For those that have been following my situation with the Long Distance Relationship I have come to a new and very unexpected occurance and I would like to know what you would do in this situation.
To begin with I have been married twice. First was a double wedding with my older brother. Her and I were married when I survived the first brain injury in a van accident. After 30 days in 24 hour traction I went back to work (7 months on crutches).
I came home from work early one day to find her with the neighbor. To make that story short I left the two of them to begin their lives together. I remarried four years later to the mother of our daughter. This is one year after the second brain injury in a motorcycle accident. Her and I divorced three years later due to stupidity and brain injury causes (Not making excuses).
Now due to the second brain injury in conjunction with the first brain injury I do not remember my first wife or any of the three years of marriage. I have been told that it is a good thing that I can not remember that marriage but I'd like to make that decision myself and I just can't.
Next comes the ten year Long Distance Relationship which has come to a stall because she met a man.
So I was searching for singles in my town (To help ease this pain) and guess who I found.
Yes, there was my first wife's profile.
Is this a sign? Is this fate? Do I take this chance?
How would you feel if your ex husband who has survived two brain injuries and does not remember you views your profile and sends you a flirt? Also how would you feel as the ex husband who has survived the two brain injuries and can't remember her?
Complicated? You bet
PS. I am NOT taking any action either way for some time because I will wait for the Long Distance woman until I know in my heart that she is gone forever. I would like to hear your thoughts.
That was very nice frenchgirl, thank you **************************************************
What about the love from within? Relationships rely a great deal on self preservation, love, and security. Long Distance Relationships take these to the extreme.
Being secure with who you are is crucial. Believing in your decisions. Understanding what your values are and how they affect you.
Learning self preservation by taking care of your own health.
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RE: What the heck ?? Where is everyone when you need a shoulder to cry on .....
With pride, conviction, strength, and comittment friend. the pride part is negotiable depending what it is you have done of course.