Would you date your best friend's ex? (48)
kekei: A very dear friend of mine had a painful breakup. We had all been friends for almost two years. She took him to Jamaica and that's how I first met him. When I would visit her in her country she would ask him to show me around if she had to go to work.
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?
Not while he's still alive
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best friends ex's are a no-go zone
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Very, very, very wise.
Jac xxx
Jac xxx
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you did the right thing.
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Without a doubt you did the right thing. Good for you for being a true friend. 
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hell no
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A very dear friend of mine had a painful breakup. We had all been friends for almost two years. She took him to Jamaica and that's how I first met him. When I would visit her in her country she would ask him to show me around if she had to go to work.
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?[ /quote]what happen to the student you were speaking the other nite?
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?[ /quote]what happen to the student you were speaking the other nite?
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kekei: A very dear friend of mine had a painful breakup. We had all been friends for almost two years. She took him to Jamaica and that's how I first met him. When I would visit her in her country she would ask him to show me around if she had to go to work.
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?
I would see how she felt about it. I doubt if I could handle it.
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kekei: A very dear friend of mine had a painful breakup. We had all been friends for almost two years. She took him to Jamaica and that's how I first met him. When I would visit her in her country she would ask him to show me around if she had to go to work.
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?
Trust me, dear, you did the right thing. Just imagine if you were in her shoes and her ex asked your best friend out after you just had a lasting relationship. I think most of us would be pretty frustrated if that happened to us.
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Read my poem...been there...not the best position to be in...they had been apart for nearly 2 years...he was a friend, as much as she was...we did not mean for things to progress as they did......now..well she has him back....and I got my fingers burnt....lost both of them as friends.....
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dolphin1: Read my poem...been there...not the best position to be in...they had been apart for nearly 2 years...he was a friend, as much as she was...we did not mean for things to progress as they did......now..well she has him back....and I got my fingers burnt....lost both of them as friends.....
Possibly they were not really friends..
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date no...... be friends with, sure why not........
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Hell no...... you've not seen my mates ex's.....
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gos with out saying...no
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do you value your friendship ?
if you do , then no !
true friendship is hard to come by & not all infatuations work out .
if you do , then no !
true friendship is hard to come by & not all infatuations work out .
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kekei: A very dear friend of mine had a painful breakup. We had all been friends for almost two years. She took him to Jamaica and that's how I first met him. When I would visit her in her country she would ask him to show me around if she had to go to work.
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?
Dating your friends ex is a sign of disrespect for her, and the friendship you share. I would most definitely never consider it, as our value the friends i have, so in simple english "NO" you not foolish & i would have u as a friend anyday based on your values & loyalty to your friend
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hotstuff34: best friends ex's are a no-go zone
Wise, kind, respectful...words!
A friendship is much more valuable that a rlationship with a man (this case).
There are millions of men and friends only a few.
the same goes for women.
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hotstuff34: best friends ex's are a no-go zone
I agree
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kekei: A very dear friend of mine had a painful breakup. We had all been friends for almost two years. She took him to Jamaica and that's how I first met him. When I would visit her in her country she would ask him to show me around if she had to go to work.
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?
When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?
What would I have done????
I could not chose my parents or my children, the only thing I can chose are who Im gonna get in a relationship and who Im gonna be friend with
would I be comfortable to look my friend in the eyes after I banged his Girl/Woman ....
so My answer is NO , I would/ will never have an affair/date with my friends ex
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When they broke up, he and I still kept in touch. She would know when he is coming to Jamaica and he would tell her that he will try to see me when he gets here. I would pick him up and hangout until he leaves. From time to time I would tell him that I was sorry that they broke up and encourage him to have hope.
One he called to say hi and eventually he told me that he wanted to start dating me. I said no, and explained that I could never even consider it, especially knowing that she still loved him. To me it would feel like betrayal. Is that foolish?
What would you have done?