Not trying to trash your thread, but kinda relevent. Hmmm, my profile said I didn't want anymore. He didn't want ANY. Why is it he adores my two and there's a third en route?
Most only know what they want right that second.
Love + kids + life can leave unexpected outcomes. lol
BUT lots of folks forget about house payments, utilities, food, whatever, when they're paying child support and pissed that the kid ain't wearing new brand name clothes. More to supporting a child than the tangible, material items.
AND this is coming from someone who's never received a plugged nickel in child support.
Still agree there should be accountability for some percentage of support funds received.
No advice to be given here. Momma sounds confused and you'll need to decide if you want to ride out the storm or save yourself.
As far as the child situation...single parents, take heed to the emotion a child can bring into a relationship and never take that responsibility lightly.
Every person finds different characteristics attractive no matter the color, religon, nationality, whatever.
Just physical preference. Tall, short, slim, stocky, blond, brunette...
I don't get it?
Meaning would you rather look at a white person or a black person?
I'd rather look at Montel Williams than Archie Bunker, so uh, once again, I don't get where black/white comes into play except for predjudice either way.
I don't think many folk are going to touch this one.
But having lived in different vicinities, I think acceptance is different amoung geographical areas.
Sad.
My only experience was running around with my very best friend a little too much once, Jamaican. All we ever did was go dancing. Ahhhhhhhh, won't even go into all that. It reached a point where my pathetically predjudice family began to give me much grief.
Got a small taste of what some folk that are actually in an interacial relationship must encounter.
Sickened me to the core.
I guess that's my thoughts, but pretty useless. lol
RE: The Ultimate Bond?
LMAOOOOOOOOONot trying to trash your thread, but kinda relevent. Hmmm, my profile said I didn't want anymore. He didn't want ANY. Why is it he adores my two and there's a third en route?
Most only know what they want right that second.
Love + kids + life can leave unexpected outcomes. lol