Confidence killer (53)
Orla2010: I was supposed to have a wee date this week ..... but he pulled put when he saw my photo!!! Scarlet for myself!!!! I mean, he didn't say "Oh sorry, don't want to meet you now that I've seen your photo" ... but he pulled out only hours after seeing it
Anyway ....onwards and upwards I guess!
well if hes that shallow your better off without him Anyway ....onwards and upwards I guess!
magic word of the day....next!
salanky: well if hes that shallow your better off without him
magic word of the day....next!
magic word of the day....next!
Thanks! I wouldn't mind but I thought it was a good photo, haha!!! How wrong I was 
I'll just have to bide my time until the next Dublin meet
Orla2010: Thanks! I wouldn't mind but I thought it was a good photo, haha!!! How wrong I was
I'll just have to bide my time until the next Dublin meet
well all things going well ill be going to it when ever it is lol heres hoping we have both had a bit of luck before then thoughI'll just have to bide my time until the next Dublin meet
i think people who have no photo are always are in with a chance of rejection once they send a pic. however, it wasn't very nice of him because he agreed to meet you before seeing any picture.
personally, i won't go on a date without seeing a picture, maybe i'm shallow. i don't care.
personally, i won't go on a date without seeing a picture, maybe i'm shallow. i don't care.
Dr_Hfuhruhurr: i think people who have no photo are always are in with a chance of rejection once they send a pic. however, it wasn't very nice of him because he agreed to meet you before seeing any picture.
personally, i won't go on a date without seeing a picture, maybe i'm shallow. i don't care.
i like to have a face to a name and wouldnt even dream of meeting someone who hadnt got a picture up or sent me onepersonally, i won't go on a date without seeing a picture, maybe i'm shallow. i don't care.
Orla2010: Thanks! I wouldn't mind but I thought it was a good photo, haha!!! How wrong I was
I'll just have to bide my time until the next Dublin meet
I'll just have to bide my time until the next Dublin meet
I've heard plenty of girls on here who have pics up having dates cancelled at the last minute so don't be putting it down to your looks!
There are some clowns on here!
Cheers guys for all the nice replies .... I know I shouldn't let it bother me but it's hard not too.
I think at this stage I have more chance of winning the Lotto than finding a nice Dublin guy ....
I think at this stage I have more chance of winning the Lotto than finding a nice Dublin guy ....
Orla2010: Thanks! I wouldn't mind but I thought it was a good photo, haha!!! How wrong I was
I'll just have to bide my time until the next Dublin meet
I'll just have to bide my time until the next Dublin meet
Hey Ms T! I'm sure a lot of us can say the same thing has happened before...I certainly can anyway and it aint nice!
He needs his head examined. But...in reality he's prob intimidated by your good looks...and just felt you were out of his league! Thats what I reckon anyway!
I think you should put up your pic here and let others decide for themselves!
And btw...dont forget you had 1 of my fb friends admire you...and indeed make contact...on the strenght of your photo! So there
Orla2010: I was supposed to have a wee date this week ..... but he pulled put when he saw my photo!!! Scarlet for myself!!!! I mean, he didn't say "Oh sorry, don't want to meet you now that I've seen your photo" ... but he pulled out only hours after seeing it
Anyway ....onwards and upwards I guess!
Anyway ....onwards and upwards I guess!
Awww big hug, that's pretty awful. I had a date too for this weekend but it fell through so don't fee alone
sorry to hear about this orla
1FieryRedHead: Hey Ms T! I'm sure a lot of us can say the same thing has happened before...I certainly can anyway and it aint nice!
He needs his head examined. But...in reality he's prob intimidated by your good looks...and just felt you were out of his league! Thats what I reckon anyway!
I think you should put up your pic here and let others decide for themselves!
And btw...dont forget you had 1 of my fb friends admire you...and indeed make contact...on the strenght of your photo! So there
He needs his head examined. But...in reality he's prob intimidated by your good looks...and just felt you were out of his league! Thats what I reckon anyway!
I think you should put up your pic here and let others decide for themselves!
And btw...dont forget you had 1 of my fb friends admire you...and indeed make contact...on the strenght of your photo! So there
Ah jeez A, I'm blushing
You can't please everyone. He sounded to good to be true... he obviously was! It just feeds in to my biggest fear about online dating ... that you will be judged very quickly by how you look ...whereas when you meet someone more "organically" both of you have a chance to like the personality too ....
Ah, sure I'm having an aul' vodka and tropicana now and feeling a bit more chilled about it
What a muppet!! and I'd see it as saving time and money on meeting the fool!!
What fiery said!! So true, had nothing to do with your photos ya lil ride ya!!
So yes, let's round them up and do a male only invite Dublin meet.. With a few ladies on the interview panel!!
i think people need to get slightly tougher on dating sites, things like this are going to happen. we cant get upset if it doesnt work out with every person we are mailing. wouldn't even let it bother me. there are plenty more people.
MimiKate: What a muppet!! and I'd see it as saving time and money on meeting the fool!!
What fiery said!! So true, had nothing to do with your photos ya lil ride ya!!
So yes, let's round them up and do a male only invite Dublin meet.. With a few ladies on the interview panel!!
What fiery said!! So true, had nothing to do with your photos ya lil ride ya!!
So yes, let's round them up and do a male only invite Dublin meet.. With a few ladies on the interview panel!!
I think it has got to the stage now where men just frighten the bejaysus out of me
I don't know what I would do with a whole one It's just soul crushing when you actually pluck the courage up to send someone a photo and THEN they pull out .... any more I will just send one of Mrs. Doyle
Dr_Hfuhruhurr: i think people need to get slightly tougher on dating sites, things like this are going to happen. we cant get upset if it doesnt work out with every person we are mailing. wouldn't even let it bother me. there are plenty more people.
Yes Dr (shallow) Hurrrrffff I totally agree
In fact I will go one better and say that no-one can dent my ego on this site
I only care about what the important people in my life think of me....not some random stranger full of weird agendas on a dating site 
Dr_Hfuhruhurr: i think people need to get slightly tougher on dating sites, things like this are going to happen. we cant get upset if it doesnt work out with every person we are mailing. wouldn't even let it bother me. there are plenty more people.
some of us dont have as much confidence in ourselves as you do and it takes very little to knock it 
Orla2010: Thanks! I wouldn't mind but I thought it was a good photo, haha!!! How wrong I was
I'll just have to bide my time until the next Dublin meet
I'll just have to bide my time until the next Dublin meet
It is his loss and you deserve to be treated better than that, as do we all. Plenty more fish in the sea, so just cast off again, you never know you might catch a cracker.
Come to the Drogheda meet Orla,
MimiKate: What a muppet!! and I'd see it as saving time and money on meeting the fool!!
What fiery said!! So true, had nothing to do with your photos ya lil ride ya!!
So yes, let's round them up and do a male only invite Dublin meet.. With a few ladies on the interview panel!!
What fiery said!! So true, had nothing to do with your photos ya lil ride ya!!
So yes, let's round them up and do a male only invite Dublin meet.. With a few ladies on the interview panel!!
Might be an idea to have a northern woman on the panel, I am happy to help with a good cause
Have not been to Dublin in about 12 yrs
Go on mimi pick me for the panel
salanky: some of us dont have as much confidence in ourselves as you do and it takes very little to knock it
i always feel, if a person doesn't want you then why should you spend any of your energy feeling feeling anything for them, good or bad feelings. they aren't worth bothering about. move on to the next person.
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Anyway ....onwards and upwards I guess!