I was having a very similar conversation with a friend on Friday night. He has kids (I don't) and he was telling me that he checks the text messages on the phones of his two eldest (both boys, aged 13 and 11) to make sure they are not getting into "mischief". A big debate ensued as to the merits of checking your kids messages and up until what age you should do this .... I'm kind of on the fence on it as I don't have kids but I think you maybe shouldn't do it after say 15 or 16. Is it not a bit like reading someones diary???
Couldn't check someone elses messages ... and would hate to think that someone would do it to me ..... I think in a relationship you just have to trust someone until it is very clear that this trust is misplaced. If it gets to a stage where you are thinking about checking someones phone the rot has probably already set in. JMO
I feel for you, I really do .... but you have to delete her number from your phone. She is not a friend. A true friend would steer clear of your ex if she knew it bothered you - even if she was crazily attracted to him. If I was you I would ring her and very calmly tell her that of course she can do what she likes but that you no longer value her a a friend and that you would appreciate if he didn't contact you again.
If she is a real friend she would not want to upset you by showing you the texts. What did you say to her when she showed them to you? It sounds to me that you might be better off without both of them. Just walk away holding your head high and know that you deserve better and that you WILL get what you deserve in the future
Aw ... how cute are you ..."pick me for the panel"
I'm watching Operation Transformation on RTE and I just can't get used to seeing Katherine Thomas on it ... I keep expecting her to ask the contestants to spin the wheel!
I think it has got to the stage now where men just frighten the bejaysus out of me I don't know what I would do with a whole one
It's just soul crushing when you actually pluck the courage up to send someone a photo and THEN they pull out .... any more I will just send one of Mrs. Doyle
You can't please everyone. He sounded to good to be true... he obviously was! It just feeds in to my biggest fear about online dating ... that you will be judged very quickly by how you look ...whereas when you meet someone more "organically" both of you have a chance to like the personality too ....
Ah, sure I'm having an aul' vodka and tropicana now and feeling a bit more chilled about it
I was supposed to have a wee date this week ..... but he pulled put when he saw my photo!!! Scarlet for myself!!!! I mean, he didn't say "Oh sorry, don't want to meet you now that I've seen your photo" ... but he pulled out only hours after seeing it
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