Prettyuptowngirl Forum Posts (228)

RE: Stress Relief

Thanks I'll keep that in mind, although this may get expensive

RE: Stress Relief

Lately I seem to have plenty of these, and need some kind of stress relief, which enerally means, I end up in the kitchen cooking
For some crazy reason, it distracts me, the only problem is i end up with a gourmet meal for 5, which doesn't help my diet

RE: Unbelievable!!!!!!e !! You have to see for yourself.............

Wow what amazing talent! Thanks for sharing

RE: What Music Are you Listening To Right Now? part2

and

RE: Songs for your mood right now!! Part One again :-)

OMG this just so made me cry I need a hug after that

RE: What gift would you take to a first date, flowers?

How about an Orchid? Its different yet very special, and I know it would definitely make an impression on me

RE: IF A GUY SPLITS THE BILL ONN THE FIRST DATE, IS HE-DATEABLE????

We all have dreams LOL

RE: what do women really want

I sure would hope so, cause if she didnt then who else would know?

RE: IF A GUY SPLITS THE BILL ONN THE FIRST DATE, IS HE-DATEABLE????

For me personally I do not mind splitting the bill, as I dont like feeling obligated. However I have to say the gentlemen I have been on dates with would never allow me to pay, and some felt quite insulted or offended when I offered
I also think it depends on the circumstances. Most females today, earn the equivalent of men, so have no problems in splitting the bill and it also depends on kind of date it is......

RE: Would you date your best friend's ex?

Dating your friends ex is a sign of disrespect for her, and the friendship you share. I would most definitely never consider it, as our value the friends i have, so in simple english "NO" you not foolish & i would have u as a friend anyday based on your values & loyalty to your friend

RE: Do you some times feel unloveable?

I personally think we all join CS for reasons of our own, some of us because we lonely, some of us, because its a forum to just talk to people without feeling like u being judged, although im not so sure after, reading some of the responses on CS, and many of us because we want to make new friends, and who knows where this will lead to.
Irrespective, how beautiful, gorgeous, simple, plain or indifferent we all are, we all have our moments when we need to be loved. No one is ugly unless only because this is what we see at that moment in time.

Sometimes we all need to feel beautiful, loved, special and why not let the people on CS make them feel like that
There are many kind people on CS, and its one of the reasons I love being here

RE: Are they single or married ?

DB to be honest divorce in our culture is almost forbidden, sometimes even under extreme grounds irrespective of the no of years. This allso is not a matter of choice its a given, and some still practice it ardently. Thank God todays parents are seeing the light as one would say, and have become more accepting, although the coomunity still ostracize you for it.
But u learn how to deal with it and we all make the most of our circumstances. Trying to convince others to change their thought process, often can be a waste of time, as most people only see what they want to. Besides it doesn';t change who or what I am

RE: what is the problem with sa woman?

You forgiven, we understand the love you have for your brother and hey I probably would hate some chick too, if she was mean or used my brother But come to think of it, I'm the only sister with 4 brothers, so they always looking after me, poor sods

RE: Are they single or married ?

Yay someone who understands

RE: what is the problem with sa woman?

and Dark blue Sweaters, or better still in our Denim Dresses LMAO

RE: what is the problem with sa woman?

Ireland Hungary? Why not, lets arrange this....... sounds like a plan to me

RE: Women who can't cook

Hmmmm the girls just love you for this............ Romantic and a gentlemen!!!

RE: what is the problem with sa woman?

My sentiments exactly !!!

RE: what is the problem with sa woman?

We should party some time

RE: what is the problem with sa woman?

Ummm Generalizing? I'm a South African chick, am not stuck up, and definitely dont wear baggy blue jeans and dark blue sweaters I'm nore the Armani, Gucci type of girl LOL, Guess u just met the wrong one's.............

RE: Women who can't cook

We all "DO" LOL

RE: Are they single or married ?

I'd like to think not. I never talk about my ex, I think its disrespectful to the person I'm with. Besides I never like talking about him when we were married, why would I now?

RE: Are they single or married ?

Hmmmm No thanks, not for me Once bitten twice shy, and have NO NO intention of getting back with my Ex ever

RE: what is the problem with sa woman?

oh dear I'm an S.A woman living in Hungary...there is nothing wrong with us, as far as I'm concerned. Wo said there was?
The majority of SA women I know have 2 full times jobs, one during the day, the other at night, while there husband drink beer and flick the tv channels

RE: Are they single or married ?

I'm "just" separated, but for over 10years now. Too many complications in getting a divorce at the time, and I did not have the energy to deal with it at the time. I do know that I have to get a divorce one day...but it's not good to rush into these things, and besides I'm always very upfront about my marital status. I see no point in lying. So yes on paer we married, but in reality very far from it

RE: Women who can't cook

I can cook, very well in fact, most of my friends say I'm in the wrong profession, and when I'm seriously stressed I love escaping to the kitchen for time out
However there are times when I don't feel like cooking, and its certainly not because I cant cook

RE: The guy says he will call you back

Ever watched the "Movie: He's just not that into you"?
It has all the answers you looking for....

RE: is it better to try and date someone from your own country?

I'd say u would find it extremely difficult to date someone if you in different continents Women like to be wooed and surprised, and unless u have your own private jet, I think it would be a tad difficult
Unless u mean, falling in love with someone from another country?

RE: would u give up?

Hello Grand dad R, I hear you, and yes agree that majority of us are in the same predicament. A few times, eish, thats a tough one, What happened to once bitten twice shy rule?

And yes u right, their are many options, one being renting out your existing property, or just selling it, and investing the money? Both have pros and cons, I would think

Besides to be honest, its a life changing decision, so both parties would have to discuss and come to an amicable arrangement?But thats what makes falling in "Love" with the right person so much more special, as its a joint decision, and not one sided

Who knows what the future has in store for any of us, so I'm holding thumbs

RE: BLIND BUT..................

Brilliant