but when you message or flower them, the ones that reply say they're only looking for guys from they're own country?
On second thoughts Taffi, if a lady is looking for a serious relationship or a friend with whom she can meet for a social life, if she lives in Greece or Italy or Spain, how will it work out with you living in Malta. Lot of travelling for one of you.
English is the language of the polital and business world, thus spoken by many. Most dating sites are American and they speak English as you know. There are some dating sites that deal within their own country such as the German site Scout24 one.
Yes, your last question must have you wondering, not personal I am sure, just shrug it off and keep at it.
Damn, saw the thread and decided I would go for Brian Giggs as he is Welsh and wanted to say something nice to you Taff, but perhaps you are right, perhaps it is one of my country folks.
No, let us agree they are equally as good. OK Taffi?
Wondering why I am spending too much time on these bloody threads, think it is the devil in me. Also wonder what has happened to Phoenix, hope he is not ill but that he is having a great holiday somewhere with twenty or so fit young nubiles.
Most of what I write seems to be going over many peoples head. Sorry I will make it simpler and reply without all the explanations so it is simple to understand.
by no offence really, but by no way i want to be around you.
Thanks, I am not that way inclined either. Stick to the ladies I urge you.
Have a good day now.
Have you tried Facebook? You can have millions of friends from all over the world. I am on it and have adjusted it so that all the crap written by "friends" does not show up. How can you have friends that you have never met. In fact I never accept friends request ever. How the hell do I know they are genuine people and not out to eventually try to scam you.
This world is a bad place and many people out there who are terribly dishonest. This makes me very careful but I am not suffering with paranoia, but honesty and intecrety has to be proven to me and I do not automatically accept that honesty is there. When you get to my age you may have been kicked in the teeth often enough to have changed your mind.
I like your sensible writing and am glad this site gives you what you are looking for.
Absolutely correct! I agree with you without reservations.
I am listed.
A lady is listed.
I or she is interested in the other so we make contact.
We write back and forth and agree a meeting could be good for us both as we are looking for the same result.
How is this an INVITATION?
It is an agreement to meet up to see if we two people could give each other what we desire. No strings, nice public open space, no pressure, just let us see and if we feel comfortable in each others company, then let us do it again, perhaps until either one realises it is not on, or both realise it, or both realise hey this is good.
I have done it, always say right from the beginning that we must both be open minded and if after the first meeting shows that the "chemistry" is not there we should be open and honest and thank each other for a nice hour or so.
Simple and nice and easy. Each will pay for their own or each will put in 50% and off we jolly well go.
What could be simpler?
I have not given an invitation, the lady has not given an invitation but the desired result that it seems now all listed people are looking for has progressed a step forward.
Why should one party pay for that? What is wrong with you people, woman work and earn, woman at last get better deals in divorce, woman have equal rights and rightly so. But why do males have to pay?
After 27 years of marriage and knowing the lady over 30 years we suddenly realised we had made an error, so she divorced me.
Three years on my own living like Phoenix on this site seems to be all the time 24 hours per day. Did not like it much so met a lady that was nice enough but 20 years younger. She insisted the age difference was not a problem to her and after she gave birth to our lovely daughter, we decided to get married.
After 16 years of marriage and knowing the lady over 17 years she suddenly realised she had made an error, so she divorced me. She said she had never wanted to get married anyway as it was not in her life plan. I knew for years it was going to come to that as soon as our daughter was old enough for me to not having to be around, as the lady mostly did her own thing and was never there as mums should be. But for me it was comfortable and I was contend. For the last two years I kept a diary on a daily basis as experience of life had tought me to write things down as you never know when it comes in handy. After 27 years of marriage and knowing the lady over 30 years we suddenly realised we had made an error, so she divorced me.
So when her solicitor brought up crap, I copied and pasted the actual occurence as it had taken place, dated and time shown. The best ammunition should be kept in the back drawer and only brought out when you need to use it.
I hasten to add, the "marriage" was never violent or with shouting matches or indeed serious arguments, just two people who should have gone their seperate ways 18 years previous. But then I would not have had that lovely Daughter that I brought up and gave more time to than my first two kids with lady number one. Too busy earning the money to keep us all in a good life style.
The first two born love me and we see each other as often as we can, but the third daughter has taken sides, is now 18 and I have not seen her since she was 15, her mum tried some fast moves but I knew all the banking accounts she had created in her name, so the divorce was not easy on the financial side, that is why I am single and will stay that way.
You thought you had some problematic times? Well did you really after reading this.
Men, remember that Woman are different and relationships mostly are not as deep to them as it is to us males. They think different, are different but we males need them as they need us, or5 humatiy will die out. But rest assured that woman are working on it in some laboratories somewhere, one day they will not need men and I am glad I will be long gone by then.
My first two children tell me their mum would really love to visit me here in Spain but they also say that I should think hard about that as I will never get rid of her if I agree to it. Are they not clever and intelligent children, I am taking their advice.
2. They really can't be bothered answering someone who is calling them a fraud and a fake.
I would be amazed if you could look at all that I have written and can copy and paste hwen I have accusedd anybody of fraud or being a fake.
I do believe I have stated that the possibilty is there that we are using a free dating site that is geared to encouraging us to leave this site and go on to many of the paying sites of which there are thousands. Internet Dating sites are a huge money spinner that is obvious as otherwise there would not be so many.
I have also said the Regulars MAY be paid by the site to keep things interesting and flowing,as forums do as illustrated here.
But do understand that the name CS is a DATING site as people have to list to use the Forum and to list you need to state the type of person you would find interesting and attractive. Dare I say I am not getting any views or approaches as I make it very plain that I am looking for a a person that is solvent, not out for a meal ticket and happy to be friends but not live in each others pockets. Obviously not at all appealing to any of the ladies on this site.
I would almost go as far as stating that if I registered under a different name and HINTED that I am very well off and happy and content to wine and dine and give wonderful gifts to ladies, I would become an interesting catch. Watch out ladies, I may suddenly reappear and prove my point!
I have had enough of this now on any subject and will soon put my listing on hold, just waiting for the one lady I have written to to reply, not terribly patient on that.
Going back to my real retirement now of writing as an Author and my next book due out soon will I am told be a real huge hit with film rights a certainty. Well that is what keeps me busy until I need a break and this forum gives me that. Just had to have a short break from that as it is very exhausting, this book writing. No, I will not change my mind and pay as I have Children and Grandchildren and rather give them the money. Strange person that I am.
See, it's catching on. Some men are mean, some are not. As in all walks of life and all type of people, examples set to us and experiences we have had will mould us in to what we believe in and react to.
I, as you know do not like being taken advantage of by the assumption that I will pay for myself and all comers, but mean is what I am not, certainly not mean to people who have shown their worth and fairness.
I could follow up by stating a real Lady would pay for the man, but that would just upset too many people and I am not out to do that at any time.
Thank you for the question as it shows me that you are thinking about the subject and perhaps have discussed it with friends and been surprised that many of them understand my views.
Have a good long life now and enjoy this free site.
Conrad, is it raining there? That was quick of the mark. Obviously you are very familiar with the rules, never looked at them myself and do not care much for rules. If the moderators strike me off I loose nothing but gain more time to do other things. In fact, think I will and will de-activate my listing very soon, just waiting to see if that lady that has not opened her mail will return from a possible holiday, but surely she would access this site from wherever she is.
I may or I may not resurface, it all depends on my mood. No need to reply, have a G & T instead as I know what you are thinking.
You are a regular that I have noted but some of the other regulars are very silent. I wonder why?
Taff1 you have ladies drooling over you as you hail from the land of song and those lovely valleys. Those wonderful towns, Tonypandy, Trealaw, Treherbert, Pontypridd but must I go on. It is also no doubt your accent as ladies like the sing song accent. I am not being rude, if you would hear me speak you would immediately think WELSH, although I am not but lived amongst you wonderful people a very long time, that is how I got my sense of humour and a little bit of the wind up merchant that used to annoy my mother when I was a kid. Or are you not from the TAFF area but call yourself Taffi as most people automatically think Welsh, Taffi. I know why I get a load of stick, but if just one or two of the readers start taking notice, then that is a bonus.
Years ago I had a girl friend from Trealaw and when we met in Cardiff she always had enough in her purse to pay her way, after all we were both young, not flushed and having to work for the dosh. Her parents brought her up well in my opinion.
Thanks for your input, if we met up we would be immediate buddies, I guarantee it!
You could be right, perhaps I am on the payroll but how will you ever really find out. As to how I thought of creating this thread, easy friend, life experience has tought me there is nothing for nothing. Someone along the line is making money on listings that may or may not be genuine.
Still waiting for some input from non regulars who have "hit the jackpot" on this site and met their sould mate, even if it did not last for eternity.
But then it would be a con! Think about your own situation and results from this site. Same as my results perhaps? So in the end you start clicking on the OTHER sites that advertise on this one and they are I do believe all paying sites. So all those sites could well have formed a consortium to catch a percentage of people who do not wish to pay, we have many on this site, but the people genuinely (I love that word) looking they cave in and the money comes rolling in on one of the other sites.
There is a listing of a what seems to be nice lady just about 45 minutes drive from me, she is looking for a male, around her age in to which I fit, she would really love someone that owns a Motor Home! Sent an E Mail asking her to view my profile and that we can meet somewhere safe for her in a public place, the mail has not even been looked at. She could be on holidays but could the listing be "made up", not real, a con, are they perhaps all not genuine listings? Free labour to build houses whilst millionaires are living close by, a wealthy country and you gave up your time whilst the rich become richer. Better to have organised a rally to get the politicians off their fat arses and spend the tax payers money wisely and collect taxes from millionaires who avoid paying any taxes. Well, the listings by our regular contributors are no doubt almost real, but are the photo's real, is the description real, it is about time the punters, that is us genuine people realised we could be part of a scam.
Hands up some people who have met their soul mate from this site, even if it did not lst and you are back on the search.
Hello regulars! Naturally to my mind you will be insulting and unreal, it is expected of you. I at least create threads that seem interesting to you all.
Absolutely right, bang on, no dates off this site at all, do not expect any as dare I say 99% of ladies listed hereon are looking for a meal ticket. It is obvious to me, staring me in the face, all I do is compare this FREE site with others I have used.
Whilst travelling through Germany and attached countries last year I found a site I could change my location on easily. So when I knew I would be say in Berlin area I would make that my "Home City" and no problem, two of the ladies I met up with have become my close friends albeit Berlin is just an example city. One visited me for 3 weeks here before she had to move back to the US. But she is coming on another visit for a lengthy stay in November this year. A reaaly lovely lady that I courted in the UK some 50+ years ago is visiting me for two weeks in August. A lady from Germany will also visit and she will advise the dates soonest.All have no problem meeting their share of any expense. They feel it fair and just and like my company, like me as a person and are willing to pay their way. I had more dates than I could cope with as it was affecting my travelling plans.
Tomboygirl you could not be more out of touch with my real situation. Why list? Would be nice to have a fair nice lady living near to me but I accept it will not happen. However I just love to see all your stupid silly comments and know you are either all frustrated as you are also not approached so have to take it out on someone, so here I am with broad shoulders for you to insult.
I believe not one of you is being approached also due to the rubbish you write on this and other threads.Having read many of your listings I would not touch you with a barge pole, it is obvious that the real you as a person is not illustrated, whereas you cannot say that about me.
You are all misguided but no doubt nice enough people. Get real and you to will have people visiting you. Have a nice day now!
I am a very suspicious person by nature, brought about by years of experience of business and other things I have been involved in over the years, such as religious things and so much else and have found people are not very honest and now the Internet is making it easier to “fool” people. I have noticed in the EU Forum that there are “regulars” who seem to create threads and comment in forums of all descriptions and subjects. Practically on a 24 hour basis and I have almost come to the conclusion that these people are “paid agents” by the site to keep things going and ticking over regularly. This is due to the fact that humans never or rarely do anything for nothing. Tell me I am wrong, tell me this is silly, and just assure me that what I have seen in life for many years would never apply to a Dating site that is free. No names mentioned as all of you will easily have already spotted our regulars who do not seem to have a life other than commenting on this site.
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Are woman mean?
OK.but just for you as all your comments to me have been nice and friendly and encouraging.Send me a flower and I will send you one back, and then we can meet and I can buy you a nice meal, take you to a show and put you in a nice comfortable taxi to take you home with a nice bottle of bubbly you can drink on the way dreaming about the wonderful time you have had with this great guy.
All subject to my diary schedule naturally.
See what can occur when you are nice.