Swissblueeyes Forum Posts (3,371)

LOL.. Can u believe?

He didnt change this because I said lol and he kept calling me including weird hours 130 am and 230 am. sent 8 emails sometimes during the day, ect..sorry but the man wasnt trying to get rid of me..i did it for him by rejecting meeting him..

LOL.. Can u believe?

Update.. The fool made a blog a hour before calling me today and his blog was asking how long you should wait before expecting a 2nd date.. lol..I am sooo glad I check things out and ask a lot of questions before even wasting my time meeting anyone..They need to have warning lables on members like this..The guy told me he isnt even "legally" separated from his wife and shes supposedly been gone 20 years.. lol.. married men online playing.. like we need that along with players?

LOL.. Can u believe?

LoL..Thanks guys..Ya this man was changing his stories from day to day..My guess is he isnt a doctor either..He's just saying he is so he can get more ladies in bed..I rejected even meeting him so his tactic failed on me.

LOL.. Can u believe?

I just got thinking I have heard almost everything being single then another cs guy from Michigan made me realize there is still more to come..lol..A guy who I never met contacted me claiming he is a "doctor".. lol and in our few days of talking the man's stories kept getting more and more bizaar and obviously lies to cover up lies..He would call me sounding like he was on a heavy dose of meds talking very slow and his profile kept changing from day to day..One day it said he was 42 years old, few days later it said 41..Originally the profile said he was divorced, then a few days later the status changed to "separated"..Ok so besides that in our conversations when I asked him how long he was separated his answer was "20" years..LOL..Then a few days later I asked how old his children are and he said 15 and 19..His wife supposedly left him 20 years ago and went to some indian reservation and he hasnt heard from her in 20 years..So, then I asked him about this and he said well i met someone after and had 2 children with her but the mom left as well and he has no clue where the mother is? LOLOL.. WTF? He would get caught in a lie then make some stuttering sounds come out of his mouth like he was trying to make something else up to cover the lies..There are many other things he said that just didnt add up but this was enough for me to just stop communicating with him..Jeesch..I wish these people would stop messing with members who are sincerely trying to date..

RE: When you get replaced for somebody worse

He sounds like a jerk and your well rid of him..It confirms my belief that a lot of men are out for only a womans looks and if they can find a younger model they will replace the other one. If she is 9 years younger than you that I feel is one of the main reasons he did what he did..Hes obviously spoiled and selfish too..In todays world, spoiling the wrong man can be to your disadvantage because so many dont appreciate what they have. I would recommend building up "your" self esteem and try to be a little more selfish in taking care of yourself..It seems a lot of men respect women who do this..I hope you have better luck with the next man you get involved with.

RE: what drives you in love

Thank you..I wouldnt be being honest if I said all I need is just any guy to love me. Im kinda thinking the op assumes all women should be desperate and just take anyone.? maybe Im wrong but that is how his thread sounds.

RE: what drives you in love

I dont think its fair to expect someone to love you no matter if you have zero goals, lazy and dont work or live far away and expect them to pay thousands in airfair to see you or if you dont care about your appearance ect..You have to love yourself first before you can expect someone to love you..Including respect. Just my opinion but thats how I see it.

RE: How Many Tears Have You Shed

I've been going through it for 10 months going on 11 but I wasnt married to him..Was just off and on seeing each other for 2 years. It takes time to heal..Would be great if they had a pill to take for heartache..lol.. how long have you two been broke up?

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

the only time i did that was when a boyfriend i had 5 years ago got me drunk when we were at a hot tub room, we got into a argument and when he was walking out the door i followed him into the parking lot, the door slammed shut and automatically locked me out and i realized i had nothing on. so he got a spare shirt out of his car and put it on me untill he could walk to the lobby and get a key to let me back in.

RE: Does Spending Too Much Time Together Ruin A Relationship?

I think it does..Its gonna crash and burn eventually or get on each others nerves and end up in a argument..Just like as a kid when you had a best friend you hung out with every day..They claim absense makes the heart grow fonder..I'm kinda in agreement with that as long as its not too long.. lol

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

I threw my engagement ring once at a ex fiance after his buddies girlfriend tried flirting with him..

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

oh that one i can believe..i know im a light sleeper..almost anything wakes me up.

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

It got to be like a game for him..He would do something then we'd get in a argument, then hed come back and make up..Nothing obviously ever changed so I finally left for good.. But my son still mentions about the hanging underwear on that tree episode and I guess now it seems kinda funny..

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

I did that once..Got so mad I threw my ex's clothes out the door and one of his boxers flew up and got caught on a limb on the front yard tree..

RE: France on the verge of a crisis like Greece.

It sounds like the states arent the only ones messing up..Seems like its becoming almost a world wide problem..I guess there is no sense in me moving..Like my dad said there will be some sort of problem in almost every country.

RE: If you had to get married again .....

Before I even thought about getting married again it would have to be one heck of a good guy..If ever do it again I already had a big wedding before so my idea of ideal wedding would be on a cruise boat floating in the ocean going to some romantic tropical island..Would get the wedding and honey moon all in one location just me and him and maybe two guests and less stress. The big wedding was extremely stressful..Dont wanna go through that again. lol

RE: NICE PEOPLE ONLY THREAD

RE: Men are from Mars...Women from Venus...

I havent read it..havent had much free time to read it

RE: NICE PEOPLE ONLY THREAD

Thank you..

RE: NICE PEOPLE ONLY THREAD

RE: Men are from Mars...Women from Venus...

bleep bleep.. landing in from venus here..

RE: Im new

RE: NICE PEOPLE ONLY THREAD

I'm trying to be nice does that count?

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

one more try..woke him up because he was snoring?

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

Grrrrr...ok, now i really give up.

RE: 40% of women have done this to their partner at least once...

It was a home made baked chicken dinner and we had accidentally fallen asleep next to each other while oven was on..Woke up to smoke fumes coming from the kitchen. I got taken out to dinner that nite because of it. ya it was a accident.

RE: I like em' real big ;)

I've never seen one that big but I heard about those though..